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Cat Health & Behaviour => Health & Behaviour General => Topic started by: Dayzie on May 29, 2009, 23:02:17 PM

Title: lost or horny?
Post by: Dayzie on May 29, 2009, 23:02:17 PM
Ok, so theres a utterly adorable grey tabby tom outside my back door, everynight for the past 3 days now trying to get at my Dayzie. Tonight, not a mear 20 seconds a go, he chased her around the garden, sniffing everywhere she has sat, walking around mumbling and trying to get in the house. at first I thought it was cute but now it's rather annoying. How do I stop him from coming to my garden and leave my Dayz alone (who has been spayed) he's like an obsessed stalker!
Title: Re: lost or horny?
Post by: Kittybabe (Ruth) on May 30, 2009, 10:00:31 AM
Its possible he's an entire Tom. Any idea who he belongs to?
Title: Re: lost or horny?
Post by: Janeyk on May 30, 2009, 12:43:51 PM
Quote from: Kittybabe (Ruth) on May 30, 2009, 10:00:31 AM
Its possible he's an entire Tom. Any idea who he belongs to?

sounds like it to me, although can't they tell when the females have been done?  :-:
Title: Re: lost or horny?
Post by: Kittybabe (Ruth) on May 30, 2009, 13:49:20 PM
No idea.  :shify:
Title: Re: lost or horny?
Post by: CC & The Pussycat Guys & Dolls on May 30, 2009, 13:59:57 PM
I had an intact male lurking about my house when Harry was becoming of age, so dont know where cats stand on the hormone grounds  :-:

I know it must be annoying but this little one needs help too. Try the note on a collar thing and hopefull someone will call back  :)
Title: Re: lost or horny?
Post by: Dayzie on May 30, 2009, 16:43:40 PM
Quote from: ccmacey on May 30, 2009, 13:59:57 PM
I know it must be annoying but this little one needs help too. Try the note on a collar thing and hopefull someone will call back  :)

I might just do that because he does have a collar (quite tatty as well) thats what worried me because I thought he might have been lost as he is quite small and skinny. I don't want to turn down a stray :( I did leave some food out just incase but if he has got a home, I don't want him to get in the habit of coming to my house everynight looking for Dayzie AND food  :shocked:
Title: Re: lost or horny?
Post by: CC & The Pussycat Guys & Dolls on May 30, 2009, 17:28:03 PM
Just be prepaired for him to have an owner but for you to get him neutered  :tired: This is what was the case with a tom who came into my garden, he had an owner but they were not bothered about getting him done  >:(

As he was coming into my garden and spraying over my kids toys I took the matter into my own hands  :sneaky:
Title: Re: lost or horny?
Post by: Janeyk on May 30, 2009, 18:29:21 PM
Quote from: ccmacey on May 30, 2009, 17:28:03 PM
Just be prepaired for him to have an owner but for you to get him neutered  :tired: This is what was the case with a tom who came into my garden, he had an owner but they were not bothered about getting him done  >:(

As he was coming into my garden and spraying over my kids toys I took the matter into my own hands  :sneaky:

Exactly - the same's happened with us, we neutered the tom who was spraying everywhere but sure he has an owner and still trying to find this out.
Title: Re: lost or horny?
Post by: Kay and Penny on May 30, 2009, 18:46:08 PM
Quote from: ccmacey on May 30, 2009, 17:28:03 PM
Just be prepaired for him to have an owner but for you to get him neutered  :tired: This is what was the case with a tom who came into my garden, he had an owner but they were not bothered about getting him done  >:(

As he was coming into my garden and spraying over my kids toys I took the matter into my own hands  :sneaky:


I have a vision now of you standing by your back door with a pair of sharp scissors in your hands :scared:
Title: Re: lost or horny?
Post by: CC & The Pussycat Guys & Dolls on May 30, 2009, 20:36:59 PM
HAHA Im not that cruel  :evillaugh: