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In Loving Memory Cats => Rainbow Bridge - In Loving Memory => Topic started by: Sue P (Paddysmum) on October 28, 2015, 08:51:10 AM

Title: Tinks. By degrees.
Post by: Sue P (Paddysmum) on October 28, 2015, 08:51:10 AM
Tinks.  Tinky Twowsas.  Mr Tinks.  Dickie The Tink.   

You came into our life by degrees.

From the very first time you saw our beautiful golden Ross, you were smitten.  You made him your Very Best Buddy.  He was Batman to your Robin.  Maverick to your Goose.   :)

You chased each other all over the gardens, having a high old time.   Every photograph I've looked back on in those early days - there you both are.  Snuggled up together, up to mischief together, paw to paw, tail for tail. 

You came into our life by degrees.

All through those lazy summer days.  All through those golden autumn evenings.  All through those long winter nights, when we would wake, simply knowing you were shut outside in the cold.  Sure enough, we would look out of the window to see you sat upon on a frost rimed table, gazing patiently at the bedroom window, knowing that if you believed firmly enough, there we'd be.  And we were. 

You would scamper up the stairs with Ross, and jump together on the bed, to snuggle round our feet.  And each time, we took you home, and you didnt want to go.  It broke our hearts.

You came into our life by degrees.

Your sheer patience, determination and tenacity won out, and gradually - there you were.  With your Best Bud.  Until the day your Best Bud went out into the autumn sunshine, and didnt come home.  The hearts that broke that day included yours, my sweet, sensitive, complex little lad.

But we healed together, didn't we?  And your original people - they so very generously gave us the gift that you could stay with us.  What a bittersweet day. 

You came into our life by degrees.

From then, you blossomed.  You learned what it was to live life on your terms, and we learned how much love you had to give.    :Luv:  And there was oh such an abundance of that. 

You were quixotic.  Intellligent.  Mischievous.  Uncertain.   We  loved to see you with the wind up your tail, careering round the bedroom on your side,  big snaggle-toothed grin, hiding under the duvet with those strong hooky paws awaiting the "unwary."    Having fun.   And we did a lot of that.   :)

You were at your most daring when allowing us to have secretive snuggles and affection.  You couldnt quite believe you were so daring.   :wow: We'd come into your life by degrees, you see. 

Just so.

And yet.  That love wasn't enough to keep you safe.  Never enough.   

Another Autumn day, filled with sunshine and sharp scents, took you away from us.   The cruelest kiss of metal and tarmac, and a bed of amber leaves to rest your head.

Wherever you are now, I hope that you're back with your boon companion.  Batman and Robin, reunited again.  Chasing the rainbow, and sleeping together in a warm tangle of limbs and tails.

We love you still.  We always will.  You were special to us, Tinks.  Gods bless, my sweet.
Title: Re: Tinks. By degrees.
Post by: Dawn F on October 28, 2015, 08:58:05 AM
such a heart breaking read sue, as usual you are an artist with words, you will always be dickie to me little man rip
Title: Re: Tinks. By degrees.
Post by: Rosella moggy on October 28, 2015, 09:08:46 AM
I'll have to come back to your ma's beautiful farewell to you hunny bun as tears blinding me after the first sentence  :'( :'( :'(

Thinking of you Sue and Ken and Moray and your beautiful sensible boy  :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: alisonandarchie on October 28, 2015, 09:36:19 AM
Oh Sue, that is such a beautiful tribute to your gorgeous boy :hug: :hug: :hug:

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Post by: Tiggy's Mum on October 28, 2015, 10:24:50 AM
Like Rosella I found that very hard to read through the tears, a beautiful tribute to a very special boy  :hug:

RIP Tinks, safe and sound at the Bridge by now xx

I just can't get my head around why life is so cruel to such good people  :'( I know that there aren't any words that will take away your pain or make losing him any easier to bear but please know that I, like so many others on Purrs, have you and your OH in our thoughts  :hug: :hug: :hug:
Title: Re: Tinks. By degrees.
Post by: CarolM (Wendolene) on October 28, 2015, 10:31:08 AM
As Dawn has said, you are an artist with words Sue and that is one picture we all know you hoped you would never have to paint.  My heart goes out to you, Ken and Moray.  :hug: :hug: :hug:

RIP Tinks, reunited with your Very Best Buddy. Two souls loved beyond measure and taken way too soon.
Title: Re: Tinks. By degrees.
Post by: Nicola (RockysMum) on October 28, 2015, 12:27:56 PM
Oh Sue, that is so beautifully written and with so much love, that it had me in tears.

Tinks chose you as his humans and he couldn’t have chosen better.

I’m so very sorry you lost your special boy  :hug:

Play hard at The Bridge Tinks x
Title: Re: Tinks. By degrees.
Post by: emmmy_lou on October 28, 2015, 12:37:07 PM
Oh Sue, am so sorry.....  :'(

Thinking of you, OH and Moray  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:
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Post by: Gill (sneakiefeline) on October 28, 2015, 12:38:00 PM
Face wet with water streaming from my eyes that is the most beautiful tribute to a much loved boy.

I remember all the trials and tribulations in the early days and how Tinks wanted to be with you and Ross, it broke my heart then as does his loss now.

RIP Tinks, play hard with your best mate Ross where both of you will be safe forever.
Title: Re: Tinks. By degrees.
Post by: Tigerlily (Allison) on October 28, 2015, 16:00:52 PM
Sue, I'm sobbing  :'( :'( :'( :'(

I'm so terribly sorry that you had to lose Tinks this way. No words will heal your pain right now but know you, OH and Moray are in my thoughts a lot  :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

RIP Tinks. I'm sure Ross was there to meet you.  :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(
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Post by: sheilarose on October 28, 2015, 19:55:40 PM
RIP Tinks. Dickie, your Treasure, our pleasure.  :'(

It's been a week since baby Jarvis passed and Tinks is the first of our own to follow  :'(

Send your Mam a rainbow when you've found your beloved Ross and brought my baby Jarvis over Rainbow Bridge, please Dickie?

Goodnight sweet snagglepuss  :hug:
Title: Re: Tinks. By degrees.
Post by: hollycat on October 28, 2015, 20:11:46 PM


Wonderful tribute to Tinks, Sue.

 :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Lyn (Slugsta) on October 28, 2015, 20:44:25 PM
Oh Sue  :'(  :hug:

Darling Tinks, run free at the Bridge, you and your bestest bud.

The internal combustion engine - couldn't live without them but Oh! how much harm they do.
Title: Re: Tinks. By degrees.
Post by: alisonandarchie on October 28, 2015, 22:30:35 PM
 :candle:  :candle:

Tinks, you were loved so much and loved much in return.

Now reunited with his beloved Ross
Title: Re: Tinks. By degrees.
Post by: Sootyca on October 29, 2015, 12:42:59 PM
Such a beautiful, eloquent epitaph for a special boy. 

RIP Tinks.

 :hug: :hug:
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Post by: JenGeorgieBob on October 29, 2015, 20:17:11 PM
What a wonderful tribute to a special puss. Know that you are in our thoughts . Play free at the bridge darling boy... :'(

 :hug: :hug:
Title: Re: Tinks. By degrees.
Post by: Sue P (Paddysmum) on October 31, 2015, 13:38:41 PM


Thank you everybody.  It broke my heart to write it, but I couldn't not.
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Post by: Tigerlily (Allison) on October 31, 2015, 19:23:04 PM
As usual Sue you painted such a lovely picture with your words. We all know how well loved Tinks was and how much you will miss him  :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: heather sullivan on October 31, 2015, 23:45:12 PM
So sorry to hear that, but what a wonderful tribute to a special little cat :)
Title: Re: Tinks. By degrees.
Post by: JackSpratt on November 02, 2015, 14:02:26 PM
I'll admit I've had to psyche up to reading this, Sue. I knew it would saddened me immensely, because you love your feline family so fiercely and I know you will all be hurting.

