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Re: Wish us lots of luck tomorrow and please send positive vibes UPDATE
« Reply #36 on: January 21, 2009, 09:08:14 AM »
That all sounds really positive, which is great news.

How do you feel about everything?  :hug: :hug:

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Re: Wish us lots of luck tomorrow and please send positive vibes UPDATE
« Reply #35 on: January 21, 2009, 08:17:59 AM »
what a great result, must be such a relief that she agrees with everything you have been saying, I'm sure her plan will help both of  you, can't imagine doing food without fuss in my house though!!!

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Re: Wish us lots of luck tomorrow and please send positive vibes UPDATE
« Reply #34 on: January 21, 2009, 08:00:35 AM »
 :wow: A positive result!  That really sounds like she is going to help.  I was going to say help you get to the bottom of it - but if Charlie has an abscess on his b*m it wouldn't be the best choice of words!! 
Im so pleased that everything seems to be sorting itself out.  I realise there is still a way to go but at leat you have a diagnosis and it confirms what you had worked out for yourself.  Its always nice to know you aer right, isnt it? :)

Good luck, will be keeping fingers crossed and am sending some of these in the meantime  :hug: :hug: :hug: - you must be  :tired:  exhausted  :)
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Re: Wish us lots of luck tomorrow and please send positive vibes UPDATE
« Reply #33 on: January 21, 2009, 00:40:41 AM »
I think this all sounds very positive and am sure that you will work through it all and you and Charlie will be just fine  :hug: :hug:

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Re: Wish us lots of luck tomorrow and please send positive vibes UPDATE
« Reply #32 on: January 20, 2009, 22:16:58 PM »
Well that all sounds very promising  ;D  I can understand you feeling mad that she says he has hyperesthesia after your vet wasn't buying it  :innocent:  She seems to have got her head around the situation very quickly and come up with some good ideas for helping Charlie.  And good to know the catproofing is a good idea, and the field not as big a problem as you thought.  Glad you feel more positive about things now.  Although Charlie still has his problems, at least you now have some possible solutions and if they don't work you have someone who is willing to work with you to find something that does work.  And it all shows what a good meowmy you are and that none of this is your fault  :hug:
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Re: Wish us lots of luck tomorrow and please send positive vibes UPDATE
« Reply #31 on: January 20, 2009, 21:26:36 PM »
So pleased for you both.  She sounds marvellous.  How hard is it going to be to do all those things?  :shocked: :Luv2:

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Re: Wish us lots of luck tomorrow and please send positive vibes UPDATE
« Reply #30 on: January 20, 2009, 21:10:27 PM »
Im glad it went well - at least now you know what the problem is and can make a positive start on helping Charlie. :hug:



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Re: Wish us lots of luck tomorrow and please send positive vibes UPDATE
« Reply #29 on: January 20, 2009, 21:03:00 PM »
Im so glad your feeling  a lot more positive now you know what the problem is, hopefully with this new regime things will start to improve over a period of time and a happy outcome will become a reality, sending calming vibes for both of you and lots of hugs :hug: :hug:
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Re: Wish us lots of luck tomorrow and please send positive vibes UPDATE
« Reply #28 on: January 20, 2009, 20:57:26 PM »
He has hyperesthesia.  I am a bit cross because I have been telling my vet this for weeks!  Anyway this will be a long post so here goes :

Sarah is lovely she is very knowledgeable and very thorough.  She went through Charlie's known history from day one very carefully asking lots of questions.  She said his stress is at a very high level and the main factor is the high concentratin of cats in a small arear (15 cats between 9 houses).  She interacted with him and said he is a social and beautiful cat but she could see his stress levels were high and were mainly concentrated on checking out his territory.  She said the catproofing is a positive thing in his environment as it stops other cats encroaching on his territory.  She said she doesn't think the field is a major issue and she can well understand why I have catproofed as, as she was driving to my house, cars were flying past her.  She has given me a treatment programme to try for 3 weeks to see how he responds.  If no better he will have to go on the cat version of Prozac for about three months and then be weaned off it. 

She is confident he can be helped.  She said I am doing all the right things but have to do some of them a bit differently.  ie his play has to be gentler of less duration and more frequent.  He has to have quiet and calm, no sudden movements, loud voices etc.  I am not to approach him but to let him instigate all tactile contact and she showed me how to stroke him so it is a nice experience for him.  Under no circumstances am I to touch his tummy, no matter if he offers it to me.  His food has to be broken down into 6 meals a day and must not be ritualised.  I have to try to slip it there with no production and make more use of his automatic feeder.  I have to put some frosted stick on stuff on my dining room window to stop him seeing next door's cat Sophie and I have to try to put some plants to block his view of her when he is in the garden. 

I asked her about another cat and she said 200% NOT.  I also asked her about the FIP and she said whilst she could not guarantee it wont mutate it is very unlikely to.

She has given me four pages of handwritten notes which her secretary will type up and email to me.  I have 12 months unlimited telephone/email assistance and she has completed the insurance forms and is claiming it as vet fees so the insurance company should pay it all (bar the excess of course).  If I am struggling with any of her recommendations, or Charlie does not seem to respond, I am to contact her immediately and she will revise the method.  I liked her a lot. 

I don't think I mentioned before but I found a lump near Charlie's bottom the day before yesterday.  He has not liked it being touched.  She had a look and said it is an anal gland abscess and needs a/bs.  She will ring my vet tomorrow and ask her to prescribe some to avoid the need for Charlie to be stressed by a vet visit.  She will also update my vet with the diagnosis, treatment plan and any further issues.

I feel so relieved but frustrated that I have suspected this for ages.

