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Re: found a lump in Issey...RIP ISSEY xx
« Reply #875 on: September 18, 2010, 16:23:27 PM »
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Re: found a lump in Issey...RIP ISSEY xx
« Reply #874 on: September 18, 2010, 15:43:00 PM »
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Re: found a lump in Issey...RIP ISSEY xx
« Reply #873 on: September 18, 2010, 14:45:10 PM »
2.45 ....exactly a year  :(

Just added some of her ashes to Missy's grave, it's taken Me a year but today felt right.

Sleep tight my beautiful baby - I will never love another like I love you.

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« Reply #872 on: September 18, 2010, 12:24:26 PM »
Sending you millions of hugs  :hug: :hug: :hug: and lots of headbutts from Ollie and Tyler

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Re: found a lump in Issey...RIP ISSEY xx
« Reply #871 on: September 18, 2010, 01:48:49 AM »
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« Reply #870 on: September 17, 2010, 23:54:17 PM »
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« Reply #869 on: September 17, 2010, 23:50:19 PM »
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Re: found a lump in Issey...RIP ISSEY xx
« Reply #868 on: September 17, 2010, 22:24:35 PM »
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« Reply #867 on: September 17, 2010, 15:43:29 PM »
Thinking of you today - it never gets easier the pain is there just in a more mellow way :hug:
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« Reply #865 on: September 17, 2010, 15:22:19 PM »
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« Reply #864 on: September 17, 2010, 15:05:58 PM »
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« Reply #863 on: September 17, 2010, 14:40:43 PM »
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Re: found a lump in Issey...SAD NEWS :(
« Reply #862 on: September 17, 2010, 14:12:15 PM »
No sign of improvement yet -

The steroids will have lowered her immune stystem, she has a really nasty infection....she is very bunged up in her throat, can hear all the crap.
Not sure she is going to be Strong enough to fight this one  :(

I knew .....So we spent this day, a year ago, just cuddling....

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Re: found a lump in Issey...RIP ISSEY xx
« Reply #861 on: February 18, 2010, 22:06:11 PM »
Life would be easier if it wasnt for the what ifs.......
Im dreading the anniversary of losing my boy thats fast approaching.

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Re: found a lump in Issey...RIP ISSEY xx
« Reply #860 on: February 18, 2010, 19:06:14 PM »

I just want to send a hug to all those who miss their babies -  :hug:


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« Reply #859 on: February 18, 2010, 18:53:00 PM »
I feel exactly the same as Clare, there is a need to remember every detail - I think it helps the grieving process somehow.  :hug:

For me its also to help me remember that I did absolutely everything I could for my boy, as sometimes I do sit and think the 'what if's....', its way to make me realise there was nothing else I could have tried  :shy:

When reading it I can see that I did all I could for her but as you say there are always the "what if's" ......
Its also nice to see that she had so many good days too, they deff out weighed the bad ones...
And the support I got from you guys was amazing, thank you again x

I just want to send a hug to all those who miss their babies -  :hug:


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Re: found a lump in Issey...RIP ISSEY xx
« Reply #858 on: February 18, 2010, 16:07:16 PM »
I feel exactly the same as Clare, there is a need to remember every detail - I think it helps the grieving process somehow.  :hug:

For me its also to help me remember that I did absolutely everything I could for my boy, as sometimes I do sit and think the 'what if's....', its way to make me realise there was nothing else I could have tried  :shy:

Doesn't work for me. I find myself thinking of what ifs that wouldn't really have been fair but would have extended how long I had my babes around. I then drive myself to distraction trying to figure out how selfish that would've been, and whether I gave up too easily. It's horrible, so I try to focus on what I had with them before their illnesses and think about how content  they all were.

Michelle, hope you're OK today. :care:




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Re: found a lump in Issey...RIP ISSEY xx
« Reply #857 on: February 18, 2010, 15:18:25 PM »
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Re: found a lump in Issey...RIP ISSEY xx
« Reply #856 on: February 18, 2010, 10:16:26 AM »
I feel exactly the same as Clare, there is a need to remember every detail - I think it helps the grieving process somehow.  :hug:

For me its also to help me remember that I did absolutely everything I could for my boy, as sometimes I do sit and think the 'what if's....', its way to make me realise there was nothing else I could have tried  :shy:

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Re: found a lump in Issey...RIP ISSEY xx
« Reply #855 on: February 18, 2010, 00:14:47 AM »
 :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:  Michelle
Haven''t been back to Bunglys thread either .

