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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #70 on: July 26, 2009, 20:52:37 PM »
Pav,  so so pleased to see you posting,  we have all been thinking about you.  I have no words and all can offer is  :hug:

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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #69 on: July 26, 2009, 20:52:18 PM »
Always xxx

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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #68 on: July 26, 2009, 20:50:50 PM »
Thankyou Ruth, i still posted the wrong pictures  :shy: wanted the one in garden but thankx to you now i have every thing in my file and can post them anytime. Bless you for yesterday. :hug: :hug: xx

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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #67 on: July 26, 2009, 20:50:37 PM »
Pav,  so so pleased to see you posting,  we have all been thinking about you.  I have no words and all can offer is  :hug:

Love Claire xxxx

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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #66 on: July 26, 2009, 20:18:22 PM »
Glad to see you up to posting, sweetie. The pictures are lovely  :hug:

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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #65 on: July 26, 2009, 20:10:40 PM »
With Pavs permission this special thread is moving to Rainbow Bridge  :hug:

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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #64 on: July 26, 2009, 20:08:55 PM »
She was so pretty Pav.
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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #63 on: July 26, 2009, 19:15:37 PM »
Awwww, beautiful photos of a beautiful girl, who will forever be in your heart  :hug: :hug:

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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #62 on: July 26, 2009, 19:03:51 PM »
 :Luv2:  Phoebe

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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #61 on: July 26, 2009, 18:57:55 PM »
You are right Pav , Phoebe looks beautiful   :hug:

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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #60 on: July 26, 2009, 18:55:28 PM »
Thankyou everyone, i dont know where to start all the pm's and lovely messages. Thankyou i will come back and reply to every pm and every one, i just need to get through this week. I never brought any of my babies back home i always ask the vet to ask the place after cremation to scatter them in their garden but on Thursday i asked the vet for Phoebe to be cremated on her own and i told him i would like to take her back to Mayhew, i went there on Friday and they agreed for me to take her in, they have a lovely garden and small pond there, there is a small corner with some pets buried its a lovely place. I know Phoebe didn't like other cats but she loved to sit in the garden she wasn't allowed out for the first 10 years of her life so when she came here she spent times in garden she never chased the birds or butterflies and when ever she saw a wasp she ranaway, but she loved it out there so next week i have to collect her and take her to mayhew they said i can bury her myself and i am going to get some plants maybe sweet peas or peony and plant it close to her, then she can rest in peace and i know i have to take each day as it comes , so i just wanted to say thankyou to all you lovely and kind people for being here for me. :hug: Ruth helped me with her pictures yesterday, thankyou sweet heart.
Here is some pictures of her taken a day before she was pts, she didnt look well and some when she was well she had a lovely and silky coat but it started getting dull and matted and that was a sign of her not being well so the vet shaved her all over on Tuesday she still looked beautifull, i think. :(

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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #59 on: July 25, 2009, 21:04:37 PM »
Pav darling, still thinking about You  :hug:

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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #58 on: July 25, 2009, 16:58:16 PM »
Pav,
I'm so sorry for your loss.
If you were at the Mayhew then you don't live far from me (I'm in Acton W3). If you ever want to talk over a warming cup of tea, just let me know. I admire that you take on the older cats and I hope to have a least half the heart that you have shown to them.
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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #57 on: July 25, 2009, 16:08:22 PM »
Oh Pav , Im so very very sorry. :'( :'( :hug:



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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #56 on: July 25, 2009, 16:03:45 PM »
So sorry Pav  :(

RIP Phoebe xxx
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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #55 on: July 25, 2009, 11:36:45 AM »
I was working for 3 days, so I missed this.
Just want to let you know I feel for you.
Having just lost my oldest piggie, I'm still very sad at times.
The grief just goes away terribly slow.

RIP Phoebe :candle:
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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #54 on: July 25, 2009, 00:40:42 AM »
Sorry Pav just caught this,im so sorry to hear youve lost Phoebe :( but you did her the kindest thing you could and let her go with dignity, my thoughts are with you :hug:                                                        R.I.P. Phoebe, happy and well on the bridge :Luv:
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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #53 on: July 24, 2009, 21:21:21 PM »
Pav, I have only just seen this and my thoughts are with you.

I can only say that the greatest gift of all is to relieve suffering and that's what you did for Phoebe.  It is all she would have asked from you in her hour of need.

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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #52 on: July 24, 2009, 21:09:02 PM »
Oh Pav sweetie I am so so sorry, thinking of you and sending you lots of love xxx  you did the most loving thing in letting Phoebe go with dignity and without suffering.

RIP Phoebe - run free at the Bridge sweetheart and play with Boy - forever in your Mummies heart xxx
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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #51 on: July 24, 2009, 17:38:35 PM »
So sorry to hear this - I have tears stinging my eyes

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The bridge babes looked around their garden and found an empty place,
Then they looked down upon this earth and saw your loving face,
they put their paws around you and lifted you to rest,
their garden must be beautiful;  because they always takes the best.

