Hi Jen65. The reddy,orangy discharge is just a sign that she is due soon and from what you say with her following you around also. if she will allow you just get a piece of damp tissue and help her clean a bit in that area, but if she is not happy for you to do that don't mess with her as it will only stress her out and she will clean herself up when after her tummy has gone down. She will begin to cry alot when the contractions start and you will see her tummy move in like a rippling motion but don't be alarmed, this is normal, it's only the kittens moving into the right position. My babies sleep with me so she will let you know when she is ready believe me, but she may just surprise you and have them on your bed I'm afraid, that has happened to me before now but heyho thats what washing machines are for.....Ha Ha. On another note, after reading your full blog I noticed that the tom cat that you were looking after was supposed to be neutered are you sure that he wasn't? Or does Cookie usually go out?