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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #57 on: January 20, 2007, 21:32:59 PM »
Aww, bless her.
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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #56 on: January 19, 2007, 14:26:17 PM »
Well, when she had her original op, they said no because it might rub on her ear and annoy her. But after this one, they told us she should wear one, because she'd obviously rubbed at it so much after the first operation. Poor old girl. But at least she's not like my other old lady; I once tried to put a collar on her and she walked backwards for three hours until I took it off.




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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #55 on: January 19, 2007, 13:42:37 PM »
does she have to wear a collar to prevent her from scratching at her ear :(

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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #54 on: January 19, 2007, 11:40:35 AM »
Feeling sorry for herself! But other than that, OK. :) She has her stitches out in ten days...well, seven now!




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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #53 on: January 19, 2007, 11:34:14 AM »
hiya just saw this thread. how is parsley feeling today?

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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #52 on: January 18, 2007, 08:03:54 AM »
Aww, am glad she is doing better. When Pebbles had her leg op, I took a selection of pouches and her fav biscuits - luckily they already know I am a bit odd at my vets!!!
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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #51 on: January 18, 2007, 01:26:38 AM »
A speedy recovery to parsley................I always leave a packed lunch for mine when they stay over night  :rofl:

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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #50 on: January 17, 2007, 23:46:52 PM »
She is absolutely fine;apart from having to wear the "dreaded cone of doom!" Sat and watched Desperate Housewives with me which was pleasant!

Yep, the receptionist looked at me like an overprotective mum when I handed over the cat meat - I thought it'd be a pretty common thing to do, but apparantly not!




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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #49 on: January 17, 2007, 23:17:24 PM »
Have only just caught up with this thread so apologies for my late arrival...

Glad to hear that the op went OK and that Parsley is home safe and sound  :)  I just love the idea of her going into hospital with her own packed lunch for 'when she comes round'  ;D

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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #48 on: January 17, 2007, 21:33:00 PM »
Ahhhhhh Big Big hugs to Parsley and I hope now her problems will finally be over poor little mite.


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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #47 on: January 17, 2007, 19:07:49 PM »
What a relief! Fingers crossed for a full and speedy recovery for Parsley now.

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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #46 on: January 17, 2007, 19:03:25 PM »
She's back! Her ear looks a bit shorter, but other than that she's a lot perkier than the last time she went for an op. :) Hopefully, this time will work and her ear will stop giving her problems. I got a bigger cat carrier(the one on the link)so trips will be a bit less stressful.




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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #45 on: January 17, 2007, 15:32:34 PM »
What news on Parsley? I hope all has gone well.
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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #44 on: January 17, 2007, 13:06:28 PM »
Thanks. Took her in this morning, complete with a portion of felix for when she comes round. I can't phone until 3.....I hate waiting! Hope she's OK. :scared:




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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #43 on: January 16, 2007, 22:40:14 PM »
Fingers crossed for her, I didn't realise there were issues with the PDSA
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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #42 on: January 16, 2007, 16:00:41 PM »
I am so sorry about Parsleys ear and do hope they give her the special care  that she needs. Good luck for the op.

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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #41 on: January 16, 2007, 13:31:34 PM »
I was due a payment two days ago and was hoping to take Parsley to a private vet, but unfortunately the payment hasn't arrived yet. So she had to go the PDSA vet.(She actually coped better as it was less crowded and got lots of fuss in the carrier. She also got tuna on her return home, which helped!)

Basically, the top of her ear as gone necrotic.(I think that's right.)She has touched it too much during the healing process;not scratched just rubbed. She has to go for an op tomorrow to remove the top of her ear. The vet said she has never seen this complication arise following the operation she had previously - but Parsley has always been an odd one.

Hopefully, this is the last of the trouble she'll have with her ear, poor old girl.




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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #40 on: January 15, 2007, 15:48:43 PM »
Oh dear, this is not good about the standard of care that PDSA is giving. Never knew it was a problem before but you and CCmacey having probs. I hope there is nobody else.

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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #39 on: January 15, 2007, 08:30:38 AM »
How did you guess, Gill?!

The problem with getting a second opinion is the reason Parlsey is on PDSA is because she had a bit of trouble with her ears and I'm only allowed one of my cats on PDSA at a time. We don't have a local PDSA clinic, so that's how it works. I was told the "bit of trouble" was ear mites(might have already mentioned that;it's early!)and treated it duly. The problem continued so Parlsey was picked for the cover to see if the vet could get to the bottom of it all. She's covered until June and I'm not allowed to transfer cover to another of my cats until that expires. This causes a financial quandry when you're on low income.

But to be honest, despite that my partner and I have split the price of a check up at another vet this week, because we can't cope with her having to wait. She's already so stressed out and her operation was almost a month ago. She is currently sat with a lamp collar round her neck to ensure no further damage can be done. It catches ever so slightly on her ear, but that seems to be bothering her a lot less than whatever's annoying her enough to rip her ear to bits.

That's one of the mob. Then of course, there's my little junkie (diabetes!) needing his check up to check his levels are still good! So that's two out of five needing vet visits!




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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #38 on: January 14, 2007, 22:53:18 PM »
Poor Parsley, she looks lovely btw, I think you need a second opinion on this, this not a PDSA op is it?

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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #37 on: January 14, 2007, 22:40:01 PM »
Will do. It's an utter nightmare. I got the op done because I thought it would stop her from suffering; but it hasn't. Makes me wonder if I did the right thing letting her go through all that for what seems like no real improvement.

Poor old girl. :( I've attached a picture of Parsley, so you can see how sorry for herself she's feeling.(And therefore, obviously making me and my partner feel terribly guilty for not really being able to do all that much!)

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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #36 on: January 14, 2007, 19:19:51 PM »
Oh no Poor parsley ... I thought things were beginning to improve.  Something i obviously still bothering her, poor little soul.  Good luck at the vets please keep us posted :)  Big Hug to Parsley.
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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #35 on: January 13, 2007, 23:03:41 PM »
Gah! Just when it looked like there was a possibility that Parsleys ear would be alright and she might be a bit less stressed, she came down earlier and the tip of her ear is red raw and bleeding.

Making an appointment with another vets ASAP.....unless I can figure out a way to get her to the PDSA vet where she won't have to wait.(She's got cover until June. I really can't afford to waste it.)




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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #34 on: January 12, 2007, 10:18:25 AM »
Thanks, Sam! :)

And Saffron, thanks for the call. With regards to carriers, how about this one(if I'm fast enough! Everything sells so fast in our Lidl!):

http://www.lidl.co.uk/uk/home.nsf/pages/c.o.20070115.p.Pet_Carrier.ar8




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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #33 on: January 07, 2007, 16:10:46 PM »
:) great news that Parsley is feeling a bit better.  I'm sure she will continue to improve and will be back to her old self very soon.
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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #32 on: January 07, 2007, 11:43:34 AM »
Hopefully so, Desley. Thanks to all of you for your advice and support. I'll keep you updated. :)




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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #31 on: January 07, 2007, 11:42:04 AM »
I am glad that things are going better for her, fingers crossed it was just the confusion of suddenly being deaf.
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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #30 on: January 07, 2007, 11:23:21 AM »
Parsley is slowly but surely perking up. She was sat on my knee earlier, and kept trying to catch my hair when I moved it from under her; she hasn't done anything like that since before the op! She also let me clean her ear up a bit on Friday, so some of the scabbing that was annoying her got softened and came off. And she's been eating tuna quite happily. (Not as her meal, kind of sneaky bits of it every now and then.)

I'm going to try and get her to play with one of my cats (many!) toys later, and see if we can get any enthusiasm for life back into her! The other four are still behaving impeccably around her and leaving her alone to re-couperate. There's been no aggression from any of them towards her,(apart from my grumpy old tom, who grumbles at everyone sporadically!)despite the fact she must have returned from the vets smelling very strange indeed!




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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #29 on: January 05, 2007, 19:10:10 PM »
Just been into town and got a multipack of tuna. See if that helps! :) (Not all at once, obviously!)




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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #28 on: January 05, 2007, 14:26:36 PM »
seem's that this so called drop in centre is a bit of a disaster, they should have given you some proper after care info. Please that Parsley seems to be a bit brighter

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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #27 on: January 05, 2007, 14:01:59 PM »
Nope, no cleaning assistance!

I think she's slowly on the mend, but it's hard to tell.




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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #26 on: January 05, 2007, 13:30:22 PM »
Glad she seems a bit happier ... Did the vet give you any drops or anything to help with the ear cleaning?
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« Reply #25 on: January 05, 2007, 00:00:00 AM »
A bit calmer, actually. She's been sat on me rather than running away from "the evil woman that kept taking her to the vet" so that's an improvement!

She's mainly been clingy with my partner, due to the fact that (a)he didn't take her to the vets and (b)she's known him 15 years! I've put her a bowl of cat milk down (furtitively, my oldest tom is a huge fan of the stuff!) and she's had a bit of a drink.

I also cleaned her ear a little, I thought maybe the scabbing could be what's making it itch.




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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #24 on: January 04, 2007, 21:03:42 PM »
How's Parsley today?
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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #23 on: January 04, 2007, 10:34:14 AM »
Oh dear!!
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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #22 on: January 03, 2007, 22:37:45 PM »
I've honestly tried before, Desley. The surgery I go to doesn't seem to understand the concept of an animals emotional needs, sadly. It's a little old school in thought, and concentrates on fixing the physical problems.




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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #21 on: January 03, 2007, 21:28:01 PM »
Is there no other vet you can take her to - I agree that a drop in centre with such a long wait isn't good, but between the ear still bothering her, weight loss and not being sure of herself, it does sound like being seen sooner rather than later would be a good thing, esp at her age. Could you not explain things to the vet and see if they can come to some agreement where you are seen as soon as you get there?
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Re: Clingy cat
« Reply #20 on: January 03, 2007, 20:44:47 PM »
Dont like sound of drop in centre either but one of reasons she is unsure is prob down to her ear.

I think it is really essential that you get her seen again as they advise. Apart from the ear , the weight loss after an op at her age could be serious and you should not delay for a week.

Hoping Saffron can give you some advice.

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« Reply #19 on: January 03, 2007, 19:49:12 PM »
Oh ! my god in a carrier for 1 1/2 hours, what is this drop in centre?????
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« Reply #18 on: January 03, 2007, 18:50:40 PM »
Already done that,Saffron. He said to take her in. But it's a drop in centre, and she really isn't a very relaxed cat when kept in a carrier for an hour and a half. As said before, if I feel she REALLY needs to go in, I'll take her.




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