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Offline Jiji

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A wonderful tribute to your special boy. Hugs to you Rosella  :hug: :hug: :hug:

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Oh I'm so sorry, what a tribute to your lovely boy though :hug:

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I am so sorry Rosella - Fred was a very handsome boy  :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
No words can help at this time -its the worst pain for us imaginable -but Fred will be safe and pain free at the bridge now. :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

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So very sorry Rosella  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:

A beautiful tribute to a beautiful boy xxx Play hard at the bridge Freddie - forever in your Mummies heart xxx
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It is so very soothing to know our lad was so loved.  Thank you so much for your contributions everyone  :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

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What a beautiful tribute straight from the heart and how so sad had me in tears too  :'(  :'(

RIP fred  :hug: :hug:

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Rosella so sorry to hear about darling Fred  :hug: :hug: x
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I'm so sorry sweetheart  :hug: :hug: :hug: xxx

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 :hug: SoSorry Rosella  :hug: :hug:

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An empty space, and a gaping hole in your heart.  Nothing can be said which will make that ache any the less.

Freddie filled your world with his life and his character.  You filled his with warmth and love and caring.  What a brilliant exchange of friendship.  :hug: :hug:

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Unbelievable, unimaginable, what a shock!  We all will miss seeing him on those 'photos that you post on here. 

We are all at one with you, in these early lonely days.

Take care both of you. :Luv:
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Oh Rosella, in tears here too  :'( RIP dear Fred  :hug: :hug:

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What a wonderful tribute to a very special boy xx :hug:
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Oh Rosella , I know so much how you are feeling. Freddie was such a beautiful boy and you were such a wonderful meowmy to him. A lovely tribute from the heart  :hug: :hug: :hug:

RIP Freddie, you will always have a pawprint in your meowmys heart
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Wonderful tribute,  RIP Freddie.

Thinking of you Rosella xx

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Oh Rosella, I'm So so sorry, it brought tears when I read your post

Thinking of you  :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

Fred is Young and free from pain
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Rosella, so so sorry for your loss.

RIP Fred ... play hard at the bridge little man xxxx
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A wonderful tribute to a wonderful boy  :hug: I remember when you adpted him Rosella, you were so excited and so impatient! He was a lucky boy to have you and vice versa  :hug:

RIP Fred, safe and sound at the Bridge by now xx

The Greatest Gift

I always knew this time would come,
From the very instant our eyes first met.
How I loved you then! How I love you now!
I made a promise then, and I will keep that promise now...
You will not suffer from a pain that will not heal;
You will not know the loss of a life remembered, now gone.

It is for me alone to make this decision,
The price for the bright joy and pure laughter
You brought me during the time we shared.
I am the only one who can decide when it is time.
When my hope dies, and my fear rides high,
Just when I need you most, I must let you go.

It is for you alone to tell me when you are ready
For without your guidance, I will not know
When to lay my grief, my guilt, my anger
My sorrow and my selfish heart aside
And give you this last gift, this greatest gift.
Your eyes will speak to mine, and I will know.

The pain of this moment is excruciating.
Tears stream down my face in a river of sorrow.
And my heart drowns in a pool of grief.
For you have spoken and I have listened,
And unlike other decisions I have made
This one brings no relief...no comfort...no peace.

For if there´s one thing you´ve taught me,
If there´s only one thing I´ve learned...
Unconditional love has a condition after all,
I must be willing to let you go, when you speak to me
I must be willing to help you go, if you cannot go alone.
And I must accept my pain so you can be free of yours.

Go easily now, go quickly now,
Do not linger here, it is time for you to leave.
Go find your strength, go find your youth.
Go find the ones who've gone before you.
You are free to leave me now, free to let your spirit soar
Rest easy now, your pain will soon be gone.

I pray I will find comfort in my memories...
In the dark and lonely days ahead.
I cannot say I will not miss you, I cannot say I will not cry.
For only my tears can heal my broken heart.
But, I promise you this; as long as I live,
You will live, alive in my mind, forever in my heart.

So I give you this last gift, all I have left to give,
And this will be my greatest gift...sending you away.
It is the measure of my unconditional love...
For only the greatest love can say,
"Good-bye, go find the bridge, we'll meet again,
Loving you has been the greatest gift of all."

Forever and Always... Until Rainbow bridge....



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Im so sad to hear this
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Rosella - I am so so sorry - am in tears for you and your handsome handsome boy Fred.

So so hard when they have to leave us so quickly.  :hug: :hug: :hug:

RIP Fred - Run free handsome man  :'(

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Rosella, my heart is breaking for you. You gave him the best life possible. I'm so very very sorry :hug: :hug:

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Rosella that is such a beautiful and heartfelt tribute to a beautiful cat who will always live in your heart .............. as you will in his.  :hug:  :hug:

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Rosella, I am actually sat crying for you. Having had an unexpected loss with a feline that (when not getting grumpy and shouting from another room) was my shadow I feel sick because I kind of know how you'll be feeling. It's all very unreal and detached, like a numbness.

Freddie was so lucky to have you guys; and you him. He couldn't have asked for a family that loved him more and he will have known that.

Sending you a gentle hug. :care:

And Freddie, you send your Mummy a sign soon, you hear? She'll never stop loving you and she'll need to know you got to the Bridge safely.




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Rosella, I am so sorry, my heart is aching for you - just remember all the good times and hold on to that thought that you were loved so much and gave so much love.


Fred and my George are probably meeting on the Bridge and chuckling at how they had us wrapped round their little paws.  :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:




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He was a very beautiful cat.

So sorry for your loss Rosella.

RIP Fred.
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I'm so sorry Rosella, my heart goes out to you all.

R.I.P Fred, send a rainbow down.

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 :'( Rosella  :hug: :hug: I'm so sorry.

RIP Fred xx
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Oh my heart is breaking for you.  Remember the good times and you have these lovely photos for comfort.
Keep strong

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Oh Fred my truly beautiful, high maintenance man, you've left us....
« Reply #1 on: July 25, 2011, 09:38:50 AM »


I went to sleep composing a letter to you and woke still mid sentence.  I feel so cheated. They said you were 5 when you came to us from the RSPCA in 2006.  I should have known you were getting on when you had to have so made teeth extracted.  If I'd known, perhaps I would have been more prepared for this.  What is this?  Where are you my lovely, lovely boy?



I'm sorry I didn't pick up on the signs sweetheart before it was too late.  Was still not sure I was overreacting when I took you in yesterday morning.  Oh sweetheart.  It was only yesterday. 



Everything's wrong.  Unbalanced. You should be here sitting behind my screen trying to eat my cereal.  You were by me all the time.  You should have been squeaking overnight, peeing on your newspaper, eating a spot of grub with me in the wee hours, lying across my throat, headbutting my hand.  You've gone kid and it's unbearable.  The house revolved around your needs and desires and rightly so.  You rewarded every effort. 



I just can't stop crying sweetheart.  Am in a such a pickle.

I can still feel you but I know it won't last.  At least I got to remind you that you were my favourite angel darling baby boy and you knew it.  You were so truly beautiful and calm when you went.



I have loved and been loved and that's what it's all about I suppose but it hurts like hell.

This video is how I remember you best darling... always had to be the boss but never likely to do much damage with only two teef.....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XwW1Spyb0As

 


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