I hope you can help with this one! For the past 8 months I have been feeding a large ginger un neutered tom, he now comes in the house, is ok with my other cat, doesn't spray in the house and is well behaved. He gets a bit stinky as he wanders sometimes, and I think he has been abused as he is terrified of men, and shoes. He used a litter tray I put down for him, but missed, and was cowering and whimpering under the table as tho he has been hit previously.
Hes a gorgeous cat, I need to get him neutered and checked out, but I just dare'nt frighten him and put him in a cat box, as he has had enough trauma. Any advice?