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In Loving Memory Cats => Rainbow Bridge - In Loving Memory => Topic started by: clarenmax on July 31, 2009, 16:05:46 PM
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My darling boy, I had to send you to the Bridge today, you just couldn't fight any more could you baby, so I had to let you go.
We had 9 amazing years together, and there won't be a minute in a day where I won't miss you, and wish that you were still here with me.
We nearly didn't get the chance, luckily we found each other in time, as being FIV, they didn't think they would be able to find a home for you :( We saw past all that, and saw the wonderful boy who well fell in love with, and who we have been blessed to spend the last 9 years of our lives with.
Sadly cancer ended your life in the end, I don't know why it wasn't picked until a month ago baby, maybe you hid things so well as you loved life? I don't know, but I know that you'll be free from all these horrible illnesses up on the Bridge, and you'll have your sight back too, and you'll be able to eat what you like, none of that horrible renal food that mummy made you eat :hug:
At the moment I can't even think I'll ever be happy again, my heart is in two and I feel utterly broken, but I know that you're near me, and that you'll always be in my heart baby.
I'll always love you, RIP in my darling Max, please go find the other babies who have gone the Bridge recently, we all need you to make sure we're doing OK :hug:
Goodnight baby, God bless, xxxx
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god speed, lovely Max - sight restored and body made whole on the bridge
look after your meowmy left behind, and make her whole again too
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Goodnight God Bless Max
RIP darling boy xxxxx
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I loved Max and he was the first cat I liked so much I wanted to draw him. I am so sorry to hear that he has gone to the Bridge and my thoughts are with you
RIP Max, hunky one, have loads of fun on the Bridge mate
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Sleep tight Max , free from illness at the bridge. :'(
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Clare I so feel for you hun, you did your boy proud! :Luv: :hug: :hug:
RIP Max....You is my big scary panther, play hard on the Bridge sweet one x
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Max, love doesn't end when your body is no longer around to feel the fuss bestowed on it. You will always have that love wherever you are.
RIP, Max.
Clare, stay strong. You'll always miss Max but at some point you won't feel quite so much like the world has been torn apart. :hug:
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I was so sad to hear about Max - your tribute to him brought tears to my eyes
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I'm Free
Don't grieve for me, for now I'm free.
I'm following the path that has been laid you see.
I took the hand when I heard the call,
I turned my back and left it all.
I could not stay another day.
To laugh, to love, to meow or play.
Tasks left undone must stay that way.
I found that peace at the close of the day.
If my parting has left a void, then fill
it with remembered joys.
A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss.
Oh yes, these things I too will miss.
Be not burdened with times of sorrow.
I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow.
My life's been full, I savoured much.
Good friends, good times, a loved one's touch.
Perhaps my time seemed all too brief.
Don't lengthen it now with undue grief.
Lift up your hearts and peace to thee.
The Bridge wanted me now and set me free!
Max go and find all the other babes that we have lost and if you should run into Jess, Cleo and Milly please tell them that I think about them daily
:RIP: MAX
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:'( Oh im so sorry and shocked to hear your news RIP Max. Thinking of you during this sad time Claire :hug: :hug:
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Night Night Max, you adorable boy. :catluv:
Clare, you've been fantastic for 9 years and don't you forget that. :hug: :hug:
Mary and Bonnie xxxxxx :hug:
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I AM IN TOTAL SHOCK......CLARE I'M HEARTBROKEN FOR YOU !
OH MAX SWEETHEART, HAVE FUN AT THE BRIDGE TILL MUMMY COMES FOR YOU.
PLEASE SEND HER A RAINBOW SO SHE KNOWS YOU ARE OK.
CLARE, I REALLY DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY HUNNY.....I AM SO SO SORRY :hug:
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RIP dear Max. :'(
You are not alone sweet heart, joey and Molly will arive with you and i know all our little babies are there waiting to meet you , i am sure you make good friends with my Boy. He was kind and friendly , so look after each other and send your mumy a sign. :hug:
Clare, we are all here for you. :hug: :hug: xx
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Nite Nite Max - RIP sweetheart, Play hard at the bridge and send your Mummy a sign when you can. xxx
Thinking of you Clare xxx
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awwww Clare I'm so sorry :'( a gorgeous boy who will be sorely missed :hug:
RIP Max sweetie xxx
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RIP MAX and send your mum a sign when you can :Luv: :hug:
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Play hard Max, I know you will and I know you and my Vesti and Sofa are all playing together x
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Clare, I am so sorry - my thoughts are with you. Dear Max, you could not have been more loved and cared for and I know you gave back so much happiness in return, such a gorgeous boy who will be forever missed.
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Oh Clare I dont know what to say hun :'( :hug: You gave Max a chance and Im sure he had the most wonderfull life with you, something he maybe wouldnt of had :hug:
Night night Max send your mummy a rainbow xxx
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RIP Max,play hard at the bridge little one
Clare :hug:
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Oh no Clare I am so sorry! :( RIP Max you beautiful boy.