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Re: found a lump in Issey...RIP ISSEY xx
« Reply #854 on: February 17, 2010, 22:33:18 PM »
 :hug: :hug: I understand too,  I read through my Schui's a while back and sobbed my heart out, it's nearly a year now and I still can't look at those recent photos.
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Re: found a lump in Issey...RIP ISSEY xx
« Reply #853 on: February 17, 2010, 22:14:07 PM »
Know just how you feel Michelle  :hug: I read through my Gypsy's thread the other day with tears streaming down my face, its nearly 2 yrs now  :(

I feel exactly the same as Clare, there is a need to remember every detail - I think it helps the grieving process somehow.  :hug:


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Re: found a lump in Issey...RIP ISSEY xx
« Reply #852 on: February 17, 2010, 21:58:28 PM »
I look at my Rainbow Bridge posts but find it hard to think about when my lost babes were ill before I lost them, so haven't braved reading any posts about that. I think it would hurt too much.




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« Reply #851 on: February 17, 2010, 21:48:15 PM »
Aw hunnie  :hug: :hug: :hug:

I've done the same with the last threads I posted about Max, sometimes you just need to remember, no matter how much it hurts  :hug: :hug:

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« Reply #850 on: February 17, 2010, 21:42:44 PM »
Sorry Michelle  :hug:

I haven't looked at Willow's thread as it just brings it all back. We don't want to forget her but it is still too raw  :'(

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I am slightly further down the road than you Mark,  You are still at the really raw stage  :hug:
I have read through this a few times since she died but not in the early days I don't think ...but each time I have cried my heart out.


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Re: found a lump in Issey...RIP ISSEY xx
« Reply #849 on: February 17, 2010, 21:34:07 PM »
Sorry Michelle  :hug:

I haven't looked at Willow's thread as it just brings it all back. We don't want to forget her but it is still too raw  :'(
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« Reply #848 on: February 17, 2010, 20:57:53 PM »
Oh Michelle. :care:




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« Reply #847 on: February 17, 2010, 20:48:29 PM »
Just read the whole of this thread - and cried so hard
Still can't believe all this happened and my baby has gone

It will be 5mths tomorrow that my girl could fight no more

I Love You With All My Heart Issey, I Miss You With Every Bone In My Body xxx

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Re: found a lump in Issey...RIP ISSEY xx
« Reply #846 on: November 30, 2009, 19:36:28 PM »
Awww - I think thats what's referred to as bitter sweet  :hug:  :hug:

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Re: found a lump in Issey...RIP ISSEY xx
« Reply #845 on: November 30, 2009, 18:50:40 PM »
She will always be around you Michelle, what lovely signs for her mum!  ;) :hug:

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« Reply #844 on: November 30, 2009, 18:48:33 PM »
Me and Issey just had a dance round the front room to Madonna's "True Blue".....
It was lovely, she had a paw round each side of my neck and kept kissing me
I sang the song to her but I changed the words to "True Blue Issey I love you"....sang them to her while crying my eyes out

No point to this message really, I'm just so incredibly sad about losing her

Got my rainbow yesterday and today I heard this song for the first time since she died

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Re: found a lump in Issey...RIP ISSEY xx
« Reply #843 on: October 02, 2009, 14:26:21 PM »
There are no words, except that you did your best to help her, and the grace to let her go when she'd had enough.  I was there in July and it is a horrid place to be and you will always miss them.  Please concentrate on the happier times you shared. :grouphug:
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« Reply #842 on: October 01, 2009, 23:05:55 PM »
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Ofcourse you are.
I light a candle for Issey's birthday and one for Boy :Luv2: Its 3 months today since i lost him.
Thinking of you .x

I always say goodnight to Isseys picture, so I have just told her to find Boy and give him a head lick
Sending you much love Pav..cant believe its 3mths, seems like only yesterday  :hug: doesnt get any easier does it xx

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« Reply #841 on: October 01, 2009, 21:10:56 PM »
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Ofcourse you are.
I light a candle for Issey's birthday and one for Boy :Luv2: Its 3 months today since i lost him.
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« Reply #840 on: October 01, 2009, 18:33:57 PM »
Oh Michelle, i am so so sorry, just caught up with this and feel so sad for you. :hug: :hug:

RIP sweetheart.x

Thanks Pav  :hug:

I am still so heartbroken, cant believe she isnt here anymore...its her 6th Birthday day, my baby didnt quite make it  :'( :'(

and a big thank you for all the love and support you gave me behind the scenes.....and for your amazing offer !

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« Reply #839 on: October 01, 2009, 18:27:00 PM »
Oh Michelle, i am so so sorry, just caught up with this and feel so sad for you. :hug: :hug:

RIP sweetheart.x

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Re: found a lump in Issey...RIP ISSEY xx
« Reply #838 on: September 22, 2009, 06:35:18 AM »
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Re: found a lump in Issey...RIP ISSEY xx
« Reply #837 on: September 22, 2009, 02:49:13 AM »
A beautiful send off, for a beautiful girl  :hug: xxxxxx

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« Reply #836 on: September 21, 2009, 15:29:41 PM »
A beautiful send off, for a beautiful girl  :hug: xxxxxx

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