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Cat General => General Cat Chat => Topic started by: Sarah (seldom_use) on August 29, 2007, 23:06:42 PM
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missys gone
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Erh?
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Sarah please explain
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are you okay? :hug:
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shes dead.
please someone help me
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:omg: what has happened hun??? :hug:
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Oh my god I'm so sorry :( what happened? (if you can speak right now of course)
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omg whats happened? if you still have my phone number phoneme
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oh Sarah :hug: :hug: :hug: I am so sorry.
I just did a search and she was only a kitten, what has happened?
Pm me or email me
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Sarah,
please tell us what happened :hug:
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i need to speak to someone.
please, i cant handle this.
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Who is Missy Sarah? Your cat?
Honey is anybody there with you? :(
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iv sent you a pm ....my phone number PHOME ME NOW
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Sarah you can call me if you want I'll send you my number :hug:
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Have pmed you my number :hug: :hug:
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:'( :'( :'( :grouphug:
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I have done the same. You need to talk to someone if you are alone. Please call me or Gill
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Please as BC has said phone someone here.....please whoever takes the call could you let us acknowledge that you are on the phone with Sarah Thanks x
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I re sent u the number cos it was typo
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Anyone spoken to Sarah? :'(
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Nope no me...sitting waitiing
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Maybe someone could go in chat with her if she's finding it hard to speak ;) :hug:
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nope not a word. Would tan have any means of getting in touch with her that is not available to the rest of us?? I am pretty concerned and reluctant to go to bed until I know she is safe and being supported.
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>BC....Ditto :(
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sarah i didnt keep your phone number the last time you phoned if you want to pm me your number ill phone you ..as your not far from me your welcome to come over ...dont mind
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I have spoken to Sarah and she is very very upset about Missy, who passed to the Bridge quickly tonight.
RIP Missy
Sarah has her boyfriend with her so is not alone and has my number to ring again if she wants.
Lots of :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: to you Sarah
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sooo sorry about missy :'(
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RIP Missy :'(
Sarah i dont know what to say :hug: :hug:
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ahh sarah, so sorry. It must have been dreadful for you. So glad you have your boy with you to hold you while you grieve. Anytime, please just call one of us. you have our numbers, and we really do care for you as a person and share your grief and horror at such a sudden ending. :grouphug:
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So, so Sorry Sarah :'( I can't believe you have lost her so suddenly, someone up there is very very cruel :'( I'm sure you know that we are all here for you over the coming days, weeks and months :hug:
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I've always got my head in the clouds these days. :(
Sarah, I'm so, so sorry, sweetheart. :hug: :hug: We're all here to support you.
RIP, sweet Missy. :'(
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Thanks everyone,
Sorry for not replying, I've had such a shock.
My little angel has passed away :'(
I honestly can't believe it :'( I don't know what to say, she was only a little baby :'(
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Hello Sarah, so glad you had someone who could be with you last night. Take care of yourself today and allow yourself to grieve. Never let anyone tell you you are being silly. It is they who are being foolish if they can not understand how such a loss can hurt. We all understand and are here for you. Please let us know if there is anything we can do.
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My thoughts are with you at this sad time, I am so sorry.
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I am so very sorry to hear this, RIP little one, and we are all here for you.
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I'm so sorry to hear about Missy...my thoughts are with you xx
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There is little that anybody can say at a time like this - I know the pain and it really hurts.
Missy was beautiful - you must be in bits - I am so sorry. :sorry:
:RIP: :candle: :RIP: :candle:
My life's been full, I savoured much.
Good friends, good times, a loved one's touch.
Perhaps my time seemed all too brief.
Don't lengthen it now with undue grief.
Lift up your hearts and peace to thee.
The Bridge wanted me now and set me free!
Missy go and run free, make lots of new friends. If you see Cleo, Milly and Jess, please make friends with them because they are constantly in my thoughts.
Much love Missy xxx
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So sorry to hear about Missy, Sarah :hug: You must be in bits. Take it easy and remember we're all here for you if and when you want to talk about it :hug:
RIP Missy. Play hard at the bridge and say hello to Magpie for me.
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I'm so very sorry to hear about missy.
She was very loved and will be missed, play hard at the bridge little one.
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So sorry to hear about Missy. She will be up there with Tom waiting for you :hug: :hug:
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So so sorry Sarah. Take care of yourself. Night night Missy xx
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Oh honey I'm so sorry. I've only just seen this. I am glad John was with you. When you feel up to it you can talk to us, you know you can at any time.