I also know that Tinks will always be able to feel that love. Because it surpasses all. I am thinking of you all and hoping Tinks found his friend quickly when he crossed The Bridge.
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Post by: an4rew on November 02, 2015, 19:08:04 PM
Very sorry to hear the news and thinking of you Sue during this difficult time  :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Sue P (Paddysmum) on November 02, 2015, 19:50:10 PM
Thank you both x
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Post by: bickhamwitch on November 06, 2015, 00:54:14 AM
Sue I am a little late in posting. But have been thinking of you and your pain. We know when we take on these precious little lives they will leave us with some heartache. But also so many wonderful memories of the precious times they have given us. So much they give us. So much we learn from them. Julie.
Title: Re: Tinks. By degrees.
Post by: Sue P (Paddysmum) on November 06, 2015, 06:19:10 AM
Bless you Julie - as you know only too well.   :hug:
Title: Re: Tinks. By degrees.
Post by: Rosella moggy on November 09, 2015, 23:19:19 PM
Just thinking about Tinks tonight Sue  :blow kiss: :blow kiss: :blow kiss:  :'(

Just so sorry pal  :hug: :hug: :hug:
Title: Re: Tinks. By degrees.
Post by: Sue P (Paddysmum) on November 10, 2015, 05:53:14 AM
Me too, Rosella.  My lovely little lad. 
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Post by: Gill (sneakiefeline) on November 10, 2015, 08:40:50 AM
 :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Tigerlily (Allison) on November 10, 2015, 15:49:49 PM
 :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: an4rew on November 11, 2015, 08:02:26 AM
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Post by: Rosella moggy on November 11, 2015, 09:26:20 AM
Welcome home Tinksie Lad  :blow kiss: :blow kiss:

Aaw Sue.  Really feel for you and OH.  Much love to Moray too  :hug: :hug: :hug:
Title: Re: Tinks. By degrees.
Post by: hollycat on November 12, 2015, 21:55:25 PM



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Post by: alisonandarchie on November 12, 2015, 23:24:08 PM
Thinking of you :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Sue P (Paddysmum) on November 21, 2015, 20:23:53 PM
Oh Tinks, sweetheart - three hearts all missing yours here tonight.  Love you, my darling.  Our thoughts are yours.  Xxxx
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Post by: Tigerlily (Allison) on November 21, 2015, 20:44:05 PM
 :'( :'( :'(

Sue,  :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: to you, OH and Moray.
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Post by: Sue P (Paddysmum) on November 21, 2015, 20:52:00 PM
 :hug:
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Post by: alisonandarchie on November 21, 2015, 21:50:10 PM
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Post by: Gill (sneakiefeline) on November 21, 2015, 23:50:14 PM
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Title: Re: Tinks. By degrees.
Post by: pappilon on December 06, 2015, 18:04:17 PM
Oh Sue, I am so so sorry to read about Tinks :'( :'(

RIP beautiful boy with unique smile :(

 :candle:

 My heart is breaking for you, OH and Moray who lost a special friend. :hug: :hug: :hug:

 x
Title: Re: Tinks. By degrees.
Post by: Sue P (Paddysmum) on December 06, 2015, 18:53:43 PM
Pav, bless you for your thoughtfulness.   :hug:
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Post by: Sue P (Paddysmum) on December 09, 2015, 08:03:52 AM
Thinking of you, my little treasure.   :Luv:
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Post by: hollycat on December 09, 2015, 12:53:12 PM



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Post by: Gill (sneakiefeline) on December 09, 2015, 15:51:18 PM
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Post by: Nicola (RockysMum) on December 09, 2015, 16:27:26 PM
 :hug:  :hug:
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Post by: Tigerlily (Allison) on December 09, 2015, 20:40:03 PM
Big hugs Sue  :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: pappilon on December 10, 2015, 09:06:36 AM
Sue thinking of you :hug: :hug:
x
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Post by: an4rew on December 14, 2015, 12:00:04 PM
so hard this time of the year Sue.  :hug:
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Post by: Sue P (Paddysmum) on December 24, 2015, 21:10:47 PM
In my thoughts so much, little man.  Our Tinky Twowsas.  Love to you, as ever.  Gods bless.
Title: Re: Tinks. By degrees.
Post by: Sue P (Paddysmum) on January 20, 2016, 07:38:02 AM
So loved you are, my precious boy.  So loved. 