Anyway there you go, thanks to all of you for your support, it is, as ever, much valued and appreciated and, of course, I will keep you updated.
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Re: Wish us lots of luck tomorrow and please send positive vibes
« Reply #27 on: January 20, 2009, 20:21:18 PM »
Yes, I hope you got off to a good start?
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Re: Wish us lots of luck tomorrow and please send positive vibes
« Reply #26 on: January 20, 2009, 20:17:33 PM »
Hope everything went okay for your meeting with the behaviourist and that she has given you some positive news on Charlie :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Re: Wish us lots of luck tomorrow and please send positive vibes
« Reply #25 on: January 20, 2009, 16:39:53 PM »
Thanks for the link and I think it's hugs all round.  :grouphug:

I really do hope you have some good news for you both.

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Re: Wish us lots of luck tomorrow and please send positive vibes
« Reply #24 on: January 20, 2009, 10:35:59 AM »
Dot and I will have everything crossed for you.  I know from previous experience how devastating behaviour problems can be.  it really does take over you whole life, so I hope the behaviourist can help.

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Re: Wish us lots of luck tomorrow and please send positive vibes
« Reply #23 on: January 20, 2009, 10:22:36 AM »
:luck: :luck: :luck: :blow kiss: Hope all goes well.  Not sure if I've been asleep for a while or what but don't remember reading anything about Charlies beahviour.  Hope it's not serious.

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I'm keeping everything crossed for you both today, but please don't be disillusioned if the behaviourist can't offer a quick fix.  It may be a slow process of trying various things with Charlie but I'm sure she will have some ideas.

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Re: Wish us lots of luck tomorrow and please send positive vibes
« Reply #22 on: January 20, 2009, 10:15:23 AM »
All the best today :hug:
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Re: Wish us lots of luck tomorrow and please send positive vibes
« Reply #21 on: January 20, 2009, 10:14:12 AM »
 :luck: :luck: :luck: :blow kiss: Hope all goes well.  Not sure if I've been asleep for a while or what but don't remember reading anything about Charlies beahviour.  Hope it's not serious.

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Re: Wish us lots of luck tomorrow and please send positive vibes
« Reply #20 on: January 20, 2009, 10:09:57 AM »
Good luck for this afternoon - I really hope it all goes well xxx

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Re: Wish us lots of luck tomorrow and please send positive vibes
« Reply #19 on: January 20, 2009, 09:27:39 AM »
Good luck, I really hope you can sort something out  :hug: :hug:

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Re: Wish us lots of luck tomorrow and please send positive vibes
« Reply #18 on: January 20, 2009, 08:39:35 AM »
good luck, I'm sure she will be able to help you both and hopefully put your mind at rest

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Re: Wish us lots of luck tomorrow and please send positive vibes
« Reply #17 on: January 20, 2009, 06:31:29 AM »
I hope it all goes well for you and Cahrlie today and will be thinking of you both :hug: :hug:
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Re: Wish us lots of luck tomorrow and please send positive vibes
« Reply #16 on: January 20, 2009, 00:54:46 AM »
Good luck and fingers crossed the behaviourist can come up with some suggestions to help Charlie.

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Re: Wish us lots of luck tomorrow and please send positive vibes
« Reply #15 on: January 19, 2009, 23:30:23 PM »
Good luck

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Re: Wish us lots of luck tomorrow and please send positive vibes
« Reply #14 on: January 19, 2009, 23:27:33 PM »
I hope all goes well and thats its something really easy to solve, cos Charlie is just so  :Luv2: :Luv2: :Luv2:

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Re: Wish us lots of luck tomorrow and please send positive vibes
« Reply #13 on: January 19, 2009, 23:04:56 PM »
I wish you soooo much luck with getting help for your special boy. Love, purrs and headbutts from me and the boys xxx  :hug:

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Re: Wish us lots of luck tomorrow and please send positive vibes
« Reply #12 on: January 19, 2009, 22:38:48 PM »
Hope it goes well for you and Charlie, Phoebe and Boy sending lots of good vibes for Charlie. :hug:

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Re: Wish us lots of luck tomorrow and please send positive vibes
« Reply #11 on: January 19, 2009, 21:04:24 PM »
Tons of good vibes , prayers and all the luck in the world for tomorrow. :hug:



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« Reply #10 on: January 19, 2009, 21:02:15 PM »
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« Reply #9 on: January 19, 2009, 20:55:23 PM »
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Re: Wish us lots of luck tomorrow and please send positive vibes
« Reply #8 on: January 19, 2009, 20:50:10 PM »
Wishing you and Charlie well for tomorrow  :hug:
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Fingers crossed for tomorrow  :)

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« Reply #6 on: January 19, 2009, 18:49:45 PM »
Hope it goes well, want full details of course!  ;)
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« Reply #5 on: January 19, 2009, 18:46:41 PM »
Wishing you all the very best  :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Re: Wish us lots of luck tomorrow and please send positive vibes
« Reply #4 on: January 19, 2009, 18:29:34 PM »
loads of luck from me and the boys

and fingers crossed it turns out to be something silly like Charlie doesn't like the smell of the wash powder or something :shify:

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« Reply #3 on: January 19, 2009, 18:23:00 PM »
Loads of luck from me too, I've every confidence you'll be able to help Charlie xx
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Re: Wish us lots of luck tomorrow and please send positive vibes
« Reply #2 on: January 19, 2009, 18:19:33 PM »
I wish you all the luck in the world for tomorrow and will be sending positive vibes that she will be able to help Charlie and help him  and you regain some control  :thanks: :thanks:
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Wish us lots of luck tomorrow now updated with IMPORTANT BREAKTHROUGH?
« Reply #1 on: January 19, 2009, 18:16:52 PM »
Tomorrow is B day.  The day the behaviourist will visit Charlie.  She is due at 4.30 for a three hour visit so please, please, wish us luck and hope that she can find a way to help him.
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