We let him wander about the house last night and he met his new sister, which went a lot better than I thought it would. They just stared at each other across the room, then Drum went back to her bed and Bruce flopped on the floor and lay there looking at her from several feet away. Neither seemed stressed, and Drum eventually turned her back on him and went to sleep.

When he went back to his room, she came over and sniffed the floor where he'd been lying. I'm trying hard not to humanise her but she really did look a bit peed off!

there's lots to choose out there Lisa - this is just one site https://www.legendurn.co.uk/pet-cremation-funeral-urns.html

you and Robyn will I think find some relief from your grief in spending time together planning a final send off for Leo - perhaps choosing a special plant too - it's only a brief distraction but as time goes by you will find comfort in doing it properly, and will have photos too to look at

Thanks so much everyone.

A zillion things are going round in my head.
All the if's & buts & what if's.

For the past 2 weeks his water fountain, syringes, litter tray, bowls of water all over the house, his meds, were our life line. Now they mean absolutely nothing because he's not here anymore.

I am trying to hold it together for my daughter Robyn but we always called Leo her brother as Robyn was our IVF miracle & we couldn't have anymore.

I'm sorry, I'm rambling..

Just in total shock still I think. I can still smell him. I keep finding his hair on my clothes. I miss him so much 😭😭😭😭