They knew that you were suffering;
they knew you were in pain,
And knew that you would never get well on earth again,
they saw your path was difficult;  and closed your tired eyes. 
Then whispered to you "Peace be Thine" and gave you wings to fly.

It broke our hearts to lose you, but you did not go alone.
For part of us went with you the day the Bridge called you home.


 :RIP:    Phoebe



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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #50 on: July 24, 2009, 16:19:44 PM »
Oh honi, i am so so sorry for what you going through. :hug: It really strikes a nerve.
Run free lil one  :(

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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #49 on: July 24, 2009, 16:13:38 PM »
So sorry to read this Pav. People who have never loved a cat like we all do just dont understand the pain we go through when we lose our furbabies  Much love to you  :hug: xx
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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #48 on: July 24, 2009, 14:59:59 PM »
I'm so sorry to read this  :hug: :hug: to you.

Play hard on the bridge sweatheart

RIP Phoebe

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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #47 on: July 24, 2009, 14:47:51 PM »
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Take care Pav.  :hug:

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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #46 on: July 24, 2009, 14:39:45 PM »
Oh Pav I am so sorry to read this!  :'(

RIP Phoebe, play hard at the Bridge sweetie x

We are all thinking of you Pav!  :grouphug:

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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #45 on: July 24, 2009, 14:34:27 PM »
Sorry to read this Pav  :( :hug: :hug:


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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #44 on: July 24, 2009, 12:21:28 PM »
so, so sorry pav, you did the kindest thing for her, which is all we can do in the end  :hug:

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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #43 on: July 24, 2009, 11:10:14 AM »
oh my goodness I cant believe I am reading this  :hug:

Pav i didnt see this yesterday i'm so sorry.

You brave and wonderful women, again You have put your baby first. So many people would have kept her going through selfish reasons but you loved Phoebe enough to let her go  :hug:

But loosing her now is just too much, my heart goes out to you  :hug:
Cant believe You have lost them both so quickly.

I am useless with words Pav but I am here for You.....just like You have been here for Me with Issey.

I am sure most people have already worked out what an amazing women you are, even with all You have been going through You have still been supporting Me with PM's and your kind offer still shocks Me but warms my heart (I wont say what it was as you asked me not to)

Pav Sweetheart, I am just so so sorry  :'(

RIP Phoebe xxxxxx

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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #42 on: July 24, 2009, 10:57:50 AM »
So very sorry to hear that Phoebe has gone to the bridge. As hard as it is, it is the final act of kindness we can do for them. RIP little one.

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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #41 on: July 24, 2009, 10:13:03 AM »
Pav has asked me to say that she may not be on for a couple of days but not to worry cos she is OK and sends her thanks for your kind posts.

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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #40 on: July 24, 2009, 10:07:15 AM »
I'm so sorry about Phoebe  :hug: :hug: :hug:

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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #39 on: July 24, 2009, 10:03:35 AM »
Im so sorry this has happened  :'(

Its the hardest thing to do .......  even when we know its for the best  :(

We are all thinking of you and here when you need us  :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #38 on: July 24, 2009, 09:52:23 AM »
I am so sorry.

 I know it's so hard to make the decision for our final act of kindness but one we must do.

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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #37 on: July 24, 2009, 09:32:30 AM »
I am so sorry Pav, have pm'd  you  :hug: :hug:

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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #36 on: July 24, 2009, 09:16:06 AM »
Oh Pav  :'(

I am so sorry to hear about Phoebe, sending lots of these  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:

RIP Phoebe

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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #35 on: July 24, 2009, 09:15:51 AM »
Thinking about you :hug:

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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #34 on: July 24, 2009, 09:12:59 AM »
 :'( This is heart breaking news.

I'm so sorry my friend. xxxx

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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #33 on: July 24, 2009, 09:09:03 AM »
Pav
I truly wish I could find words of comfort to take away your pain :hug:, sadly there just arent any.
If Phoebe and Boy could send you a message I guess it would be one of Thanks for loving and caring for them so very much  :hug:
Take care x

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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #32 on: July 24, 2009, 09:06:03 AM »
Pav, you're having such a rough time at the moment. :care: I'm so sorry about Phoebe. I've only just read this, I hope you got someone to talk to last night it's horrible when you need to let something like that out and there's noone about who understands.

RIP Phoebe and know you were loved very much.




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Re: Phoebe is gone
« Reply #31 on: July 24, 2009, 08:57:41 AM »
Oh Pav  :'( :'( :'( just sending you more  :hug: :hug: :hug:  You're such a lovely person and I so feel for what you are going through  :(

 


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