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In Loving Memory Cats => Rainbow Bridge - In Loving Memory => Topic started by: pappilon on June 30, 2009, 18:58:45 PM
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I had to take my brave Boy to be PTS this afternoon, he is gone :'( :'(
In April i was told he has Vestibular Syndrome and on friday his head tilted to one side again, that was the 3rd time since April, the vet gave him steroid injection and increased his daily dose aswell but told me he thinks the tumour in his brain is pushing more often now and that's why he expect the times of this happening get closer and more often . :( The first and second time he was treated and was fine for almost a month. This morning he was fine but when i came home early afternoon his head was tilted again and its been only 4 days since his last episode, i gave him some food but he couldnt eat and then he tried to go to his tray but couldnt make it, it was heartbreaking to see him like this :'( :'(
When he was diagnosed with Lymphoma in 2007 i promised him that i do every thing to make him comfortable but i also promised my self not to let him suffer. I feel so sad and cant stop crying i had to let him go, he was so brave. RIP Sweet heart. :hug:
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:'( awwww Pav, he sounds so like Schui was and I can really understand what you're going through. I am so sorry. Hugs to you and Phoebe :hug: :hug:
Godbless sweet brave Boy xx
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Oh sweetheart, I'm so so sorry to be reading this tonight :hug: :hug:
My thoughts are with you, I'm sure Boy knows you tried everything possible for him, and game him the greatest gift in letting him go :hug: :hug: xxxxxx
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So sorry Pav, what a sad, sad day. :'(
Thinking of you
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God Bless Your Special Boy
Jas
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So sorry to hear this Pav :hug: You did everything you could for him including letting him go when the time came :hug:
RIP Boy, safe and sound at the Bridge until your Mum is ready to collect you xx
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So sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you. RIP little one.
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Oh I'm so sorry Pav. :hug: RIP brave Boy.
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I had to take my brave Boy to be PTS this afternoon, he is gone :'( :'(
[...] When he was diagnosed with Lymphoma in 2007 i promised him that i do every thing to make him comfortable but i also promised my self not to let him suffer. I feel so sad and cant stop crying i had to let him go, he was so brave. RIP Sweet heart. :hug:
Pav, my thoughts are with you. Boy was brave and so are you, to ensure he did not have to suffer. With all your love for him, you never gave Boy a greater gift than that.
xChristine
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Pav you fought long and hard for Boy and gave him a wonderful life and loved him enough to let him go with grace and dignity. My thoughts and prayers are with you :hug:
He is not gone as he will live in your heart forever. :hug:
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:hug: I'm thinking of you, sweetie.
Having suffered so much at the hands of others in his previous life, rehomed time and again because a swipe from his paw meant he was mean, when Boy found his way to Pav he knew his forever days would be happy ones. Slowly but surely Boy became a new cat, and turned into the biggest purrpot this side of the planet. Always full of love and joy, never an angry swipe, never a growl, Boy just was.. Boy. Chilled, happy at home, and so in love with his Mum.
I remember when I first met Boy so many years ago, I spent many a morning or afternoon encountering an aggressive, long-haired, gorgeous black cat who sat on his doorstep, watching the neighbours coming and going. For the pleasure of having to walk past his front door to get to mine (clearly I was being rude by doing that! ;)) I'd get paid with a few swipes at my legs. Pav, if she was at the door, would look at me, smile and pretend to tell him off ;). I think it was those moment Boy ruled the roost and he knew it. We all loved him, especially when he made Smudge feel so at home after spending 6 months in quarantine and then our Pippa, who wasn't too sure of this big, chilled out cat. What a cool dude :)
I'll miss you sweet angel not least because you gave your Mum so many smiles and made her happy for so long. She would do anything for you, and often did - Boy, so innocent and sweet. RIP sweet angel boy. Forever loved.
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Pav I so didn't want to see those words in the title. I am so very sorry. You know you did the right thing but it's so hard. He had a fantastic life with you. :Luv2:
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Mary
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Oh Pav Sweetie I am so sorry, thinking of you and sending :hug: :hug: :hug: for you. Boy had such a wonderful life with you Hun and your love for him shone through in every word you wrote about him x
RIP Boy - Play hard at the Bridge sweetheart xxx
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Am very sad to hear this, RIP Boy.
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RIP Boy and hugs for you Pappilon
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So sorry to hear this news - Boy sounded like a wonderful character and a handsome boy who was greatly loved by you Pav ,who gave your heart to him and him you .
RIP Boy :candle:- Pav and you will meet again one day .
Sending lots of :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: to you Pav and Phoebe.
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I am devasted to hear this sad news and Boy will be so grateful to you for everything you did for him :hug: :hug:
RIP Boy, play hard on the Bridge and dont for get to send a message to your meowmy to let her kknow you have arrived safe.
