WEll, the woman sounds perfect, and I will be taking Kizzy over on Saturday - she is going to do it on a months trial basis first, but hopefully Kizzy will be an absolute angel and settle straight in (I am going to take her a blanket from here to help). I think she will be the first foster cat I have cried over when rehoming (the other cat who was here longer than her wasn't too hard to let go as he sprayed in the house!!) - it has taken a lot to get Kizzy from the aggressive cat she was last year to the cat she is now, and I have always had a soft spot for her (even before meeting her actually, her story really tugged at me), and if she had got on with other cats, i would have kept her, but this is what she needs and deserves, and I am glad for the support on here, as otherwise I might have listened to my neighbour, who doesn't think I should rehome her as she wont settle and then the poor girl would have had years of pulling out her fur