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Cat Rescue & Rehoming => Rescue & Rehoming General => Topic started by: Teresa Pawcats on September 20, 2007, 13:23:40 PM
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I am at the end of my tether, I answered the door this morning and a woman stood there holding a 5 month old kitten; for the first time ever I said sorry I have no room; she took the kitten from inside her zipped jacket threw it at me and said I found it 2 days ago and my dog doesnt want it as she fled down the path.
This happened as I was rushing to get Izabella and her babies for a vet appointment and I was forced to leave the kitten in a carrier. I have the 7 kittens whose feeding habits are causing hell and now I have Izabellas 5 kittens who need surrogate feeding as Izabella has developed mastitis. I have over 60 cats in care.
Theres a man on the phone wanting me to get the stray from his garden, my number is being given out by every rescue for miles around and while I have been at vets and sorting kitten feeds the answerphone has filled up again, not to mention the endless stream of idiots who keep emailing.
I guess I learnt to say no and look what happens.
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Thats terrible T but now you have learned NO, you must keep using it for a while.
There comes a point where enough is enough as you know and it sounds like you have reached that point, arent there any other rescues in your area that you could say to peeps , try there?
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The nearest rescue to me has been closed down due to virus by their vet and they are only interested in grey and ginger kittens.
That rescue, CP, Rspca are all passing this way.
Whats the point in saying no when people throw the animal at you and run.
I have been feeling ill for a while now and plodded on saying to people I`m ok, I just cant keep this up I just dont have the strength.
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Oh T, what a horrible thing!
I've only got 15 cats here - including my own but for me thats too many and I am constantly cleaning and feeding in between other things. People do not realise what a huge commitment it is caring for so many animals. Luckily I've not had any left on my door yet, though as my details spread out , I'm sure that wll happen. Even people on this forum who are not involved in rescue and read about the struggle we have do not realise the enormity of the problem out there.
If you (get the chance to) refuse another cat then its your fault and selfishness not the owners. It is not letting up and is getting worse. I think we are all nearing the end of our tethers. Something has to be done and I'm not sure what can be done. If its not the lack of time and space then its lack of funding.
We need stricter laws in place, people to police them (I would love to be able to seize mother cats and kittens from anyone not licensed to breed!). All animals should be chipped by law
One of my favourite sayings at the moment is that you must choose the battles you fight, perhaps the only way we can cope is by getting harder and accepting that PTS for the old and sick may be an option so that we can concentrate on controlling what is happening out there so that in the long run we can help things for the better.
Can' believe I said that but thats how I am feeling at the moment. Perhaps I should go and get fitted for my RSPCA uniform. :-[ (I would if I thought they would actually introduce some proper measures and controls).
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How awful for you T :( :hug: :hug: :hug:
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That rescue, CP, Rspca are all passing this way.
Whats the point in saying no when people throw the animal at you and run.
I have been feeling ill for a while now and plodded on saying to people I`m ok, I just cant keep this up I just dont have the strength.
Will you PM me the contact details for those three ressues please?
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I have just sent an email to the Prime Minister
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Oh Teresa. Will PM you T. :hug:
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I have just sent an email to the Prime Minister
Good for you. What did you tell him?
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Oh, T I know exactly how you are feeling. I only have 44 in at the moment but in a private house with no outside facilities, they take up every nook and cranny, crates here, there and everywhere and it has reached breaking point here and for me as well.
I know you hate to say "no" but for the sake of those in your care, as for those in mine, at some point we have to concentrate on the ones we have. There comes a time when we can take too many and then, if we fall ill due to the stress and the constant demands put on us, who is going to look after them all then.
The general public see their cat as the only one that needs taking in and they CANNOT comprehend the pressure all rescues are under this year. I feel it is my fault that some of my kittens are not feeling well, but it is not due to my care, it is due to the indiscriminate breeding of litter after litter and then passing them onto someone else when they realise they cannot sell them and it is costing them money to actually keep them. :censored: :censored: The kittens we help rarely have the best start in life and we are left to pick up the pieces which puts even more strain on us - if only we always got the healthy ones!!
Take a deep breath T, look at those 60 cats in your care and think how they are alive due to the wonderful work that you do. I know you would like to help every cat that comes your way or is reported to you and I know you do your best to do that. BUT to be able to do that you have to be healthy as well and working yourself into the ground to help one more will affect all those 60. You have said "no" - I know it didn't work this time - don't feel guilty for saying no, there are 60 cats that you did not say no to and that's 60 more than some other people have helped.
Keep your chin up, Teresa, I do know what it is like and sometime it feels never ending, I have felt like that just now, but we must be proud of what we have done even if we think it is not enough.
Sorry to go on. Thinking of you.
Lesley x
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That rescue, CP, Rspca are all passing this way.
That is so unfair, I am sure they know the position, it happens to us all the time. Other CP groups, the RSPCA and other rescues. The only other number I ever give out is the HQ sponsored shelter in Derby and even then I always tell people that they have a waiting list although shorter than ours but if for any reason they wont put the cat on their list to get back to me immediately. Any drop dead emergencies we always deal ourselves and that is why we like you I expect are so full.
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I have this afternoon spoken to one of the rescues involved and just need to check the specific branches of the other two with Teresa.
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This is all so sad but it has been building all year.
I know that we on Purrs would all like to help but also know that most are not in a position to do so. I dont know what the answer is, I wish I did.
Welll certainly the constant breeding of kittens or even more the not neutering is a major problem..
There is also education and in schools the message needs to be passed about getting cats neutered and that a cat is for life, children are are a great way of getting the message across.
I applaud all you who have the strength to do rescue work and manage to continue financially..........Purrs can only help a little and we try to do what we can .
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Poor you T take care honey. >:(what an evil person to throw a kitten at you too.
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Hi T it's Amy here. Thought I needed to add my support, as I'm sure everyone on here does. I've only worked in rescue for 6 months and it's opened my eyes to what an evil world it is sometimes. Even though I started in rescue to give a couple of the very few hours I have to spare, I have found myself doing vet-runs, covering, sorting website stuff out (and learning web-design so we can have our own website), organising fundraising stuff and taking time off work to help.
This is a drop in the ocean compared to what you and others like you do. I do it though because I can see that it doesn't end. I've seen the lady who runs our rescue at the end of her tether on many occasions. We're only allowed to take 12 cats at the shelter, but there is a waiting list that goes on forever and, of course the morons who turn up on the doorstep with a kitten who's about to have her 4th (yes 4th!) litter.
I will say this though, whilst I believe that you are a miracle on this earth and you bring inspiration to all of us, you are only human. If you get sick, what happens to the 60 cats then? You do need support and you do need to keep saying "no". I'm really glad that people on here can help you, even if it's in just a small way. I'm out of your area, unfortunately, but again, like so many others on here, I'd love to help if there's any way that I can.
Thanks again for being such a wonderful person xx
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T, write to all the other rescues, keep copies of the letters, and tell them that your address is not to be provided to anyone without your prior permission. Tell them they are in breach of the law for doing this. I so wish I lived nearby so I could give you a hand, you must be staggering with exhaustion at this stage. Please, give yourself some rest and care. I could say just don't open the door, but then they would just leave the cat in a box on the step. These other rescues must be told that enough is enough. If they are having difficulties, they must be made to understand you are not any better off than they.
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These other rescues must be told that enough is enough.
I am doing that for Teresa, BC.
I will say this though, whilst I believe that you are a miracle on this earth and you bring inspiration to all of us, you are only human [. ...] I'd love to help if there's any way that I can.
Teresa wont say this, so I shall. She is, I hope, going to find a couple of minutes to post up a link to an article in her local paper in which she appeals for practical and financial assistance.
How can one woman fund the care of 60 cats?
I would appeal to Purrs members to send an immediate donation to Paws Inn, no matter how little you can afford. Any better-off members might consider sending more? Teresa may be a saint but she cannot make money grow on trees.