Take care Clare.
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So sorry Clare :hug: :hug: :hug:
:candle: RIP Max -a very special boy and loved so much .
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:hug: :'( Specially for you Max - http://www.purrsinourhearts.co.uk/index.php/topic,26724.msg468923.html#msg468923 :Luv:
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sweet dreams Max, your mum is always with you
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My baby boy, I can't believe its a week since I let you go, its funny, I've been going to work, doing all the usual things I would do, but none of it, absolutely none of it, is the same without my Mr Max doing it with me :'(
I hope you've made lots of friends up on the Bridge sweetheart, and don't forget to try and send me that rainbow when you've learned how, I'd be so much happier if I knew that you were OK xxxxx
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I know what you mean Clare - it's like walking around like a Zombie or a robot. Doing things but can't remember doing them or how the hell you managed to do them.
You'll get there girl and I'm sure Max will have found Smudge at the Bridge by now.
Mary :hug:
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This was taken the day before we let him go :Luv:
(http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y243/Klareyka/MrPEastbourne010.jpg)
Please excuse my ugly mug :doh:
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So sorry you lost him, Clare.
RIP Max
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That pic is beautiful, what a lovely big boy he was....to look at him you would not of thought he was even ill there! :care: :grouphug:
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Thanks hun :hug:
The only tell tale sign that he was ill was his skinny back end, he was almost concave as he lost so much weight so quickly, so when he was standing up you could see it. When he was lying down he looked just fine :'(
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He was a beast, wasn't he? What a strong looking lad.
The numbness fades, honestly Clare. You don't stop missing them but you start to smile again when you think about them after a while. :hug:
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He always was a big strong boy, bit of a bruiser really :Luv: Put it this way, you knew if you'd annoyed him :evillaugh:
I can smile about him now, which I didn't think would be possible - I was watching some videos on my phone earlier and didnt cry, it was so lovely looking at him before he became ill, which was realistically only the last 2 weeks of his life, and it was wonderful to see him when he was happy, healthy, and so obviously enjoying his life, which is an enormous comfort to us as we know that for 9 years, we did good :) :Luv:
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Mary :hug:
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I know what you mean. I actually fluctuated between being really happy that Toby had been loved as much as he had with us, and feeling miserable I didn't get to give him cuddles and show him I still did love him.
With Parsley it was such a rapid situation I just ended up crying for days because the shock was immense.
Glad you can look at his films without getting sad; I think it's wonderful that you've got something like that to remember him by. :hug:
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:RIP: Max XXXX
Handsome boy, my Splitz will find you, and you can play together XXXXX
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Just got back from holiday and so shocked to hear news Clare.
I am so so sorry.
RIP you beautiful boy
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:Luv2: awww lovely photo Clare :hug:
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That is a lovely picture, and it is good that he only appeared ill for the last couple of weeks
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I collected my boy's ashes today, I had no idea what to expect, but they are in a lovely wooden casket with a plaque on the top with Max's name engraved :Luv:
I was OK for a while, but as soon as I bought him through the door I got really upset for a few minutes :shy:
My boy is back where he should be, at the moment he's on the shelves he always wanted to play on, but was never allowed. I thought I'd let him have a look up there after all :shy:
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Max back home where he belongs :Luv:
The casket sounds just like the ones we have clare, they are very nice and yes it is very emotional :hug:
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I think thats a lovely gesture to put him on the shelves he was always so curious about! :Luv: :hug: :hug:
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Well done Max - you got on that ruddy shelf at last. :hug: :Luv2: :hug:
God bless Max.
I felt so satisfied when I buried Smudge in the garden next to the heather that he would always lay on for hours and squash.
:hug: :hug: :hug: to you Clare.
Mary x
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Clare, I am so sorry. I've been away and just only saw this. Words fail me. RIP Max.
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Clare, I am so sorry. I've been away and just only saw this. Words fail me. RIP Max.
Thank you hunnie :hug: xx
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Max you got on the shelves you always wanted to climb, I'm just sorry its been in this way.
Keep playing hard on the bridge sweetheart :hug: :hug:
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I've not had my rainbow yet, but I think that you've been too busy sending Poot to me, and looking over us to do it just yet baby :hug: :Luv2:
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Clare :hug:
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I firmly believe it's not always a rainbow. ;) And yes, I think sending Poot was a wonderful way of showing you he loved you.
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:hug: I think if ever there was going to be a sign, that was most definitely it :) that he wanted me to offer a forever home to another FIV boy in need :Luv:
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My baby boy, I'm missing you so much today baby, I'm sitting here in tears and not really knowing why, just that I miss you :'(
I know you sent Poot to me, and I love you so much for doing that sweetheart, and just because I'm loving him now, don't ever thinkf or a minute that I'll stop loving you, because you'll be with me forever xxxx
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:hug: :hug: :hug: Clare, I think there are many days like this to come..............I am 4 years on but.................. :(
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He'll never think that, Clare. Noone will. :hug:
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awww Clare, I have those days too when the missing hurts :grouphug:
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I think we all do. :care:
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I'm crying my eyes out now and you will have more of these days Clare and so will all of us. It's supposed to be good to cry :Luv2: :hug:
I've been sorting lots of interviews out at work today for the 4th September and it was the date that my Smudge went missing 2 whole years ago and I've been in tears.
Mary :hug: :hug:
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Think we all need one of these :grouphug:
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Bless you hun :hug: :hug:, i am the same about Splitz, i shed tears every night, especially because she should be on my pillow :'( :'(
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My heart is aching for you and darling Max. :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
Rest in peace dear little chap.
Send your mummy a sign when you can find the time in between playing on that Bridge!
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I firmly believe it's not always a rainbow. ;)
Oh yes, definitely not always a rainbow, with Elsa it was a flaming red sky like I've never seen before. Gypsy's sign was a vase of silk flowers that she always used to chew round the edges and knock over, the vase fell over after she died when there was no other cat in the room. Suzie's sign was a rainbow, but not in the sky - in the biggest bubble from the washing up bowl that floated before my eyes after she'd died.
Claire, I still have days now when I think of my lost ones and can't stop the tears welling up. :hug:
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I believe that when it rains my little girl comes to visit me, I think about her and it rains-so not always a rainbow :)
Strange thing happened one day, I was thinking about her then a song that reminded me of her came on the radio- then I saw half a rainbow ;D I believe this rainbow will be whole once Ted joins her, she was Ted's sister :) 5 years down the line and it still hurts like hell but now I can remember the good :)
Im sure Max would be proud that you choose Poot :hug:
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Well little man, it was a month yesterday that we let you go :'( and I still miss you as much as before xxx
Hope you're having fun playing with the butterflies in the sunshine my sweetie xxx
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Well little man, it was a month yesterday that we let you go :'( and I still miss you as much as before xxx
Hope you're having fun playing with the butterflies in the sunshine my sweetie xxx
God Bless you and Max. :hug:
I know how much it hurts and you are in my thoughts. :hug:
BIG love to you and darling Poot who, I am sure. is doing everything he can to make you feel better. :Luv2:
Sparklecat and Tulip
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Well little man, it was a month yesterday that we let you go :'( and I still miss you as much as before xxx
Hope you're having fun playing with the butterflies in the sunshine my sweetie xxx
Can't believe its a month Clare :hug:
Knowing Max he will be having such fun and all the girlie pussy cats will think he is handsome :Luv2:
Sending You lots of love Clare....I know how much it hurts xx
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Thanks hunnies :hug:
I'm sure Max is up there flirting with all the laydee cats, he always was a handsome boy so I'm sure he'll be charming his way around :Luv2:
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I bet he is cos he is so handsome :hug:
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Wow, nearly 2 months sweetie, still miss you like crazy, and I think you've been teaching Poot a few of your old tricks, haven't you :Luv2: :)
Hope you like that fact that I've bought your casket upstairs for a while too, thought you might be bored of the shelves by now, and might want to be next to the bed for while :Luv2:
Love you always my Panther boy xxxx
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Forever!
Sparklecat and Tulip
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Clare you crazy mum :hug: :hug:
Strange how we see some of our old cats in our new ones - I reckon they send messages. :Luv2:
"Do this to her today cos it drives her crazy" :rofl: :rofl:
Mary
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Strange how we see some of our old cats in our new ones - I reckon they send messages. :Luv2:
"Do this to her today cos it drives her crazy" :rofl: :rofl:
I'd put money on it :Luv:
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I can't believe its been 5 months since you left us baby, in my heart it feels like only yesterday, but so much has happened in that time too, its strange :hug:
Hope you and all our babes are going to have a massive New Year party on the Bridge tonight, but just wanted to say that I miss you sweetie, love always :Luv: :hug: xxxxx
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I really can't believe its a year tomorrow since we had to let my baby boy go. Time has flown, but I still think about him every single day, my darling panther boy :Luv:
Hope you have a celebration up on the Bridge sweetheart, know that I still miss you every day with all my heart, love you baby xxxx
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Clare I actually thought it was longer cos it seems like Poot's been with you for many years.
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Mary
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Thanks hunnies :hug: :Luv2:
Clare I actually thought it was longer cos it seems like Poot's been with you for many years.
I know what you mean, it certainly does feel that way. 14th August he's been with me a year, going to have to throw him a special 'do' lol, he's already got a pressie on top of the wardrobe, but shhh, don't tell him ;)
Max certainly knew what he was doing when he sent Pootypants our way :Luv: :Luv2:
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Thinking of you sweetheart. :hug: :hug:x
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it comes round too quickly don't it :(
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just a few more hugs as I know it is so hard :hug: :hug: :hug: