Hi folks, Happy New Year!
I'm looking for a bit of feedback, see if anyone has come across this (I'll try to keep it brief!)
The other year I took on a kitten (Tortie female mad thing!) to live with my other two (all FIV+ so house cats with access to outdoor run). Ben was an older male and Buffy 4 yrs female. Did all the intros properly etc etc. Mitten (the kitten, 5 months when I took her) was a very highly strung little thing (poss semi feral stock) and was always very bristly/ hackly tail puffed up. After she was spayed, Ben started spraying in the house and Mitten started losing the fur on he head between her eyes and her ears, both side, which scabbed up. Vets tried injections and creams but no change. All cats up to date with flea/worm treatment etc. Anyway, vet suggested could be stress....feliway made a difference to an extent, and gave high up places for Mitten to chill out, burning lavender.......but while scabs would clear up for a while, they always returned and I really couldn't find a reason, although the cats didn't really get on, there was still some scrapping and this was after she'd been with us 18 months. No skin scrapes were done as vet was convinced it was stress related. in the end vet suggested putting them all on tranquilizers. (I posted on this on someone Else's query thread recently) I decided this route wasn't for us for all sorts of reasons, put it down to personality clash and after much agonising Mitten went to a new home (an amazing one I have to add! But they wouldn't take me!) Instantly the atmosphere in the house relaxed, and the other two were fine again. It was definitely only me and one of the dogs that she played with who miss her!
The point of this is coming!
I recently lost Ben

and have moved house. Some of you may remember the FIV cat Bobby from the CC forum, he came to live with me and Buffs (and the dogs). Again, intros made sensibly etc etc and all seemed to be going well (although madam is still a bit reluctant to let him upstairs and onto the bed with us). Bobby is fab by the way he's a proper babe and settled well with the dogs and in general, he's very outgoing and loves cuddles from me and visitors that come. I had feliway plug ins in from the beginning as it was a new house and all that.
Anyway, recently I've noticed scabs starting on Bobby in the same places as Mitten had them. At first I thought it might have been where Buffs had clobbered him, but the scabs are on both sides. It's not as pronounced as with Mitten, his fur is still there and it's just little scabs. He'll be off to the vets this week to see what this new vet says.
What I'm after is anything from anyone who might have come across this before? I've been involved with rescue etc for the last 6 years yet when I've spoken to catty people about Mitten no one seems to have any experience of this. I know you lot on here are great and I really hope someone has some knowledge of this and/or some advice. Those couple of you I've spoken to know I love my little family and only want the best for them. I really hope it isn't stress related (incidentally the feliway has run out....will be replacing it to see if it has any effect) as I don't want to have to go through the agony I did with Mitten. Is it me?! Is there something in my house that doesn't agree with newcomers?!!!! Is it an FIV problem I just haven't come across in the 8 years I've had positive cats?! Both cats generally seem settled, although there's still the odd bust up (particularly upstairs) it's still fairly early days I suppose but they eat together and share litter trays and will both come and chill out in the front room with me and the dogs.
So, I hope someone can help, I look forward to reading any replies or similar experiences. There's no spraying going on by the way. Will also have to see what the vet thinks.......
Thanks all. Take care
x