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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #43 on: September 24, 2017, 00:38:02 AM »
Very sad to read this, Tan. My thoughts are with you. Go play with our Mister Grey at the bridge, dear heart. Xx

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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #42 on: September 22, 2017, 00:07:44 AM »
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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #41 on: September 21, 2017, 23:34:22 PM »
Sometimes I still feel Mogwai pushing my back when I am sitting  on the bed. I am sure she is still with me, none of my other cats have ver done that, or I feel cat jump onto the bad and no-one is there. I just know that it is my Mogwai. :'( :Luv:

They never leave us completely. :Luv:

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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #40 on: September 19, 2017, 08:45:40 AM »
I know, treasure.  We all do.   :hug: :hug:  It's the loneliest feeling in the world.   :'(

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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #39 on: September 19, 2017, 08:12:40 AM »
Thanks soo much for your posts.  :hug: You all are the ones that know how painful this is. To never see him , cuddle and be with him again. 

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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #38 on: September 18, 2017, 21:11:12 PM »
MR BLUE WA A TRUELY BEAUTIFUL BOY BUT YOUR LAST POST HAS LEFT WET MARKS ALL OVER MY KEYBOARD AND SO UNDERSTAND HOW YOU FEEL  :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #37 on: September 13, 2017, 16:13:32 PM »
Tan, please don't torture yourself, you did all that you possibly could. :care: :care: :care:

That was a lovely note from the Vet.
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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #36 on: September 13, 2017, 14:47:35 PM »
That really is lovely, Tan.  What a thoughtful lady.

Beautiful photos of Blue.    :Luv2: :Luv2:

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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #35 on: September 13, 2017, 14:28:07 PM »
aww tan that is lovely, what a beauty he was  :hug:

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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #34 on: September 13, 2017, 14:06:11 PM »
Thanks hun xxxxx

Had a card from the vet this am.... she is the top vet there
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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #33 on: September 13, 2017, 13:06:22 PM »
Tan, you weren't to know.  You couldn't have even begun to know what was amiss at that point.

The Vets wouldn't have been able to do what they needed. 

Right at this moment, you're eaten up with a guilt borne of the pain of losing him - of not being able to protect him from something you couldn't have foreseen.

Please don't torture yourself this way. 

You have always done the best you possibly could for your beloved babies.   :hug: :hug:

I know the shock you had of losing your gorgeous bridge babies, and the lengths you went to, to make sure your new family additions had safety and security insofar as was ever possible.

What has happened is unbelievably unjust. 

 

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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #32 on: September 13, 2017, 12:58:01 PM »
Thanks so much for all your posts.
It's sooo hard but I know you all know what it's like, the pain  :'(
What I can't get out of my head is his face when I left him "for 2 hours" with the vet for bloods etc.
I was stoking him in his carrier on the vet table then walked away to the door to leave, he had his head down in the basket but as I walked away he suddenly turned round to see where I went and his face was awful total fear. His eyes so wide.  I don't know then it was the last time I would be with him.
That's all I have in my head that look of complete fear in him, i should of stayed.  I let him down.

 :'(  :'(  :'(

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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #31 on: September 13, 2017, 12:40:19 PM »
Tan, am thinking of you and Chaptan.  I know how much you'll all be missing Mr Blue, and my chest goes tight at the thought.   :hug: :hug:


Have you had any joy in finding out how or who might have been responsible for using the poison?

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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #30 on: September 13, 2017, 11:17:00 AM »
sorry for your loss  :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #29 on: September 12, 2017, 16:03:47 PM »
It's perfect Tan  :hug:

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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #28 on: September 12, 2017, 13:45:20 PM »
Oh Tan! I am so sorry  :hug: I wasn't online yesterday so have only just seen this. I am so sory that you have lost your darling Mr Bleu, especially in such a distressing manner  :'(

Your letter looks perfect, especially as you are not directly accusing anyone of having put the poison down  :hug:

RIP Mr Blue, play hard at the bridge and send your meowmy a rainbow when you have learned how.



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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #27 on: September 12, 2017, 13:04:23 PM »
That's just right Tan. 

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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #26 on: September 12, 2017, 12:49:38 PM »
That's perfect, Tan.
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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #25 on: September 11, 2017, 20:24:48 PM »
Tan, I think that's spot on, and direct from the heart.

I wish this agony could be taken away for you xxx

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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #24 on: September 11, 2017, 19:18:01 PM »
Thanks  :hug: I keep trying to be strong but the thought of never seeing him again is devastating.
I can't take it in. :(

I have written this , what do you think?

Dear Neighbours
If you have a pet please be aware that there are rats that have been poisoned or rat poison has been put down in the area.
Devastatingly my cat has died a painful and awful death from digesting rat poison either via catching a rat or bird /wildlife that has ingested the poison or has digested it direct.