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No No Noooooooooooo...... oh Pav I am so so sorry :hug:
Oh Pav I know how much Boy meant to You and i know You have given him a wonderful life. I know your heart will be breaking :hug:
I really dont know what else to say, I am devasted for You xxxxxx
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I have just read this, I am so so sorry, words just arent enough :hug:
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RIP Special BOY xxx
Pav I am so sorry! :( :grouphug:
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I am so very sorry to hear this Pav, but you gave him a wonderful life, you refused to give up on him like so many others had, and you fought to beat the vets expectations with his lymphoma and then let him go with dignity when something else came along that you couldnt beat, and for that he was such a lucky boy. RIP little one.
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So sorry to hear about Boy - believe me I know the pain
With heavy hearts; and a tear in our eyes
after all these years; we must say goodbye
Please understand; we've done all we could
if there was anything we could do; you know we would
I'm sitting right here; gently rubbing your ears
while I talk to you softly; trying to hold back the tears
The memories you gave us; we'll never forget
especially the ones; of the day we all met
One last hug; and one last kiss
you have no idea; how much you'll be missed
To look into your eyes; this one last time
you tell me it's ok; you know it's your time
Dream of that special day and time
when we'll meet at the Bridge; and all will be fine
We'll run and play; side by side
with a soft warm feeling; deep down inside
Your memory will live on; in each one of us
you'll always be number 1; to all of us
So with heavy hearts; and tears in our eyes
just for now my friend Boy; we say goodbye.
:RIP: Boy
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Pav I'm so sorry to hear this, you gave boy a wonderful life, I hope it is not long before you can look back with a smile on the time you had together
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Thankyou every one for your kind posts and the PM's :grouphug: I am sorry i cant reply right now, i feel so numb .
The place is so quiet without Boy. :(
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Thinking of you Pav :hug:
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So sorry to read this news. RIP Boy :Luv2: :Luv2: and lots of :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: to you Pav for doing right by him all the time he was with you, even at the end. :Luv2:
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So sorry for your loss
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Don't worry about us Pav - you speak to us when you are ready. :hug: :hug: :hug:
Mary
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So sorry to hear about your loss.
RIP Boy.
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Pav, I'm so sorry. It was obvious how much you loved Boy - and I would imagine it was to him too. :care: Hope you feel less raw soon.
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:hug: :hug: So sorry to hear the sad news.
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I'm so very sorry to hear the news. You were wonderful with him and gave him so much love. RIP little Boy. :hug:
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Im so sorry to read about Boy, he was a very special little boy who secured a place in your heart that nothing will ever erase :Luv: :candle:r.i.p sweet Boy safe and well at the bridge :hug:
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Oh Pav hun i am so sorry :'(
Sending all my love over to you :hug:
Boy was wonderful and you were to him. He will always be with you in your heart, whwnever you want to talk to him he will hear you.
Rest easy Boy lad.
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Oh nooooooooooooooooooooo I am so so sorry Pav, I am devastated and gutted to hear about BOY and can only imagine how you must be feeling. Please know that he was a very lucky BOY to have spent his last years with you being loved and looked after and he will be up at Rainbow Bridge smiling down at his mum with a heart full of love. I have to go my eyes are leaking xxxxxx :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Just want You to know that I am still thinking about You Pav :hug:
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So sad to hear the news, thinking about you :hug:
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Lots of love and dont worry about us :hug: :hug:
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What a brave boy he was. So sorry Pav xxx :hug:
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Oh my so sorry Pav :(
RIP BOY xxx
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Hope your okay Pav....Thinking of you! :Luv: :hug:
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Thankyou every one. :hug: I just dont want any one to think i am being ignorant, i am going to reply to all the PM's .
Phoebe is still very poorly and i just find it difficult to concentrate and find the right words :( Sending lots of good vibes to all the people with poorly kitties and hugs :hug: to every one else still suffering a loss. x
Missing you so much my beautiful Boy. :'(
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Good to hear from you Pav :hug:
Been thinking about you lots, i know how much you will be missing Boy .....Everyone is here for you xxxxx
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You are such a lovely woman Pav, in your time of upset you still worry about us lot and ours! :Luv: :hug: :hug:
Thinking of you! x
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:hug: we're missing you too Pav, I have been worrying about you and Phoebe and infact I have posted you a little note this morning xx
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Thnaks for the reply to my PM Pav - don't worry that it took a few days. You take your time and hope Phoebe picks up soon.
