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In Loving Memory Cats => Rainbow Bridge - In Loving Memory => Topic started by: Rosella moggy on September 14, 2008, 20:23:31 PM

Title: Our lovely boy Thomas
Post by: Rosella moggy on September 14, 2008, 20:23:31 PM
Thomas - December 1989 to 9 September 2008

We had to let our lovely boy go last Tuesday as he could no longer eat in comfort  :'(.  It was very peaceful for which I will be eternally grateful to the vet and VN.

(http://i264.photobucket.com/albums/ii191/Rosella100/Cats/CIMG1904.jpg)

Thomas came to us from a local cat rescue with his mom (Kerry - semi feral I suspect) when we first moved to our house. 

(http://i264.photobucket.com/albums/ii191/Rosella100/Tom1.jpg)

(http://i264.photobucket.com/albums/ii191/Rosella100/Tom2.jpg)

He was very young and had been separated from his mom for a while   >:( and I'm afraid she never fully accepted him after that (I don't think she was quite as craazy as she looks in the photo!). She moved out some months later and went to live with our catsitting neighbours and their 2 gingers.  We initially spent many weeks bringing her back home each evening but eventually gave up and she never came to visit again.

A few months later we got Tom a “pal”, Gandolf, who passed away April 2006.  Unfortunately Gandie was a bully whose territory covered a large area but thankfully Tom was never a threat so Gandie stopped picking on him after a short while.   

Tom never wanted for love and attention.  His football skills were legendary.  He could lose a table tennis ball in a nanosecond.

(http://i264.photobucket.com/albums/ii191/Rosella100/Tom3.jpg)

Despite friends trying to steal him when he was a wee un (I recall his head poking out of a friend's handbag when she was leaving once), he shared his life with us for almost 19 years.  Not once in that time did he ever show anything other than the sweetest nature I've ever known in a cat.  He would lick the vet in an effort to stop being examined.  He always did as he was asked, came when called, purred like a motorbike as soon as you looked at him, never strayed, never any toilet accidents (he's the only cat I know that, in later years, would go to his tray to be sick; I am ignoring the time he was sick in my handbag last year and the many, many times in earlier years he would chew grass and be sick  ;)).  OK so we taught him the chewing fingers trick but that was our fault.

(http://i264.photobucket.com/albums/ii191/Rosella100/Tom4.jpg)

More recently Tom would pat OH’s face in the wee hours demanding food whilst shouting a little too loudly.  He never did that to me of course.  Before he began to lose his hearing he talked to us all the time, but only when spoken to of course. 

We never could understand where his muscles came from coz he spent 98% of his life eating and sleeping (on OH’s pillow more recently). 

He got a new lease of life when Aslan and Billy Whiz arrived a couple of years ago. He once actually came into the house with a (thankfully dead) mouse shouting about what he’d got.  The last time he had done anything like that was many, many years before.

My catsitting neighbours always called him Tom kitten.  He was a lovely boy throughout his life to humans and other cats alike.  It just wasn’t possible to think of him as all grown up.  We will miss him when it finally sinks in that he has gone but for now it’s still not real.  Can only be grateful we have Noni, Freddie and Billy Whiz to keep us on track esp Billy W who strangely has gone all lovey dovey the last few nights  :Luv:.

RIP our beautiful darling Tommie  :Luv2:
Title: Re: Our lovely boy Thomas
Post by: sheryl on September 14, 2008, 20:52:39 PM
What a wonderful tribute for a wonderful boy xxx Thinking of you Rosella xxx

RIP Tommie - play hard at the bridge sweetheart - forever in your Mummies heart xxx
Title: Re: Our lovely boy Thomas
Post by: Michelle (furbabystar) on September 14, 2008, 20:53:48 PM
Oh Hunnie i am so sorry to hear that -

Your tribute to Tom made me cry, He will watch over You, his Mum, from the Bridge until you are reunited again

xxxx
Title: Re: Our lovely boy Thomas
Post by: clarenmax on September 14, 2008, 20:53:55 PM
Such a wonderful tribute to Thomas, its clear to see how much you loved him, and how much you are missing him  :hug:

He will be safe and sound on the Bridge now, running around in the grass and sunshine, hopefully he'll send you a rainbow very soon to let you know he's safe xxxx

 :hug: :hug: :hug:
Title: Re: Our lovely boy Thomas
Post by: ginge66 on September 14, 2008, 20:57:19 PM
Just want to say like the others its a lovely tribute to Thomas he sounded quite a character