RIP Little Missy. An angel you were.
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Sarah, I'm so sorry to hear this.
My thoughts are with you today. We are all here for you :hug: :hug:
Take care xxxxx
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Sarah, I am so sorry to hear this news. RIP Missy, you will find lots of our little furbabes at the Bridge to play with.
We are all here for you Sarah. Take care xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Oh Sarah,
I'm so so sorry to hear this. What a terrible shock.
You know we are all here if you need us :hug:
Take care of yourself
ems
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I am so very sorry Sarah
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Sarah, I'm so sorry :hug:
We're all here for you hun :grouphug:
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I am so sorry. My thoughts are with you.
Chris
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So sorry Sarah, thinking of you :hug:
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Oh God what an awful shock :'( :'(
Sending my love and huge hugs to you hunny, we are all here for you and thinking of you. :grouphug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
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The other day I was listening to music on the computer and I found this new song that I loved, Missy was sitting on my lap while I listened to it :'(
Hey there Delilah
What's it like in New York City?
I'm a thousand miles away
But girl tonight you look so pretty
Yes you do
Times Square can't shine as bright as you
I swear it's true
Hey there Delilah
Don't you worry about the distance
I'm right there if you get lonely
Give this song another listen
Close your eyes
Listen to my voice it's my disguise
I'm by your side
Oh it's what you do to me
Oh it's what you do to me
Oh it's what you do to me
Oh it's what you do to me
What you do to me
Hey there Delilah
I know times are getting hard
But just believe me girl
Someday I'll pay the bills with this guitar
We'll have it good
We'll have the life we knew we would
My word is good
Hey there Delilah
I've got so much left to say
If every simple song I wrote to you
Would take your breath away
I'd write it all
Even more in love with me you'd fall
We'd have it all
Oh it's what you do to me
Oh it's what you do to me
Oh it's what you do to me
Oh it's what you do to me
A thousand miles seems pretty far
But they've got planes and trains and cars
I'd walk to you if I had no other way
Our friends would all make fun of us
and we'll just laugh along because we know
That none of them have felt this way
Delilah I can promise you
That by the time we get through
The world will never ever be the same
And you're to blame
Hey there Delilah
You be good and don't you miss me
Two more years and you'll be done with school
And I'll be making history like I do
You'll know it's all because of you
We can do whatever we want to
Hey there Delilah here's to you
This ones for you
Sleep tight my angel, I'm so sorry I couldn't help you :'(
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:hug: :hug: :hug: :(
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:brokenheart: That's beautiful :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(
Are you at home hun :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
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I've only just read this. Sarah, I am so sorry. I can't even think of the words that do justice to how sad you must be feeling. Sending you a huge :hug: Don't listen to people if they tell you you're over-reacting. Missy was a member of your family. Again, my condolences. :'(
RIP, Missy. You were very loved. :RIP:
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So very sorry Sarah - thinking of you xxx
RIP Missy - sleep tight little one xxx
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Yeah I'm at home, I have today and tomorrow off. I just wrapped my angel in a clean towel and put her in a beautiful box with her favourite toys. Her little body is so cold, I didn't want to let her go :'(
I asked to speak to the vet to see what could have caused it but they are insisting that I need to bring her in. I don't want to disturb her anymore, I just want her to rest :'(
I have never felt so heartbroken in my whole life, I feel empty, all through the night I was praying that she might wake up. Now her body is stiff with rigor mortis, it's sinking in that she's not here anymore. I hope she wasn't scared, and that she knows how much I love her and always will :'(
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Poor little one! She knows you loved her!
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I'm absolutely devastated for you Sarah, I can only think that she was too good for this world :hug: If you beleive in Rainbow Bridge then you know you will be reunited one day, she'll be your baby forever :hug:
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Omg, thats totally shocking!
So sorry for you hun, :(
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Oh Sarah my heart is breaking for you :'(
Your beautiful Missy knew how loved she was and always will be. :hug:
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Sarah I am so sorry to hear about Missys passing. She did know you loved her and that you cared for her. God just had other plans for her thats all,I know its hard but trust me one day you will be reunited with her :hug:
Run free little one and chase them butterflies :hug:
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I can't say any more than what other folk have said. She had a wonderful home, was happy, and without doubt knew she was loved. You WILL see her again one day, you should take comfort in that.
Sleep well Missy.
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Sarah,
I am so sorry, poor little Missy :'(
I had a terrible scare last week, when I heard a cat - fitting the description of my youngest - had been injured or worse.
I couldn't find her at the time and just went to pieces; the thought that I had lost her was the most awful feeling ever.
It must feel unbearable for you now.
I imagine it's like losing a child.
Thinking of you,
Jas
X
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Oh Sarah, I'm so sorry, what a terribe shock, there are no words :hug: :hug:
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I managed a chat with Sarah in the chatroom last night. Poor love in is terrible shock and I was concerned about her. Thank goodness she has her BF there... a very worrying and very upsetting time as Missy was only 3/4 months old. :hug: :(
Missy passed away in her arms at home after being taken suddenly ill. There wasn't time for a vet. A bowel problem was suspected.
Sarah... we're all thinking about you. :care:
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A little something on the way to you hun from all of us at Purrs. :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
It's such a shock and you feel so numb for ages and you just don't want to accept anything. I still can't after loosing Rio, still can't think of him at all yet. One day hun we will be able to think only wonderful thoughts and one day we will be with them again on the bridge, until then they will always be with us in our hearts forever.
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Sarah so sorry about baby Missy
Taken so young and without warning, she was with you for short time but will leave pawprints in your heart forever.
It does take time to think about them but you will and so will you Tan sometimes it just takes time
So sorry again
Liz, Robin, Jazz, The Clan Cats and baby Skye :hug: :'(
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Thinking of you honny.. .
I can't even begin to imagine how devastated you are xx
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Thanks so much everyone.
I've been sleeping most of the day and John just woke me up to a gorgeous bouquet of flowers from all of you lovely people. Really brought a smile to my face, thankyou so much.
(http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v642/seldom_use/babies012-1.jpg)
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My heads a bit more clear now, we're going to bury her tomorrow in Johns parents back garden. I keep looking at her little body :( I miss her so much already :(
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Reading this has moved me to tears. I am so sorry for your loss Sarah.
Love Sarah xxx
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Sarah sorry I wasnt around for you earlier :hug:
You know I cant help feeling there was a reason Missy was with you..She came to you so soon after you recently lost your boy and now this has happened..perhaps she needed to be with someone who was going to take good care of her while she was here, and she had that with you and john.
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rip Missy
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So sorry to hear about little Missy. I'm sure she loved her time with you guys. :(
R.I.P Litle Missy
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Sarah, I am so very sorry for your loss.
Christine
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Sarah
So sorry to hear about Missy. Hope you're ok
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I know this may seem silly to everyone, but I've decided that tomorrow I'm going to go get a tattoo done in memory of Missy, so that I always have her with me :(
I'm just going to get a little loveheart or 2 hearts interlinked so she knows how much I love her. She was too young to be taken from me and I feel so guilty. I just want to honour her little spirit by having her with me forever. I've never had a tattoo before and never really intended to, it just feels like the right thing to do to show my little angel how much I care and that she's left the biggest pawprint on my heart <3
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Sarah - so sorry to hear about Missy, my thoughts are with you :hug:
Bye Bye little Missy - play happily at the Bridge.
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That's a lovely tribute, it's not silly, do whatever you feel you want to do to, a friend of mine had a small paw print tattoo on her shoulder after her cat passed away!
Hope you're ok
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Sarah thats such a lovely tribute to Missy,she might have only been with you for a tiny amount of time but shes left a print on your heart forever :hug:
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Not silly at all Sarah, at some point probably on the 1 year anniversary of Little Girl passing away I'll be getting two paw print tattoo's as she was big enough for two cats.
Missy will always be in your heart and a tattoo will be a lovely way to remind you of her. Just find a good artist, hopefully you know someone who's had one done.
When Lirael goes (may it be years from now) I'm getting the design that's on the Garth Nix book of the same name on my upper right arm.
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Sarah, all of our pets, our cats, our dogs, our horses, they are all part of our family. If you lost a relative you would not feel silly for grieving, and for many of us, our animals are so much a part of our family that losing them, particularly so suddenly, can cause just a strong and traumatic a response as you experienced last night. I sobbed for three days when my Reynard died. I could not go to work and my then-employers were less than supportive. I didn't care. I had lost the most important being in my life.
You can not blame yourself for Missy's passing. If a vet had been right there with you when the episode commenced, they would not have been able to assist, apart from making her last moments a torment of injections, pushings and proddings. You were with her when she went, and your love travelled with her to the rainbow bridge. She will wait there for you and you will be reunited with her, and you will enjoy the company of many more wonderful, loving animals through the course of your life.
Sleep well little Missy, and Sarah, we all care and are aching with you in your grief.
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Very well said bc.
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Indeed well said. Sometimes employers are less than sympathetic because "its just a cat". We all understand these little ones aren't. They are our babies.
I think your tribute to Missy is precious honey. I wish I could take the pain from you. :hug:
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So sorry to hear about Missy, thinking of you xxxxx
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i.v had a bad night and day with mango suffering , i kind of understand your pain
she is safe and well now and will be with you in spirit
her body was too tird but her little spirit lives on playing happy
love sasha x
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That's a lovely tribute, Sarah. And a great idea about the tatoo - she will always be with you then.
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I know this may seem silly to everyone, but I've decided that tomorrow I'm going to go get a tattoo done in memory of Missy, so that I always have her with me :(
I'm just going to get a little loveheart or 2 hearts interlinked so she knows how much I love her. She was too young to be taken from me and I feel so guilty. I just want to honour her little spirit by having her with me forever. I've never had a tattoo before and never really intended to, it just feels like the right thing to do to show my little angel how much I care and that she's left the biggest pawprint on my heart <3
Don't be daft you are not silly at all - I have a portrait of my Zak who was run over and killed, tattooed on my shoulder. He is with me all the time now. I think it is a wonderful tribute to missy.
You have me deepest sympathy, I and many of us here know how you are feeling. xxxxx
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oh sarah, i'm so so sorry to read this..... my heart goes out to you and the biggest virtual :hug:
sleep sweet missy x
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this is my tribute to Zak - so it's not daft at all. xxxx
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So sorry Sarah - thinking of you.
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:hug: Sarah, just caught up with this thread.
I am so sorry about Missy, words fail me, I dont know what to say
Thinking of you and John at this time.
Angie xx
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sarah the tattoo idea isnt daft but i would strongly advise against it so soon, it will not matter if you get it done in 2 months or 1 year but dont go rushing out and get it tomorrow.
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Oh my God Sarah i am so so sorry Hun.
I have only just seen this thread and i am shocked, stunned and so upset for you.
I really dont know what else to say -
So sending you much love and a hug xxxxx
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I agree with Lynn, a tattoo is for life. If you get the wrong thing or in the wrong place, your memories of missy may become distorted by you aggravation with yourself for making the wrong decision. Take your time, paint a picture of her, compile all your photos of her into a collage or do something equally creative. But don't get a tatt until you are in the right frame of mind to make a considered decision.
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I think a tattoo will be a lovely tribute to her, but agree with Lynn and BC that it might be worth waiting a short while to make sure you have the right thing done in the right location :hug:
I have the words 'Forever and Always, until Rainbow Bridge' translated into Hindi and tattooed lengthways along the side of my foot. Whenever I left the house I told Tiggy I loved her 'Forever and aAways' and we will be reunited at the Bridge so those words are very special to me
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>Helen that is so beautiful........ :Luv:
Ditto.....id wait a while before getting one Sarah.....im sure in time the right tattoo will come to mind :hug: :hug: :hug:
ps Gail that tattoo is amazing :wow:
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A tattoo is a lovely thought, I have a pawprint close to my heart done after Ginger went, I did wait a couple of months to decide what was the best place though (and still only decided on the morning I was having it done!!).
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Hi everyone,
Just a little update..
We buried the little one today.
The sun came out for a couple of minutes while I looked at her little body for the last time, I cried, but I know she's happy, I knew she'd made the sun shine for me.
I miss her so much, I did get my tattoo today, I've been thinking about getting one for a while, but after this I knew it was the right time, I absolutely love it and it's so special to me, I've put a little print of it beside her in her box, a little piece of her is with me always now <3
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Ahhh, thats lovely - making the sun shine for her mum :Luv: Lots of :hug: :hug: take care.
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Just caught this tonight. I'm so very sorry for your loss :( She'll always be with you though :hug:
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So pleased the sun shined for you and when she has settled on the Bridge I am sure she will send you a Rainbow :hug:
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Ah Sarah, so glad it went ok for you today :hug:
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Night night Missy, send your Mum a rainbow to let her know you've settled in OK :hug: