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Title: I let my baby boy go today - RIP Max 31.7.09
Post by: clarenmax on July 31, 2009, 11:49:31 AM

I can hardly see for crying here, I made the decision to let my darling boy go this morning  :'(

He did not have a good night, he had diahorrea yesterday and this morning, messed his tray, and weed on the floor as well, he's never ever done that before, so I set him free whilst he still had the dignitiy I've always wanted him to have.

I feel like my heart has broken in two, I had to go on my own as J is away for a few days, and whilst I have no doubt whatsoever that I've done the right thing, it just hurts so very much  :'(

God Bless Max, we had 9 amazing years together, and I was blessed to have you share my life, I will never ever forget you, and I know we will meet again someday on Rainbow Bridge.  Mummy and Daddy love you so very much, and although my heart broke in front of me, I hope you know that I was with you right until the very end.  Please send me a rainbow sweetheart, and go find Phoebe, Boy and Mr Darcey to play with, they're new too and you can all play together  :'(

I've got to go for a bit now, I feel so sick, I need to eat but I just can't  :'( :'(

Title: Re: I let my baby boy go today - RIP Max 31.7.09
Post by: Wibblechick on July 31, 2009, 11:52:10 AM

Oh, Clare  :hug: :hug: :hug:

Even when we know we have done the right thing, it hurts so very much  :'(

Thinking of you - be good to yourself  :hug:

We are all here for you when you want us  :)

RIP Max - play hard at The Bridge with all the other cats  :Luv:

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Post by: Zenith (Liz) on July 31, 2009, 11:53:01 AM

So sorry :(

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Post by: Dawn F on July 31, 2009, 11:55:25 AM

Clare hunnie I am so, so sorry, I know you didn't think you would but it sounds like you knew the time was right, its the last gift we can give them massive hugs to you hun, your heart will mend and you will look back and smile one day but for now take care of yourself  :hug:

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Post by: Angiew on July 31, 2009, 11:58:13 AM

So sorry Claire, you   did all you could to keep him happy and healthy and when the time came let him go peacefully even though it hurts you like hell.

RIP Max

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Post by: ems on July 31, 2009, 11:59:26 AM

So so sorry Clare, Never think that you haven't done the right thing  :hug:

RIP Maxy

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Post by: Feline Costumier on July 31, 2009, 12:06:33 PM

Oh Clare, as much as I knew this was coming it is still a shock. I have just shed a little tear :'(

You have given him the most wonderful gift of a life full of love and the dignity to love him enough to let him go with his dignity intact :hug:

Look after yourself and you know where we are :hug:

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Post by: Daisymac on July 31, 2009, 12:07:17 PM

Oh Clare,  I am so so sorry,  no words.

I feel for you  :hug: :hug:

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Post by: cats_whiskas on July 31, 2009, 12:10:52 PM

Oh my darling i am so so sorry for you. I can't believe you have lost your dear sweet Max. I know from Losing Mr Darcy yesterday, and having to make that horrendous decision that you will be feeling like your heart has been ripped out. I have had to come into work today and am struggling. It's so hard. I have just eaten the first thing since Wednesday. You must eat hun. I know it is hard but I feel better for it. I am here for you. Go through this with me if you need support.

Party hard with Mr Darcy at the Bridge x

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Post by: Christie on July 31, 2009, 12:29:20 PM

Very sorry to hear this, my sincere condolences on your loss. He looked a beautiful boy, I'm sure he had a wonderful life with you.

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Post by: Gill (sneakiefeline) on July 31, 2009, 12:33:29 PM

I loved Max and he was the first cat I liked so much I wanted to draw him. I am so sorry to hear that he has gone to the Bridge and my thoughts are with you  :hug:

RIP Max, hunky one, have loads of fun on the Bridge mate

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Post by: JackSpratt on July 31, 2009, 12:35:29 PM

He was most definitely a handsome boy. He was also extremely loved, and he'll have known it.

RIP Max. :hug:

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Post by: Christine (Blip) on July 31, 2009, 12:39:27 PM

Max was loved in life and spared from suffering at its end.  My thoughts are with you, Clare.  :hug:

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Post by: Susanne (urbantigers) on July 31, 2009, 12:41:41 PM

So sorry to hear this, Clare  :hug: :hug:  I'm so glad you were able to let him go while he still had his dignity, but that doesn't make it any easier  :hug:  RIP Max  :Luv:

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Post by: Leanne on July 31, 2009, 12:43:54 PM

Clare I can't believe what I am reading, your post has upset me and I shed a tear, you've given Max the best possible life and you gave him a dignified parting.