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I'll do it on payday next week.
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That's fab. Just a reminder to everyone that if you would like to make a donation to Paws Inn you can do so securely through:
http://www.pawsinncats.com/donate.htm
That was well said C, Thanks x
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Oh my....despite working part time and being kind of self employed as well running CP branch for the last few months (and I am not even the co ordinator) has been emotionally hard.... We are only a small branch of CP and do our best with great volunteers and helpers, but i dont know on earth how Teresa does this all.... She is truly a saint.......for animal rescue... But as i told one of our volunteers a while ago "we cannot help them all" we can just ry to relieve the pain and suffering of our feline friends and hopefully with us all doing the same thing, we do more as a whole...
I get so wound up in trying to do the best as in dear Conker who i have "saved" twice from being PTS and fantastic Jesiri who has literally risen from the ashes of death to be a lovely, affectionate cat that deserves a good life.. Those are good days but we all have bad ones as well.
Take care all at Paws you do a wonderful job and an example to us all..
If someone can tell me where i can send a chq, i would like to make donation to help your needs... My pusscats can wait on the Cat tree i promised them for another month........
Sharon
Canterbury CP
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Sharon
If you use the contact us on this site T will tell you ;D
http://www.pawsinncats.com/
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That's fab. Just a reminder to everyone that if you would like to make a donation to Paws Inn you can do so securely through:
http://www.pawsinncats.com/donate.htm
I have just used that myself and it seems to be working OK ;D
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I too will donate on payday, although I really can't afford much. If everyone did, I'm sure it would add up to a reasonable amount!
Take care T xx
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I too will donate on payday, although I really can't afford much. If everyone did, I'm sure it would add up to a reasonable amount!
The greatest ocean is made up of single drops of water.
:hug: to all who are rallying round Teresa in her (and her little patients') hour of desperate need.
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I really have emailed the Prime Minister and told him some home truths about the hundreds of us that give up our lives and homes for all these poor strays;I have asked him to do something.
I have also reminded him that although he is a very busy man , he has the luxury of eating meals, sleeping and a family life which I dont so he can find time to reply to someone busier than him.
Next thing he will be moaning ex rescuers are a drain on NHS because we are all collapsed in a heap.
Here is a recent newspaper article about Paws Inn
http://www.northwichguardian.co.uk/news/districtnews/weaverhamhartfordlittleleigh/weaverhamhartfordlittleleigh/display.var.1683408.0.we_need_your_help_at_centre.php afraid the picture doesnt show on link.
A little good news Izabella was feeling better about an hour ago and when I went to feed the babies she was feeding them- a huge relief but I will keep a very vigilant eye.
The & nightmare kittens have lacerated my hands,I have to feed them all seperately in cat carriers and when they see them and food they scrabble at pen door ripping me as I try to open it,at least they are litter trained now and doing solid poop; It will all get better in time;but for all of us rescues its a never ending nightmare right now.
Thanks everyone for your support, I really need it right now
Tx
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Grrrrrrrrrrrr cant seee the link unless I drop the level of security on my puter. MY spy catcher already blocked two spy bots just by clicking on it >:(
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Had to refresh a few times for my computer to pick it up but mine's acting funny anyways.
Hope it helps get the word out and gets T some more help!
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Just realised I haven`t updated on the poor kitten that was thrown at me; shot out when Grumpy came home and bought another collapsible pen so she is now lying in warmth and comfort in my hall, havent had chance to take apic, but shes a little black girl about 5months old with a huge wormy belly or at least I hope its only worms, I have wormed her today so will see what comes out. No name yet either.
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Poor litttle thing, ahem name .......Wormy................noooooo thats sick sorry :sick:
Wilamena?
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selina, goddess of the moon who walks at night...
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Just realised I haven`t updated on the poor kitten that was thrown at me; shot out when Grumpy came home and bought another collapsible pen so she is now lying in warmth and comfort in my hall, havent had chance to take apic, but shes a little black girl about 5months old with a huge wormy belly or at least I hope its only worms, I have wormed her today so will see what comes out. No name yet either.
How about Gaby? It is an archangels nickname :Luv:
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NinjaTron?
No? Friend of mine just had a baby and for about 2 days the poor thing was called NinjaTron till they decided on Liam John....
How about Kaylee?
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How about Ebony - Ebby or Ebbs for short.
At least this little babe is safe now God love her and you too Teresa xxxxxx
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Just a bump to say that one woman can not fund the care of 60 cats.
Please, Purrs members, can you send an immediate donation to Paws Inn, no matter how little you can afford? Any better-off members might consider sending more? Teresa may be a saint but she cannot make money grow on trees.
If you would like to make a donation to Paws Inn you can do so securely through: http://www.pawsinncats.com/donate.htm
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Heres the beautiful girl ; I think she is NO 63
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she's gorgeous T :Luv:
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Oh, but she is beautiful. Thank goodness she is now halfway on her way to a decent home.
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After visiting the fabulous Paws Inn i am really upset reading this thread and seeing how hard this is for Teresa, she does an AMAZING job (as does Claire).
I'll happily send a donation tomorrow when Jon gets paid. :hug:
If it will help i can pick up some extra food and supplies next week when i go to get mine? Never sure if money is just better :shy:
Did you have any luck raffling off the signed everton stuff Teresa, If it can help i'm sure Jon will be more than happy to get donate some more stuff for you. Just say the word.
ems
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She is gorgeous, how could someone not want her............................and the other 62!
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What a gorgeous little girl.
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Heres the beautiful girl ; I think she is NO 63
OHHhhh Teresa she's an absolute babe.
just sent a little something, wish it could have been more.
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Oh T, she is gorgeous - she looks just like Cheese! :evillaugh: methinks you should call her Pickle... :evillaugh:
Sorry to hear you are feeling low - you truly do an amazing job which me and Phil have been lucky enough to witness first hand ;D
Its not much, but we have sent a little something to help you :)
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NINJA-TRON!!!!???? :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:
No, really, Selina's a beautiful name and it suits her so well :Luv:
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Aw she is beautiful....a bonus i suppose is she looks in good health :Luv:
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Ems we are saving the Everton Flag for a special fundraiser as it really is a very special donation.
Name- I have a special name in mind for this little one
Purrs after all our friends here
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Oh thats so nice ;D
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T you do such an amazing job, please never think it goes underestimated around here x and also please make sure you look after yourself as well as you do purrs and all the others.
like so many others say, i wish i could help out more, i really do - maybe you should consider moving to aberdeen???? maybe not :)
lots of love xxx
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I echo the sentiments of everyone on here :Luv: As you know T, I am a big fan of yours and all the babies at paws inn xxxxx
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Oh, Teresa. :hug: :hug:
There are some evil :censored: in this world! They will get theirs some day. What comes around always goes around.
She's a beauty... :Luv:
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Oh T Purrs is gorgeous. :Luv:
Just bumping this up:
For anyone wishing to make a donation, no matter how small, please visit:
www.pawsinncats.com/donate.htm
If you don't have a paypal account, thats ok you can make a donation direct from your bank account using a debit card. Paypal is secure and trusted.
If you prefer to send a cheque please contact Teresa via her number on: www.pawsinncats.com/contact.htm for detail on how to send this.
:thanks: peeps.
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I am so sorry to read you are having more trouble, I really don't know how you do it, and will see what the pennies situation is like. Fingers crossed you get a good run on rehoming now, to try and ease your numbers, and you can continue to say no.
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Purrs is an excellent name and a great tribute to people on here
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i only wish i was closer so i could help out and i will send some money i now it ain't much but as my nan says every penny helps
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Small donation sent, sorry its not more :shy:
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Aw, little Purrs is gorgeous :Luv:
I will send some money as well T, but will need to wait until payday next Friday hun xxx
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Teresa, Purrs is a stunner. :Luv: I'm a big fan of black cats - I can't understand why they're overlooked so often.
You do an amazing job. :)
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I'm a big fan of black cats - I can't understand why they're overlooked so often.
Its because you’re more prone to trip on them ;) Well, my theory anyway.
And can I just say how adorable Sherbet is (yes I’ve been rereading the new paws inn website).
Where is weaverham again? :car:
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Cheshire ;D
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Cheshire ;D
A wild guess, that being south?
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No lol......its to the right of North Wales ;D
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One day I will learn where places are.
Thank goodness for mapquest :evillaugh: it does help however to spell things right. Whaeverham doesn't seem to exist!
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I was driving the bus over through Victoria towards Hyde Park and Marble Arch once, and an American Tourist asked me if I stopped at Caeravon Castle... :Crazy: :rofl: :rofl:
Mind you, I'd be just as lost in New York. :shify: :innocent:
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My OH says this story is rubbish but......
My old Flatmate Alan was talking to an American tourist in the pub. The man asked where he was from. He said "Scotland" - The Man said - "Yes I have heard of Scotlandshire" :evillaugh:
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My OH says this story is rubbish but......
My old Flatmate Alan was talking to an American tourist in the pub. The man asked where he was from. He said "Scotland" - The Man said - "Yes I have heard of Scotlandshire" :evillaugh:
Now I know Scotlandshire doesn't exist.
Just don't ask me to pronounce Glasgow, I got laughed at.
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Hi, hope your feeling better, have sent a small donation
Andrea x :thanks:
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Just to update everyone, I have today spoken to two of the three neighbouring rescue organisations and left a message for the third.
The compassion of people on here, rallying round to support Paws Inn in its hour of need, is humbling :hug: but please, if you havent already, keep the help going as things are pretty desperate there.
:thanks:
xC
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just added my little donation from items sold on ebay keep up the good work T your the best XXX
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I would just like to add, after reading this topic, that you cat rescues are GREAT and i ADMIRE that!!
i can understand it is very hard caring for so many cats and kittens, as our 3 is enough, although i'd take in alot more if i could, due to still living with my mum, she's decided enough is 3, but when i eventually get my own place, i will be taking in a few more cats... everyone says i'll be the cat woman sooner or later, seeing cats in such poor conditions, and left alone, with out an owner/family makes me feel very upset and sorry for them, but what you rescues do is give them that tender love and care they so much long for...i just hope you realise that what you do is amazing, and i realise you have to say no at one point, as enough is enough, but remember the cats you have in your care are very happy to be so
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My OH says this story is rubbish but......
My old Flatmate Alan was talking to an American tourist in the pub. The man asked where he was from. He said "Scotland" - The Man said - "Yes I have heard of Scotlandshire" :evillaugh:
:rofl: :rofl: my Welsh friend once told someone on the internet (from the states) that Wales was a small state near Texas and the person was saying "Oh yes, I think I have heard of it" :rofl:
Oh and I remember way back when I first got the net, I spoke to someone American online who said "Oh, you're English, you might know my friend John"
England might be small but its not THAT small :rofl:
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I hope your actions work Christine, I think the other rescues need to be told what the situation is like. Sadly I dont have any pennies to spare.
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I hope your actions work Christine, I think the other rescues need to be told what the situation is like.
I hope so too, Desley. I am sure my message has been understood. :innocent:
The third rescue rang me today and suggested a different branch (the very nice lady I spoke to had never heard of Paws Inn) so I will call them too.
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Glad that the other one rang you back, and has given you someone to talk to.
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Christine
Thank you for sorting that out for me the phone has been more bearable the last couple of days and even though I am still worn to a frazzle I feel less desperate than I did when I began this thread and of course Claire was a wonderful help yesterday.
Still struggling to fit everything in that needs doing but managed to cook a meal and eat it today.
Purrs was claimed by her owner today, I have a feeling she will end up going missing again ;)
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I am glad that things are easier now, and fingers crossed you get a good run on rehoming.