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Offline Ralph's mum (angie)

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Re: It's a year on Monday and my heart still breaks
« Reply #10 on: September 04, 2019, 09:11:21 AM »
Thank You Sue  :hug: :hug:
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Re: It's a year on Monday and my heart still breaks
« Reply #9 on: September 02, 2019, 19:23:07 PM »

I wouldn't say it gets easier so much as it becomes memories that make you smile more than give you pain.  A sort of scabbing over a tender sore.   :hug:


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Re: It's a year on Monday and my heart still breaks
« Reply #8 on: September 02, 2019, 16:01:41 PM »
I hope you are running free and wild like the wind. It's been a year today since I last saw your wee face although it's imprinted in my memory and my heart. I thought each day would get easier but it still hurts.
I was out on Saturday afternoon and a Ralphy lookalikey came up and head butted my knees, I don't know why but I picked him up to say hello, and it was in that moment I realised he was the first cat I had actually touched since you left me.
Sleep well my little man, I love you to the moon and back 💔💔
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Re: It's a year on Monday and my heart still breaks
« Reply #7 on: August 30, 2019, 23:55:07 PM »
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Re: It's a year on Monday and my heart still breaks
« Reply #6 on: August 30, 2019, 21:04:27 PM »
Thanks all, it means so much to know I'm not alone in my pain xx
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Re: It's a year on Monday and my heart still breaks
« Reply #5 on: August 30, 2019, 19:09:14 PM »
SUCH A HARD THING TO BEARE ESPECIALLY IN THE TRAGIC CIRCUMSTANCES MY HEART IS WITH YOU

RIP RALPH

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Re: It's a year on Monday and my heart still breaks
« Reply #4 on: August 30, 2019, 14:02:47 PM »
Angie  :hug:

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Re: It's a year on Monday and my heart still breaks
« Reply #3 on: August 30, 2019, 09:44:57 AM »
ANGIE, I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT DEAR RALPH :hug: OH HOW HE WAS LOVED, BLESS HIM :hug:

FEEL CHOCKED FOR YOU :hug: :hug: :hug:

SO MANY WONDERFUL MEMORIES  :hug:

VERY MUCH THINKING OF YOU :hug:

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Re: It's a year on Monday and my heart still breaks
« Reply #2 on: August 30, 2019, 07:34:52 AM »


Angie  :hug: :hug:

It's heartbreaking.   I know exactly how this feels.  My throat is tight with remembrance, and it hurts.  Hurts like hell.

Bless your beautiful paws, Ralph.  You are so loved. xxx


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It's a year on Monday and my heart still breaks
« Reply #1 on: August 30, 2019, 07:22:01 AM »
It's a year this coming Monday when my little man went to rainbow bridge and my heart is still breaking.

I'm sorry I went away that weekend for my birthday to celebrate. As I was getting ready to come home I got the phone call I had dreaded I would receive saying you had been in an accident and you had to be put to sleep immediately as they couldn't do anything for you and you were suffering.

I don't think I will every got over that pain. I asked the vet to hold your paw and tickle your foot the way I would as you were on your way to rainbow bridge  🌈.

When I collected you you looked perfect, you just looked fast asleep and peaceful. I will never get over the fact someone hit you with their car and left you on the middle of the road like a piece of garbage.  Don't people get it that you are someone's family member and are gonna be heart broken that you are no longer with them.

It's my birthday today and I know you would be pestering the life out of me for food, cuddle and attention and it would be all about you and not me lol. But I'd have that back In a heartbeat. If only eh.....if I had know last year what I know now you would never have got out ever again, I'm joking you'd pull the house down if anyone locked your cat door.

I have your ashes on the unit and I still chatter away to you everyday, I stroke your little cat shaped urn and I got my feather thank you.


The dog group still miss their honorary member, I mean what other cat goes 5 mile walks with a dog group!!!!! You were a dog in disguise and could chew a chicken wing as good as them lol.  :rofl:

Sleep well my handsome little prince, I love you to the moon and back 😻
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They take a message and get back to you later.
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