Thinking of you and J, it was obvious how much Max meant to you both  :hug: :hug:

RIP Max, play hard at the bridge sweetheart

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Post by: Millys Mum on July 31, 2009, 12:44:10 PM

So sorry Clare, you gave him a lovely life and let him go with dignity   :hug: :hug:

I haven’t left
I sat on your bed last night I came to have a peep
I could see that you were crying and you found it hard to sleep

I purred to you softly as you brushed away a tear,
Its’ me i haven’t left you, im well im fine, im here

I was close to you at breakfast i watched you pour your tea
You were thinking of the many times your hands reached out to me

I walked with you towards the house as you fumbled for your key
I gently put my paw on you I smiled and said 'it’s me'

You looked so very tired and sank into a chair
I tried so hard to let you know that I was standing there

It’s possible for me to be so near to you every day
To say to you with certainty I never went away

You sat there very quietly then smiled I think you knew
In the stillness of the evening I was very close to you

Now the day is over.... I purr and watch you yawning
And say goodnight, god bless, I’ll see you in the morning

And when the time is right for you to the cross the brief divide
I’ll rush across to greet you and we'll stand side by side

I have so many things to show you there is so much for you to see
Be patient, live your journey out then come home to be with me

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Post by: Lottie (Team Svartalfheim's) on July 31, 2009, 12:44:39 PM

Oh Clare I'm so sorry  :(  :( :hug: :hug: I know that no words will help but we are all here for you and I'm sure Max is grateful that you let him go with the dignity he deserved. A beautiful boy who had a simply wonderful life with you. I hope soon you can look back on 9 wonderful years of love and happy memories you shared with tears of joy rather than tears of sadness that he has gone :hug: :hug:

Sweet dreams beautiful Max xxxx

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Post by: dolcetta46 on July 31, 2009, 12:46:35 PM

 :hug: Clare  :hug:
I know there is no word that can ease your pain and sorrow.  Just remember we, who all knew and loved Max, sincerely share them with you as tears are welling up in my eyes.  And he will stay closer to you always, more than it seems. 
Have a great time over the bridge beautiful boy.  We will always remember you, just as mummy does.

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Post by: Mark on July 31, 2009, 12:47:00 PM

So sorry Clare. You gave him 9 wonderful years. Sorry I don't know what to say  :'(  :hug:

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Post by: pappilon on July 31, 2009, 13:02:03 PM

Oh sweetheart :hug: :hug: :hug: I am so sorry you had to go through this on your own  :( You love Max so much that you put him first and didnt want him to suffer, Max left this earth with dignity and couldnt ask for a better mum. :hug:I cant stop the tears now because i know the pain you going through. Clare do you have some one to come and stay with you till J comes back.
I share your pain with you . :hug: :hug: :'(

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Post by: Gillian Harvey on July 31, 2009, 13:02:39 PM

Oh Claire, this is heartbreaking, I'm so very sorry, you made the right decision, but as you've said, it doesnt really help with the raw grief you are feeling now,  take care  :hug: :hug:

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Post by: LeighK on July 31, 2009, 13:24:11 PM

You did the kindest and most brave and loving thing hun, no cat could hope for more loving companions than you two and Max was an inspiration to all prospective FIV cat owners.

Play hard at the bridge big fella, say hi to my Scott, Oli and Suzie.

Much love and sympathies.

Leigh, Alfie and Frankie

 :hug: :hug:

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Post by: Kirst on July 31, 2009, 13:28:39 PM

Oh Clare , there are no words to express how sorry I am. RIP Max, safe at the bridge till his mummy comes to collect him. :'( :'(

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Post by: Stuart on July 31, 2009, 13:43:15 PM

Oh no Clare  :'(
I'm so very sorry to read this  :'(
all those years, You gave Max a warm home and all the love He could ever have wanted right to the very end  :hug:
I know it's hard, but Please take comfort in Knowing that your wonderful guy is now in a better place and free from pain
and I'm sure My two Boy's will take good care of Him and show Him around the Bridge

My thoughts are with you Both  :hug: :hug: :hug:

:RIP: Max

 

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Post by: Jasmine on July 31, 2009, 14:00:12 PM

So sorry Clare :'(

Sweet dreams Max, you were blessed with a wonderful home.
xxx

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Post by: Sam (Fussy_Furball) on July 31, 2009, 14:49:21 PM

OMG Clare I'm so sorry .... I have just this minute finished looking at Max's photos on Facebook.

