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Offline cuddles2

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Re: My beautiful girl!
« Reply #8 on: September 03, 2011, 23:43:09 PM »
After 20 years you must really miss her.  What a special friendship and treasured memories  :hug:

Offline Tiggy's Mum

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Re: My beautiful girl!
« Reply #7 on: August 25, 2011, 18:59:04 PM »
Sorry to have to welcome you to Purrs in such sad circumstances :hug:

RIP Darcey, safe and sound at the Bridge by now xx

The Greatest Gift

I always knew this time would come,
From the very instant our eyes first met.
How I loved you then! How I love you now!
I made a promise then, and I will keep that promise now...
You will not suffer from a pain that will not heal;
You will not know the loss of a life remembered, now gone.

It is for me alone to make this decision,
The price for the bright joy and pure laughter
You brought me during the time we shared.
I am the only one who can decide when it is time.
When my hope dies, and my fear rides high,
Just when I need you most, I must let you go.

It is for you alone to tell me when you are ready
For without your guidance, I will not know
When to lay my grief, my guilt, my anger
My sorrow and my selfish heart aside
And give you this last gift, this greatest gift.
Your eyes will speak to mine, and I will know.

The pain of this moment is excruciating.
Tears stream down my face in a river of sorrow.
And my heart drowns in a pool of grief.
For you have spoken and I have listened,
And unlike other decisions I have made
This one brings no relief...no comfort...no peace.

For if there´s one thing you´ve taught me,
If there´s only one thing I´ve learned...
Unconditional love has a condition after all,
I must be willing to let you go, when you speak to me
I must be willing to help you go, if you cannot go alone.
And I must accept my pain so you can be free of yours.

Go easily now, go quickly now,
Do not linger here, it is time for you to leave.
Go find your strength, go find your youth.
Go find the ones who've gone before you.
You are free to leave me now, free to let your spirit soar
Rest easy now, your pain will soon be gone.

I pray I will find comfort in my memories...
In the dark and lonely days ahead.
I cannot say I will not miss you, I cannot say I will not cry.
For only my tears can heal my broken heart.
But, I promise you this; as long as I live,
You will live, alive in my mind, forever in my heart.

So I give you this last gift, all I have left to give,
And this will be my greatest gift...sending you away.
It is the measure of my unconditional love...
For only the greatest love can say,
"Good-bye, go find the bridge, we'll meet again,
Loving you has been the greatest gift of all."

Forever and Always... Until Rainbow bridge....


Offline MaryFM

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Re: My beautiful girl!
« Reply #6 on: August 25, 2011, 17:35:43 PM »
Thank you for your posts and kind wishes.

I just feel so heartbroken what especially gets to me that she was so mentally alert, not in pain and watching me for reassurance when we were at the vet. Her sister Sophie passed away to Crf a year ago in January I loved her to bits too but I never felt like this. Having Darcey for 20 years I know I was so lucky we fitted together like hand in glove I feel so lost without her, she's coming back tomorrow and will be in a wee box with a sleeping cat on top just like her sister Sophie has, I hope that I'll feel better knowing she's back home.

Offline Rosella moggy

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Re: My beautiful girl!
« Reply #5 on: August 25, 2011, 08:09:59 AM »
Am so very sorry for your loss Mary  :'(   

Darcy had a long life during which she was obviously very much loved.  Hopefully in time you will feel less raw and look back and smile  :hug: :hug: :hug:

RIP beautiful Darcey  :( :(

Offline Janeyk

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Re: My beautiful girl!
« Reply #4 on: August 25, 2011, 07:28:30 AM »
So sorry for your loss  :hug:

RIP Darcey xx
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Re: My beautiful girl!
« Reply #3 on: August 25, 2011, 06:24:31 AM »
So sorry to hear about Darcey  :hug: :hug: :hug:

Offline den22

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Re: My beautiful girl!
« Reply #2 on: August 25, 2011, 01:11:39 AM »
Hello Mary a warm  :welcome: to Purrs so sad to hear of your loss :( but be comforted to know that it wont be forever we will be reunited with our loved ones once again but the next time we meet them they shall be restored back to full health and they will be the happy healthy Babies we remembered them as and the next time we meet it won't be a lifetime with them it will be an eternity.
:candle:

Thinking of you at this sad time :hug: :hug:


 :RIP:
sleep peacefully sweet Darcey Xxx

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Offline MaryFM

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My beautiful girl!
« Reply #1 on: August 25, 2011, 00:52:15 AM »

My beautiful girl Darcey passed over  the bridge on 4th August 2011, she was 20 years old and had been coping with Crf for 18 months when she had a stroke which affect her lower back and back legs, mentally she was unaffected which made it so hard but I knew she had been called and no matter how I felt she had to answer it and be with the rest of my furry, feather and fin family members who had gone across ahead of her.

Darcey is a long haired tabby tortoiseshell with a splash of orange on her shoulder, she had the most amazing snowshoes and fluffy ears. She is my best friend and I miss her so much.

 


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