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Re: Moving house - advice
« Reply #22 on: July 10, 2014, 00:43:11 AM »
Love that pic of Bebe  :Luv2: :hug:

Congrats on your move and I'm sure all will be well soon.  I've only ever had one cat at a time so no idea but it's nice to hear from other Purrs members to give you some tips.

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Re: Moving house - advice
« Reply #21 on: July 09, 2014, 23:04:39 PM »
Sounds as if Bruno knows that his food is safe from Bebe, so he goes and eats hers first, knowing that his will still be there. He sounds like a proper little pickle!  ;D

Pickle is a polite term for him :) but we love him very much.

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Re: Moving house - advice
« Reply #20 on: July 09, 2014, 15:42:14 PM »
Sounds as if Bruno knows that his food is safe from Bebe, so he goes and eats hers first, knowing that his will still be there. He sounds like a proper little pickle!  ;D

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Re: Moving house - advice
« Reply #19 on: July 09, 2014, 13:14:21 PM »
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Re: Moving house - advice
« Reply #18 on: July 09, 2014, 12:53:05 PM »
Thank u for the advice. I explained it to Bebe and this was her stance on the matter..... :Luv2: :rofl:

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Re: Moving house - advice
« Reply #17 on: July 09, 2014, 08:03:58 AM »


Our two sometimes do that, but it's more curiousity in case one of them has something the other wanted and hasn't got.    And sometimes even F gets in on the act, so we have to put three bowls down, or four if we're feeling generous and want to outwit them.

Just pick Bruno up and plonk him down in front of "his" dish.  If you continue to do it, he'll quickly get the message.  Clearly Bebe is like Tinks, she doesnt take it to heart, this thievery that goes on under her very nose.    :-:

You could also wait until Bruno is finished his and then feed Bebe, but I think it's more sociable to feed them together and just keep picking Bruno up if he wanders or shoves his way to both bowls. 

Another alternative is to fill the two bowl, then put them down a couple of feet apart from each other, with you standing in the middle to enforce territorial boundaries.

I still think it's best though just to remove and replace.  :)

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Re: Moving house - advice
« Reply #16 on: July 09, 2014, 07:29:55 AM »
Yes. I think we will b keeping them in. Too precious to risk it. I have a question about feeding which is a little off topic but when we put down the bowls with their meet Bruno will leave his and bug Bebe whilst she is eating which causes her to walk off. He then eats all of her pouch, returns to his bowl and eats all of his. We have tried hissing at him when he goes to her bowl but Bebe looks at us in a 'don't tell him off' kinda way. Should we just leave him to it? We don't want to keep feeding Bebe on the kitchen side and now Bruno can jump up there too. Any thoughts??

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Re: Moving house - advice
« Reply #15 on: July 09, 2014, 07:10:51 AM »


I've heard people say "Oh some cats just seem to have an innate road sense" and I would agree - the trouble is, you dont know which ones they are until it's too late..... 

I've come to dread those telephone calls that begin "Hello, do you have a ginger cat....?"

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Re: Moving house - advice
« Reply #14 on: July 08, 2014, 15:45:23 PM »
The other thing is that they dont know about outside and if you moved again to somewhere with no outside then there would be all kinds of problems.

I really love to see my cats outside but Lupin just wants to run free without his walking jacket and lead but if he ran free I would probably lose him within days  :(

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Re: Moving house - advice
« Reply #13 on: July 08, 2014, 15:09:42 PM »
Yes, it would be expensive if you got a professional in to do it.  There are systems which are capable of being dismantled, but again not sure how much that would cost.

If you cant "cattify" your outside space, then I doubt I'd let Bruno or Bebe have access to it.  I've lost two cats to the roads in the last 2 years, and a neighbour's cat was lost just a month ago to the same spot.  It's heartbreaking coming to terms with their loss.  :hug:

That's our concern. We love them far too much to risk loosinf them. Would break our hearts.

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Re: Moving house - advice
« Reply #12 on: July 08, 2014, 15:06:49 PM »
Yes, it would be expensive if you got a professional in to do it.  There are systems which are capable of being dismantled, but again not sure how much that would cost.

If you cant "cattify" your outside space, then I doubt I'd let Bruno or Bebe have access to it.  I've lost two cats to the roads in the last 2 years, and a neighbour's cat was lost just a month ago to the same spot.  It's heartbreaking coming to terms with their loss.  :hug:

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Re: Moving house - advice
« Reply #11 on: July 08, 2014, 14:10:43 PM »
So pleased the move went well, and no after effects.  Bruno certainly looks fine and dandy.   :evillaugh:

If you have a courtyard garden, why not consider getting it "cat proofed" so they can have safe access to it?  There are a number of diferent ways it can be approached, and it can be possible to do it unobtrusively.  If you or your OH are good at DIY, there are some good online guides for doing this yourself.  That would be the best solution of all for Bebe and Bruno - access to outside space, but safe from the perils of the road, dogs, kids etcetera. 




It's a rented property so we can't do things without asking. We did ask a company who specialise in cat proofing garden - quote £900-£1000

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Re: Moving house - advice
« Reply #10 on: July 08, 2014, 14:05:31 PM »
So pleased the move went well, and no after effects.  Bruno certainly looks fine and dandy.   :evillaugh:

If you have a courtyard garden, why not consider getting it "cat proofed" so they can have safe access to it?  There are a number of diferent ways it can be approached, and it can be possible to do it unobtrusively.  If you or your OH are good at DIY, there are some good online guides for doing this yourself.  That would be the best solution of all for Bebe and Bruno - access to outside space, but safe from the perils of the road, dogs, kids etcetera. 



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Re: Moving house - advice
« Reply #9 on: July 08, 2014, 13:51:31 PM »
If they are young and wall is under 6ft they will eventually try to get out.................grass always better on otherside lol

If there is anything that will help give them a leg up this will also be used.

As they get bigger 6ft will be too low, cats can jump up at least 10x their height.

Lupin would climb up if anything to grip....sigh

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Re: Moving house - advice
« Reply #8 on: July 08, 2014, 13:48:40 PM »
is he neutered yet?  I wouldn't let him out until then just in case his hormones get the better of him and he tries to escape

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Re: Moving house - advice
« Reply #7 on: July 08, 2014, 13:28:35 PM »
Hi all

Well I don't think we needed to worry. they are fine, acting like they've always been here. exploring all the new areas and enjoying running up and down stairs (lived in a flat before). They are eating and drinking and most importantly playing as normal. The only thing is we have a courtyard garden with a wall around it, if we let them out (they are indoor cats) would they try and escape or would they happily sit ??

Here is a pic of Mr Bruno exploring and looking cheeky


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Re: Moving house - advice
« Reply #6 on: July 06, 2014, 12:18:28 PM »
Jezebel beat me to it about the bed.  My Dad moved 9 times with his Army parents and they always got those beds made early on.    You may alsoneed  to pack a box of treasures to go in the car with you, as these can easily be miss placed.  Plus do an emergency kit with plasters, wet wipes, toilet paper, hair brush etc, because you will be living in chaos for a few days.

Depending on your new neighbours you may wish to put a few notes through doors announcing your cats arrival to make sure everyone knows they are yours, this is especially so if they don't wear collars.  One young couple, who rented around the corner, did this for their Siamese and I thought it was a brilliant idea.  We are semi-rural here so no thugs to take it the wrong way.

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Re: Moving house - advice
« Reply #5 on: July 06, 2014, 10:02:16 AM »
If the weather remains warm, be very careful of open windows, you know how cats can get through the smallest spaces! Do you have any 'tip and tilt' windows?

No I think they are just your normal modern Windows. We got them some natural relaxing tablets. Hoping that'll help. I hope they don't get too stressed out.

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Re: Moving house - advice
« Reply #4 on: July 06, 2014, 09:43:07 AM »
Can I just add a non-cat related moving tip? Pack your duvet, pillows and sheets separately so you know where they are and make the second thing you do (after seeing to the cats) making up your bed. You'll be so glad you did when it's finally bedtime!
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Re: Moving house - advice
« Reply #3 on: July 05, 2014, 18:42:15 PM »
If the weather remains warm, be very careful of open windows, you know how cats can get through the smallest spaces! Do you have any 'tip and tilt' windows?

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Re: Moving house - advice
« Reply #2 on: July 05, 2014, 13:44:21 PM »
OOoh a new house - how exciting!   

It can be a very stressful time for cats though, so you do right thinking in   advance of how you can help the process.  I know having done it with one cat, that was pretty stressful for us all !

I would say before the removal men arrive, ensure the cats are enclosed in one safe and secure room.  Try and empty it of anything other than essentials.  Put the cats things in there - beds, food, water, litter trays.  Make sure there's a note firmly affixed to the door asking people NOT to open the door.  My tip would be to empty this room last, and either take the bedding, toys, food etc in the car with you, or put it on the van last - that way you can get it out first, and reverse the process at the new house - first things to go in are the cats' things in their designated safe space, and then the cats, making sure the door is securely closed and again marked "Do not open."

Put Bebe and Bruno in their cat carriers just before you're ready to go.  Make sure they're secure.   Load up, and off you go.

I would suggest Pet remedy plug ins - one upstairs, one downstairs.   Dont let the cats out of their safe room until all of the removal men have gone and you've got things largely where you want them - even if its just putting the boxes in the designated rooms - the familiar smells will reassure them about the unfamiliar ones, all being well.    Make sure all doors, windows and exit routes are shut and secure before letting Bebe and Bruno out.   Because the house will be new to you as well as them, I can't emphasise this enough - visualise anywhere there may be an opportunity for escape, and make sure it isn't an option before you let them out to explore.

We had a cat who decided to clamber up our open chimney once.......     :doh: :doh:  It took weeks to get the soot out of his fur.   :-:

When you do let them explore,  try not to feel anxious about it - they'll pick up on that.  We went round showing Paddy all of the "new stuff" and just chatting to him about all the advantages the new house had (he was relaxed after the first couple of hours).  As Paddy was an indoors/outdoors cat, we'd planned to keep him in for two weeks but he was frantic to get out after a week.  Yours may find the great outdoors at your new house a fascinating prospect, so just be vigilant.  :hug:

If you can, try to recreate your cats' routine from the old house, so that they know although the property may have changed, the daily rituals go on unchanged - that's very reassuring for them.  Try and play with them as often as you can so things go on unchanged.

And on moving day, make sure that once the cats have been settled in, and your front door shut for the night, you have a nice bottle of wine and something tasty to eat, because you'll be feeling frazzled, and ready for your bed.   :evillaugh: :hug:  We took Paddy up to bed with us that first night, and again, that maintained his routine and helped him to feel "safe".   Tess also snoozed in the bedroom with us  :)  (Lord, I miss that dog; she was the sweetest!)

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Moving house - advice
« Reply #1 on: July 05, 2014, 10:04:17 AM »
Hi all

Bebe and Bruno are moving home very soon with us and I was wondering what would make it easier for them?

Would it be useful to buy a diffuser of some kind to plug in? If so, which one?

Thank you guys

Nik :)

 


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