RIP you handsome boy.  Play hard at the bridge gorgeous xxxxx

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Post by: Bazsmum on July 31, 2009, 14:54:24 PM

Oh Clare!!! I am so sorry hun, I really did not think it was beautiful Max's time yet.... :'(

So sad for you and my thoughts reach out to you and wish you peace!  :hug: :hug: :hug:

RIP Darling Max....Play hard on Rainbow Bridge, your sight is now restored so please send your meowmy a rainbow when you are settled! xx

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Post by: sheryl on July 31, 2009, 15:01:49 PM

Oh Clare Hun I am so sad for you, you knew your boy better thatn anyone else and you were very brave to let him go with dignity - thinking of you xxx

RIP Max - play hard at the bridge sweetheart xxx

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Post by: Liz on July 31, 2009, 15:09:24 PM

Claire our thoughts are with you and J at this sad time :hug:

He had the most wonderful parents in you both, he was a wonderful advert for all the FIV cats and you made being his guardian look so easy, you gave him the hardest thing we do he went with his dignity intact and took your love with him :hug:

Only ever borrowed never owned but always a pawprint in your heart :candle:

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Post by: Tiggy's Mum on July 31, 2009, 16:16:48 PM

So, so sorry to hear this Clare  :hug: Am in tears here for you  :'(

RIP Max, safe and sound at the Bridge by now waiting for your Mum & Dad until they are ready to collect you xx

The Greatest Gift

I always knew this time would come,
From the very instant our eyes first met.
How I loved you then! How I love you now!
I made a promise then, and I will keep that promise now...
You will not suffer from a pain that will not heal;
You will not know the loss of a life remembered, now gone.

It is for me alone to make this decision,
The price for the bright joy and pure laughter
You brought me during the time we shared.
I am the only one who can decide when it is time.
When my hope dies, and my fear rides high,
Just when I need you most, I must let you go.

It is for you alone to tell me when you are ready
For without your guidance, I will not know
When to lay my grief, my guilt, my anger
My sorrow and my selfish heart aside
And give you this last gift, this greatest gift.
Your eyes will speak to mine, and I will know.

The pain of this moment is excruciating.
Tears stream down my face in a river of sorrow.
And my heart drowns in a pool of grief.
For you have spoken and I have listened,
And unlike other decisions I have made
This one brings no relief...no comfort...no peace.

For if there´s one thing you´ve taught me,
If there´s only one thing I´ve learned...
Unconditional love has a condition after all,
I must be willing to let you go, when you speak to me
I must be willing to help you go, if you cannot go alone.
And I must accept my pain so you can be free of yours.

Go easily now, go quickly now,
Do not linger here, it is time for you to leave.
Go find your strength, go find your youth.
Go find the ones who've gone before you.
You are free to leave me now, free to let your spirit soar
Rest easy now, your pain will soon be gone.

I pray I will find comfort in my memories...
In the dark and lonely days ahead.
I cannot say I will not miss you, I cannot say I will not cry.
For only my tears can heal my broken heart.
But, I promise you this; as long as I live,
You will live, alive in my mind, forever in my heart.

So I give you this last gift, all I have left to give,
And this will be my greatest gift...sending you away.
It is the measure of my unconditional love...
For only the greatest love can say,
"Good-bye, go find the bridge, we'll meet again,
Loving you has been the greatest gift of all."

Forever and Always... Until Rainbow bridge....

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Post by: moira on July 31, 2009, 16:23:31 PM

RIP little man. My thoughts are with you, Claire.

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Post by: nicter on July 31, 2009, 16:24:08 PM

Im so sorry Claire.
Play hard at trhe bridge little one
 :hug: xx

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Post by: Yvonne on July 31, 2009, 16:24:29 PM

So very sorry to hear this

 :RIP:   MAX


 :RIP: :candle:    :RIP: :candle:    :RIP: :candle:

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Post by: LadyJane on July 31, 2009, 16:34:43 PM

Good night Max

Big :hug: for you Claire xx

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Post by: Kittybabe (Ruth) on July 31, 2009, 16:38:47 PM

Honey, I'm so sorry  :hug:  You gave Max the most wonderful thing in life, he was loved and you respected him to let him leave with dignity. Bless you, sweetie.  :hug: RIP sweet Max. Lots of panther smiles where you are now.  :hug:

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Post by: tab on July 31, 2009, 16:43:57 PM

Im so sorry
Rip Max play well at the bridge baby
 :hug: :hug:
love
Tab

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Post by: maryas on July 31, 2009, 17:28:47 PM

Take care Clare.

