Thank you so much everyone for all of your advice!
She starting weeing on the sofa again last night (on my cosy throw
) so i picked her up and ran to the little litter tray and she finished weeing init (with me holding her). I had a lot of clearing up to do - a nice long trail of wee from the sofa to the litter tray but i was just glad to get her scent onto it.
Whenever she had something to eat i took her to the litter tray (still screaming) and then I put her food on the sofa as suggested.
THEN an hour later we found her pooing on the other end of the sofa!!!
This morning i decided to go and try some new litter but my car broke down so i can't get to the pet shop!! Instead i decided to get her big original tray out but this time put the hood onit. I removed the flap door though.
All morning i've been putting her init (when she wakes or eats) and again shes been screaming and jumping out.
Then half an hour ago she started scratching the sofa and meowing and i realised she must want to do a poo. So i picked her up and put her in the hooded litter tray, she tried to get out but i held her in there ( i felt really mean but it was my only hope) and......... a few seconds later when i let her jump out........a little poo was in there!
I was so happy!!! I praised her lots.
I still don't think she likes or knows what its for, but maybe if i keep holding her there when i catch her she'll get the hang of it.
I've cleared the poo out because i know cats are fussy but i'm hoping the scent of the poo will still be in there. I also put the wet cat litter from the other tray into the hooded one.
Fingers crossed!!!
I'm meant to be training her to get used to being on her own (because i return to work on monday) but i've also got to stay in the room to watch out for toilet accidents. Its hard work!
But she is absolutely adorable! And i love her so much!
Her name is Tipsey.