Much better today he lets me hold him no trouble and purrs and kneads
He will also eat from my hand. The boys are still having a hiss though
and are not keen that I smell of him
He is escaping the cage with increasing ease (not sure how
he may be able to walk through the bars, heroes fashion lol) so have left the cage open and put his food outside of it, also there was an old bed (mouse like igloo) of Marco's and Polo's and he is sleeping in there, have put my t-shirt in there with him for him to get used to my scent and it seems to be working
He is also using the litter tray like a good trooper