I've PMd you.

Hope Max has found my Smudge they will be great friends.

Mary xx :hug: :hug:

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Post by: woodlandcats on July 31, 2009, 17:48:59 PM

OMG, not you too!! I can't believe this, what a dreadful month is this!
what can I say, you're not alone in this pain, but does that help, I wonder.
 :hug:

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Post by: AliCat on July 31, 2009, 18:19:39 PM

*hugs* RIP little man.

 :hug:

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Post by: Bryony84 on July 31, 2009, 19:28:44 PM

Clare hunny, I said this earlier on Facebook but I truly believe it so I'll say it again. You gave Max a chance when so many would not have done and not you have done the kindest thing possible. Remember the good times you had with him and he will watch over you from the bridge. x

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Post by: bonnielass on July 31, 2009, 20:02:33 PM

Im so sorry Claire that you lost your babe today and you had to go through it on your own :(you must be heartbroken but take heart in the fact that you let him go with his dignity and lots of love and im sure hes looking down from the bridge and will send you that rainbow soon :hug: :hug:    RIP MAX :candle:, safe from harm on the bridge and watching over Mum :Luv:                                                                                             

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Post by: MrsR on July 31, 2009, 20:40:08 PM

Oh sweetie  :hug: I am so sorry  :hug:

RIP Max play hard on the bridge with Vesti and Sofa, I know they'll look after you x

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Post by: Pinkbear (Julie) on July 31, 2009, 22:42:09 PM

Oh Clare, I'm so sorry for your loss.  :'( :hug: :hug:

Rest well Max  :Luv:

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Post by: Sylvia on July 31, 2009, 23:35:46 PM

Clare, my heart is breaking for you.  :'(  Max was a very gorgeous and special boy, and I know how much you love him and must miss him so much.  You and he were such an inspiraion to us.

I'm sure that he knew you were with him, and would have taken comfort from that.

I am so sorry  :hug: :hug: :hug:

Our babies at the bridge are looking out for you Max, and would love you to come and play.  When you have time, send your Mummy and Daddy that rainbow.

 :RIP: Max

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Post by: Philip on August 01, 2009, 00:34:38 AM

I'm really sorry Clare.

Take care  :hug:

Rest in peace little man.

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Post by: bunglycat on August 01, 2009, 01:02:58 AM

I am sorry about Max,  Clare -he was  a very special boy and i know how much you are missing him.
You loved him and let him go with dignity - he will be fit and healthy now playing at the bridge with all the other fur babies .
Sending lots of  :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
 :RIP:   Max

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Post by: clarenmax on August 01, 2009, 08:46:55 AM

Thank you all for your lovely messages and PMs, I'll try to reply to them but if I don't, it doesn't mean they are not wholly appreciated.

I slept quite well last night, think I was exhausted yesterday, and for just a few minutes when I woke up everything seemed normal.  Then it hit me again, and I'm once again sitting here crying my eyes out  :'(

Even just now going into the kitchen, normally Max's brekkie was the first thing I'd do, but just walking into the room and his food bowls not being there, its breaking my heart all over again today  :-[

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Post by: Daisymac on August 01, 2009, 09:27:07 AM

Aww Clare honey,  it will hurt still,  just think of Max on Rainbow Bridge,  he is looking after Molly as she is only a baby and I am sure he is having a lovely time.

Try and have a nice day,  be good to yourself and do things just for you  :hug:

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Post by: Janeyk on August 01, 2009, 09:32:46 AM

 :hug: awww Clare, you go through it and it hurts but you have all us to talk to and lovely memories of how happy your Max was with you  :hug:

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Post by: blackcat on August 01, 2009, 09:40:16 AM

Clare  :hug: so sorry to hear this news - know that you will be in my thoughts ... :hug: :hug:

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Post by: Baggy on August 01, 2009, 15:23:20 PM

So sorry Clare :hug:
Max had a wonderful life with you.

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Post by: cats_whiskas on August 01, 2009, 17:05:42 PM

Thinking about you and Max still today. I hope he and Mr Darcy are hanging out, looking down on us, wondering why we are so upset, as they will never leave us. I ache for my baby and I know you must feel the same.

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Post by: woodlandcats on August 01, 2009, 17:07:05 PM

The pain is unbearable.
Only people that love cats understand this.

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Post by: karenjet on August 01, 2009, 19:06:27 PM

I'm so gutted to read this, Clare  :'(
I know how much it hurts. Take care of yourself, I'll be thinking of you.

R.I.P Little Max

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Post by: Desley (booktigger) on August 01, 2009, 20:10:52 PM

I was so shocked to read this, I am sorry things happened so quickly, but at least he went with dignity. You gave him such a wonderful life, RIP little one

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Post by: Ann Clarke (Tabby cat) on August 01, 2009, 20:33:36 PM

I am so sorry to hear this Clare, Max was truly a special boy who was very lucky to have you and J to look after him. I know how much you loved him and you will miss him so much. He will be safe now at the bridge with all our babes.

RIP Max play hard at the bridge darling :candle:

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Post by: clarenmax on August 01, 2009, 20:45:13 PM

Thank you all so much for your lovely messages, they are very much appreciated, and the warmth and love from you guys has made me proud to be a part of our wonderful Purrs community  :thanks:  :hug:

J has just got back, so not on my own now, which is nice.

Today, I'm not sure how I feel.  I certainly feel much calmer, I think yesterday was just so traumatic that I couldn't get my head around anything.  I went out for a run earlier which made me feel a bit better, did some supermarket shopping, then put my feet up and watched rubbish tv all afternoon.

I've not cried as much today, its the little things which are getting me this afternoon..... I went upstairs to put some clothes away and noticed the wardrobe which my dear boy had attempted to shred over the years, and it just made me burst into tears again.

I do feel calmer though, as I know that he's not in pain, and that he would have wanted me to help him  :Luv2:

I'm also very thankful that his decline was quite rapid, if you know what I mean?  Up until 2 days ago he was still happy and purry, just losing lots of weight very quickly.  We now know that this was the cancer, and I don't know whey that wasn't picked up earlier, but I'll never know that. 

Anyhoo, thank you all again, I love you all xxx

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Post by: MrsR on August 01, 2009, 22:13:03 PM

 :hug:

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Post by: swampmaxmum on August 02, 2009, 22:11:18 PM

Clare, I've just seen this. I am so sorry, words are just inadequate. I know what a battle it's been for Max and for you, his mum, and my heart goes out to you.  :hug:
RIP little Max

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Post by: Janeyk on August 02, 2009, 22:28:09 PM

 :hug: glad J is now home with you Clare

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Post by: clarenmax on August 04, 2009, 21:02:35 PM

I bought a beautiful silver heart locket today, its really pretty, and now has a piece of Max's fur inside, so he will be forever close to my heart  :Luv2:

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Post by: Gill (sneakiefeline) on August 04, 2009, 21:29:48 PM

So pleased   :hug: :hug:

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Post by: Debsymiller (Rufus' mum) on August 04, 2009, 22:01:44 PM

Quote from: clarenmax on August 04, 2009, 21:02:35 PM

I bought a beautiful silver heart locket today, its really pretty, and now has a piece of Max's fur inside, so he will be forever close to my heart  :Luv2:

What a lovely tribute to your special boy xxx

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Post by: JackSpratt on August 04, 2009, 22:02:51 PM

That's lovely, Clare. :hug:

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Post by: LeighK on August 05, 2009, 08:28:26 AM

What a lovely thing to do Clare, that's beautiful.

 :hug: :hug:


Leigh

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Post by: Kirst on August 05, 2009, 09:57:30 AM

That lovely. :Luv2: :Luv2:

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Post by: clarenmax on August 05, 2009, 11:20:42 AM

I've also got a little trinket box with the rest of his fur I kept, some whiskers, and a claw sheath, when I knew I was losing him, I started collecting little keepsakes, they are all in my bedside cabinet at the moment as he loved to sit on there, even though he knew he wasn't allowed to  :Luv:

I have no idea when his ashes will be returned to me, I've asked for them in a casket as I don't want to scatter them.

I've seen a lovely black cat casket on the internet which I might well buy once I have them back  :)

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Post by: **TINA** on August 05, 2009, 11:25:39 AM

thinking of you xx  :hug: