Hi All
Advice and reassurance needed to wobbly cat owner. I've been feeding and befriending two feral (mum and young male) cats for about 14 months. Mum is fine and is now well and truly a house pet cat - but the little un has remained scared, wary and unhandable. He will come into house, eat and find a corner to hide in for a few hours before wanting to be out.
I've been pondering how to get him to vets to be neutered and checked without ruining the tenuous bond we have which has been v hard won! Anyway, whilst working with local animal rescue centre to catch another feral cat in the area - I had agreed for them to leave a cat trap in my garden and when Ive got him from work my boy has got himself in there and is crying his little heart out.
Cat rescue people are going to collect him and get him neutered - I know its the right thing but am v wobbly at how scared he is and how he will be when he comes him tomorrow.
Can someone tell me he will be OK (I know im being stupid!!!), and how I can best look after him when he is brought back tomorrow??