Do you watch us all and give us that little grin?  I hope so, beautiful.  I hope so.  :cat rub:
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Post by: Rosella moggy on January 20, 2016, 08:08:57 AM
 I am sure he does Sue :hug:
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Post by: Sue P (Paddysmum) on January 20, 2016, 08:17:05 AM
Me too.  I do miss ma boy.   :hug:
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Post by: Nicola (RockysMum) on January 20, 2016, 10:19:59 AM
 :hug:  :hug:
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Post by: Tigerlily (Allison) on January 21, 2016, 20:43:36 PM
Sue, I'm sure he's watching and smiling  :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Gill (sneakiefeline) on January 21, 2016, 21:46:57 PM
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Post by: Sue P (Paddysmum) on February 26, 2016, 12:43:41 PM


Was remembering my sweet Tinks' smile this morning.  I could feel the well remembered gentle hug of your paws on my legs.  I love you sweetheart.   :cat rub:
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Post by: Tigerlily (Allison) on February 26, 2016, 21:53:25 PM
 :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: alisonandarchie on February 28, 2016, 16:48:09 PM
 :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Gill (sneakiefeline) on February 28, 2016, 17:08:34 PM
 :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Sue P (Paddysmum) on June 03, 2016, 08:27:35 AM
Missing you, my gorgeous, funny, loving little man.  I hope the wind is tickling your whiskers and Ross is right by your side, like gold in the sunshine.   :Luv: :catlove2:
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Post by: Tigerlily (Allison) on June 03, 2016, 20:57:11 PM
Sue,  :hug: :hug: :hug:

I just went back and read again your tribute to Tinks  :'( :'(
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Post by: alisonandarchie on June 05, 2016, 17:57:02 PM
He will be Sue :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Sue P (Paddysmum) on August 05, 2016, 08:04:54 AM
My beautiful, beautiful boy.   :Luv: My thoughts are so often with you.  I see your smiley face and I hold you safe in my heart.   
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Post by: Rosella moggy on August 05, 2016, 10:03:12 AM
Aaw Sue.  Gorgeous darling lad  :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Tigerlily (Allison) on August 05, 2016, 20:44:17 PM
Sue,  :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: alisonandarchie on August 10, 2016, 23:18:11 PM
 :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Sue P (Paddysmum) on October 26, 2016, 07:57:15 AM
A year gone by so swiftly Tinks.

Lord, how I miss you.  We all do.  Daddy P, me and Moray. 

Did you see what  did this morning?  I was so lost in thought about you, my treasured Angel, that I missed my turning and got lost on the way to work.  Stoopid, but that's how much you mean to me. 

I lost my way, just as you did.   

My love to you, my bonny lad.  My love to you xxx
Title: Re: Tinks. By degrees.
Post by: Rosella moggy on October 26, 2016, 08:54:39 AM
Can't belive it's already a year since you lost your clever, beautiful little man Sue   :( :(  Time flies by so quickly.

Am thinking of you both this morning  :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Tigerlily (Allison) on October 26, 2016, 20:56:12 PM
A year already!  :hug: :hug: :hug: Sue
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Post by: Judecat (Paula) on October 26, 2016, 21:22:58 PM
That flew by Sue :care: :care: :care:

I know just what you mean about smiley faces, Trouble had one, Pirate has one, wonderful aren't they?

Bless you, Daddy P and your kids, :hug: :hug: :hug:

I am sure that Tinks is playing hard on The Bridge and waiting for you. :blow kiss:
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Post by: Nicola (RockysMum) on November 04, 2016, 11:10:43 AM
 :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Gill (sneakiefeline) on November 04, 2016, 18:59:04 PM
THE FIRST ANNIVERSARY ALWAYS SO HARD AND HOW TIME HAS FLOWN.

I AM SURE ALL OUR FRIENDS ON THE BRIDGE THIN K OF US AS MICH AS WE DO THEM. THEY WATCH OVER US
 :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: alisonandarchie on November 07, 2016, 22:02:14 PM
Thinking of beautiful Tinks :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: an4rew on December 22, 2016, 16:23:53 PM
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Post by: Sue P (Paddysmum) on March 21, 2017, 08:19:24 AM
Did you catch the smile in my heart for you this morning, beautiful boy?  Did you?  :Luv:  Gawd, I love you so much.  Bless your smiley face. xxx
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Post by: Gill (sneakiefeline) on March 21, 2017, 14:33:03 PM
SMILES ARE GOOD  :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Sue P (Paddysmum) on March 21, 2017, 14:38:49 PM
They are Gill - they keep the memories bright and shiny.  :hug:
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Post by: Rosella moggy on March 21, 2017, 17:15:34 PM
Darling dorable lad  :Luv2: :Luv2: :Luv2:
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Post by: Tigerlily (Allison) on March 21, 2017, 20:07:35 PM
 :Luv: :Luv: :Luv:
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Post by: Sue P (Paddysmum) on October 29, 2017, 11:01:24 AM
 :Luv2:  A breezy day yesterday.  Full of caprices and mischief.  Not unlike ma Tinky Twosas.  ;)  Love ya, ma little man.  Hope that you're playing under spangled skies and dreaming large. 
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Post by: Rosella moggy on October 29, 2017, 21:06:49 PM

Wish I'd met your complicated beautiful little fella Sue.

I always felt he was not unlike our Billy.  Bright and clever and a wee bit wary but with a heart so true  :Luv2: :Luv2:

Title: Re: Tinks. By degrees.
Post by: Gill (sneakiefeline) on October 30, 2017, 02:08:25 AM
SO SORRY ALL YOUR CATS ARE NEVER SEEN SUE AND AM SURE THAT WAS ALSO THE CASE WHEN LITTLE TINKS WENT TO THE BRIDGE  :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Tigerlily (Allison) on October 30, 2017, 20:09:15 PM
Sue  :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Sue P (Paddysmum) on October 31, 2017, 07:55:53 AM
Thank you ladies.  :hug: :hug:


Quote
   Bright and clever and a wee bit wary but with a heart so true  :Luv2: :Luv2:           

That's exactly right, Rosella.   :hug:
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Post by: alisonandarchie on November 04, 2017, 21:46:20 PM
THINKING OF YOUR SUE AND DEAR TINKS :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Sue P (Paddysmum) on August 08, 2018, 12:51:22 PM


And of course, when Ross is in my thoughts and my heart, there you are too, precious boy.   :Luv: 

So many of our Purrs family have joined you this year, and each and every one much loved, and much treasured.  Who knew there was so much love in the Universe?   :Luv: :hug: :hug:



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Post by: alisonandarchie on August 08, 2018, 17:34:47 PM
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Post by: Sue P (Paddysmum) on October 22, 2018, 07:35:07 AM


My little Tinky treasure.  Something in the way the wind mischievously caught the leaves yesterday, lifting them into the sunshine.  Made me think of you, and smile.  :cat rub:

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Post by: Judecat (Paula) on October 22, 2018, 19:54:40 PM
 :care: :care: :care: :blow kiss: Sue and Daddy P.
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Post by: Sue P (Paddysmum) on October 29, 2019, 07:04:52 AM
Hello,  my little treasure.  Surrounding you with love.  The gentlest of kisses for your beautiful soul.  Xxx.   :cat rub:
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Post by: Rosella moggy on October 29, 2019, 20:19:44 PM

Sending you  :hug: :hug: :hug: Sue. 

Beautiful darling Tinks boy will forever be in your heart for sure ❤❤❤
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Post by: Judecat (Paula) on October 30, 2019, 21:28:54 PM
 :hug: :hug: :hug: Sue, it really doesn't get easier. They lie. :'(

Sometimes I still feel Mogwai against my back, I 'see' Trouble out of the corner of my eye, feel them with me in bed. All cats are special, but some...