To lose a much loved and treasured family member this way is so very hurtful and upsetting for us and an awful painful way to die for any animal that digests the poison.

I would not want this happening to other pets or wildlife in the area. Please please be aware.

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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #23 on: September 11, 2017, 18:45:59 PM »
Oh no  :(. So sorry, Tan.

RIP Mr Blue - fly free at the bridge.

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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #22 on: September 11, 2017, 16:43:05 PM »
That's awful Tan, please write that letter. I lost my first cat to strychnine, even though it was illegal farmers were still using it for foxes in Surrey. :censored:
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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #21 on: September 11, 2017, 14:41:32 PM »
So sorry for your loss Tan
That's horrible, definitely let other pet owners know what happened.

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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #20 on: September 11, 2017, 14:00:34 PM »
Just thinking that it might also be worth alerting your local Cats Protection branch, as they can share the info on Facebook to warn other cat owners.

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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #19 on: September 11, 2017, 13:06:42 PM »
That's awful  :hug: maybe you should ask around and also let you neighbours know so it doesn't happen to their cats 

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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #18 on: September 11, 2017, 12:58:47 PM »
Oh Tan, what a shock, I'm so sorry to hear this. :hug:


You should definitely ask around - and also let other cat owners in the area know what's happened. Desley's suggestion of a typed letter is ideal - it'll save you having to repeat what's happened over and over and it'll be easier to say what you want.
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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #17 on: September 11, 2017, 10:18:48 AM »
Oh no - I think you do need to say something - maybe a typed letter through doors would be easier
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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #16 on: September 11, 2017, 09:07:33 AM »
Tan, I'm so sorry.  That's horrendous, and fully appreciate the potential risks.

I think I would certainly ask around.  Maybe the best way to do it would be to explain what's happened and the vet's findings, and ask if they know whether anyone in the area is using rat poison so you can speak with them.

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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #15 on: September 11, 2017, 09:04:36 AM »
omg that is awful, the same thing happened to a friend of mine, hers roamed free though and the thought was they actually ate baited meat rather than a rat

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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #14 on: September 11, 2017, 08:46:48 AM »
Thank you all.  :hug:
I am trying not to think of it as I just don't want to believe it.

It was rat poison. The vet thinks secondary ingestation  ie he ate a poisoned rat.
We do have wild rats here being in the New Forest and right opposite a farmers field so the rats come over for the bird food. We had to stop feeding the birds cause of it.  I am sure one of the neighbours has put the posion down and not realised what damage they have done.
Worried that a poised rat might enter our garden where Garf and Marl are and it can happen again
I want to go round and find out which neighbour it was and ask them not to kill the rats with poison,
Do you think I should?

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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #13 on: September 11, 2017, 06:50:04 AM »
You're very much in my thoughts.  :hug: :hug:

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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #12 on: September 10, 2017, 22:55:50 PM »
TAN HAVE JUST COME ON AND AM SO VERY SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT MR BLUE WHAT A TERRIBLE THING TO COME ON SO SUDDENLY  :hug: :hug: :hug:

IF I COULD I WOULD SEND YOU A SPECIAL CARE CAT TO LOOK AFTER YOU IN YOUR TIME OF LOSS.

RIP MR BLUE PLAY HARD ON THE BRIDGE, YOUR PURRS WILL ALWAYS BE IN YOUR MEOWMYS HEART.

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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #11 on: September 10, 2017, 22:13:43 PM »
Oh Tan  :'( :'( :'( I'm so very sorry for your loss esp as it sounds so very unexpected.

We lost Fred to CRF after a few years decline and it wiped us out.  To lose a loved so suddenly though.  Must be such an awful shock.

I hope you are able to figure out what caused the infection  :hug: :hug:

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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #10 on: September 10, 2017, 21:25:55 PM »
Sorry Tan, just seen this. My heart goes out to you and Chappie. :hug: :hug: :hug:

Play hard on The Bridge Mr Blue. :'(
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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #9 on: September 10, 2017, 18:05:02 PM »
So sorry for your loss Tan. RIP little one run free on the bridge  :'(  :'(

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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #8 on: September 10, 2017, 15:32:40 PM »
  Tan, my heart is with you.  What a devastating event.  I'm so sorry.
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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #7 on: September 10, 2017, 15:22:06 PM »
Oh no, I'm so sorry to hear that Tan, RIP little one
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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #6 on: September 10, 2017, 15:07:47 PM »
I'm so  sorry tan xx
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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
« Reply #5 on: September 10, 2017, 13:51:04 PM »
Oh Tan and Chappie so sorry for the loss of darling Mr Blue, kidney failure is the one thing they hide so well x
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Re: Positive vibes for darlin Mr Blue
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So sorry for your loss Tan, run free and play hard on the bridge Blue

 


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