Oh Lynne, im sorry to hear bout shadow, when some one else goes through it it brings back your own sad experience. Its not a fair way to go! Poor shadow and poor sox lets hope they are playing together now. Its just made me feel so low.! Lucky though is helping she is a bit more back to herself the other evening we were playing cards and lucky watched intently, went off to bed and at about 3 am lucky brought me in 4 playing cards in her mouth, bless her, shed carefully selected some good cards if id have had a hand like that perhaps earlier i would have won the game instead of losing!