Mary :hug:
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Sorry I missed this Pav - I'm so sorry :'( :hug:
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Boy is now safely in the Rainbow Bridge section :hug:
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:'( Specially for you Boy - http://www.purrsinourhearts.co.uk/index.php/topic,26724.msg468923.html#msg468923 :Luv:
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Hi, my gorgeous cheeky Boy, today is 6 months since you left and is my first new year in 9 years without you :( I remember it was March 2000 when i said to my neighbour i am ready to give my heart to another cat(It was after loosing my babies Piccolo and Bambie in 1998/99) We drove to Mayhew and here was this tiny friendly tortie which we opened her pen and she was all over us so i went to pick my bag from the floor and i saw you :Luv: Big black cat holding my bag and licking the handle :)I dont know how you got out of your pen but i said to my neighbour he chose me and i cant leave him so we talked and i thought i take you and the tiny tortie. It was then when we were told you need to go to a home with no other cat or kid and def no men cos your first owner a guy used to kick you around and you were rehomed 3 times and returned to Mayhew at the age of 4 :'( What they didn't tell me or didn't know was that you were really scared of people feet, loud voices and men :( They reassured us that the torttie could find a home easily cos she was friendly but you!? Well sweetpea you came home with me that day and i remember i changed your name in the car from Oscar to Boy because i thought this is the first day of the rest of your life x I also have to say you were the first black cat which came to my life and i had no experience with , so the first week you were with me i walked in to my bathroom with light off not knowing you were there and my foot touched you and well that's when i learned how deep you were scar :-[ I ended up in hospital that night but i learned to leave the light on afterwards and tbh i didn't care when friends thought i should take you back cos i just KNEW deep down you are a beautiful and kind Boy and well Ruth post says it all ;) For 3 years you sat by the door and hissed and tried to scare people cos you were scared yourself and then you became the most loving cat which didn't stop purring for six years and opened your heart to DD, Jim, Mr Tramp and Phoebe. My beautiful brave Boy i shall always remember you with a big smile. You loved life and were bigger than life and shame on the people who didn't give you the chance to shine. Happy New year.x Miss you so much baby Boy
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You were fantastic Pav and you have to think of all the good times you had together.
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Mary x
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Oh you had a black cat as well. They are so special. I used ot have to feel around for him that I wouldn't step or sit on hm. I am so sorry for your loss. He sounds like a wonderful furnabe and you gave him a wonderful home. They will be forever missed and always in our hearts
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For all of his hardships throughout his life Pav, when you found each other that slowly faded away and was replaced with the love that you shared!
Thinking of you! :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Sending you lots of these hunnie :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
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He was lucky to have found you and known such love and caring in the end. :hug:
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:hug: Pav :hug:
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Boy and you loved each other and he was a special cat for a special person :hug: :hug: :hug:
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That's brought tears Pav, a lovely rememberance for your special Boy :Luv2: :hug: :hug:
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A wonderful tribute to a very special boy :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Thinking of you Boy and Phoebe on this New Years Day morning
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What a wonderful tribute Pav, I am so pleased you gave him a chance when no one else would, and he certainly appreciated you for it.
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Thinking of you my gorgeous Boy. Have got lots of candels on tonight for you and all the little guys who left their mum and slaves at this time last year.
RIP Sweethearts :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Pav :hug: :hug:
God bless Boy xx
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from me and Hettie
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For Pav: :care:
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Dearest Pap,
My deeepest sympathies angel...I am so sad to hear this news....thank goodness he had the love and attention from his meowmy. Cry as much as you need, feel teh pain dont stuff it away...he was a blessed companion to you.
Remember he hasnt gone!..just changed form...his spirit is with you ALWAYS...and he is out of his painful bodily prison now...freee! but still with you.
I wish there was more I could say or do for you....all i can do is empathise on a deep soul level dear freind.
love Kenni xxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Pav :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
Mary
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Thankyou everyone. :grouphug:
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Oh Pav I remember this time last year as if it was yesterday :hug: :hug: :hug:
Boy will forever be in your heart.....and you will always be a very special lady :hug:
We (Purrs) lost so many of our babies in these few months last year
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Oh Pav I remember this time last year as if it was yesterday :hug: :hug: :hug:
Boy will forever be in your heart.....and you will always be a very special lady :hug:
We (Purrs) lost so many of our babies in these few months last year
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Thankyou Michelle :hug:, it was a bad year for so many people here. :( :'(
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Can't believe it is a year already Pav, Hugs xx
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My beautiful Boy, its not your anniversary , i dont have the heart to post here .But it dont mean that i dont think of you and Phoebe which left me 3 weeks after you did .Sweet heart so much has happened since you left me :'( When you were here we lost DD and JIM and Mr Tramp, then it was you and Phoebe and in last two years i lost Millie a beautiful girl and now Mister :'( :'( You were such a beautiful brave Boy and if there is a cat heaven i know you would look after them all. You turned out to be such a loving and kind cat with the most amazing purr :Luv: We had 9 years together and i loved you from the moment i saw you in Mayhew, i am sorry if i dont post here every year but i do come on every anniversary for each of you and i cry and i lite a candle . :'( :'(
Mister is coming home tomorrow and right now i am not brave enough to talk about him but i knew you wouldnt mind me remembering him here on your tread because you had a big heart even though you had the worst start in life. You were and are an angle.I will love you all as long as i live my darlings :hug: :hug:x
RIP my sweet hearts.
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:'( :'( :'( :hug: :hug: :hug: Take care Pav
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Boy and his friends are watching over you Pav :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
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OMG Pav - I didn't know Mister had gone to the Bridge :hug: :hug: :'(
Mary
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Oh Pav :'(
Sending you lots of love xxxxx
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:candle: :care: Boy xx
Pav :hug: :hug: :hug: