She is beautiful. So pleased to read the whole thread in one go and see she is well.
I was reluctant to have our 1st kittens in our room as I am a light sleeper, and I thought they would startle me awake.
I caved in after a short time, and at 1st it was a novelty for them and they were naughty. And then they settled into a routine, and it didn't bother me.
Now we have all 4 with access to everywhere at anytime. Some nights when My big lad jumps on me en route to somewhere important, it does wake me. He weighs aprox 7kg(not fat he's big boned)lol
But the lovely cuddles I get from the youngest are precious as he isn't generally a cuddler, just early hours of morning.
Maybe try her when you aren't needing to get up for work, have a play session before bed and get her into a routine, we did
Play, Dreamies, Sleeps.
Mostly works, give it a few nights trail, you know you want to.lol
Good luck, sorry for waffling under the influence of cold medicine. :D