R.I.P Thomas :hug:
Title: Re: Our lovely boy Thomas
Post by: Maddiesmum on September 14, 2008, 21:48:22 PM
That's a really lovely tribute to Thomas RIP
Title: Re: Our lovely boy Thomas
Post by: Mark on September 14, 2008, 23:21:03 PM
RIP Thomas  :(

It sounds like he had a wonderful life with you  :hug:
Title: Re: Our lovely boy Thomas
Post by: Stuart on September 14, 2008, 23:28:28 PM
what a beautiful tribute
So sorry for your loss  :hug:

:RIP: Thomas

Title: Re: Our lovely boy Thomas
Post by: Desley (booktigger) on September 15, 2008, 08:19:48 AM
i am so sorry to hear this R but he sounds like he was a truly wonderful boy. RIP little one
Title: Re: Our lovely boy Thomas
Post by: Topsy Turvey on September 15, 2008, 10:24:06 AM
RIP Thomas x
Title: Re: Our lovely boy Thomas
Post by: JackSpratt on September 15, 2008, 12:20:20 PM
What a wonderful fella Thomas was, Rosella.

It's so obvious how much you all loved him.

I'm glad the other three are helping you both through this; it's so hard to lose a member of your feline family.

:RIP: Thomas, loved and most definitely never forgotten.
Title: Re: Our lovely boy Thomas
Post by: alisonandarchie on September 15, 2008, 15:38:31 PM
What a wonderful memorial to your dear boy :hug:

Tommie had such a terrific life with you and OH :hug:
Title: Re: Our lovely boy Thomas
Post by: Gill (sneakiefeline) on September 15, 2008, 16:12:47 PM
RIP Tommie you were loved so much and you gave so much in return, you will always have a paw in your humans heart.
Title: Re: Our lovely boy Thomas
Post by: Sue P (Paddysmum) on September 15, 2008, 18:38:04 PM
Feel the sun and the breeze on your fur, lil' man.  Truly a Giant of a cat, your Mom will never forget the gift of your love.  xx
Title: Re: Our lovely boy Thomas
Post by: Tiggy's Mum on September 15, 2008, 19:45:39 PM
What a lovely tribute  :hug:

RIP Tom, safe and sound at the Bridge until your Mum and Dad are ready to collect you xx
Title: Re: Our lovely boy Thomas
Post by: Rosella moggy on September 15, 2008, 21:54:25 PM
Thank you each and everyone. Am so grateful for your warmth and kindness. Most of the time it's OK and then all of a sudden it so isn't.

Me and OH are pretty good now at burying feelings (had a little of practice in the last 2 years) but then it comes across all unexpected if you know what I mean and back to square one. Tom was indeed a very special and lovely lad  :Luv: :Luv: :Luv:
Title: Re: Our lovely boy Thomas
Post by: Rosella moggy on September 15, 2008, 21:58:59 PM
Oh  :censored: .

Just realised today is 2nd anniversary of Aslan's passing  :'(  September is always going to be a bummer.....
Title: Re: Our lovely boy Thomas
Post by: alisonandarchie on September 15, 2008, 22:07:52 PM
Aslan and Tommie will be on the bridge together :hug:
Title: Re: Our lovely boy Thomas
Post by: JackSpratt on September 15, 2008, 23:02:40 PM
Oh Rosella. :care: I do hope the little princess is keeping those cuddle levels topped up to the max.
Title: Re: Our lovely boy Thomas
Post by: Michelle (furbabystar) on September 16, 2008, 13:08:06 PM
Rosella i have only just seen this as i dont tend to look at the RB threads as they upset me

I am so sorry for your loss Hun xxxx
Title: Re: Our lovely boy Thomas
Post by: Philip on September 16, 2008, 23:06:34 PM
Oh Rosella its happened to both of us around the same time again.

I'm so sorry to hear about Thomas.

Doesn't he look a little like Tiffy.

God bless you sweet Thomas.

 :hug:
Title: Re: Our lovely boy Thomas
Post by: Sylvia on September 20, 2008, 23:04:54 PM
I'm so sorry to hear about Thomas.  I can see from your tribute how much you must have loved him.  He was such a beautiful boy, and I am so sorry for your loss  :hug:

He will always be with you, forever in your heart.

Sweepy saw me sitting here crying, and has come to help me type this, and sends you a comforting Sweepy headbutt.

 :RIP: Tommie
Title: Re: Our lovely boy Thomas
Post by: Rosella moggy on September 21, 2008, 01:44:50 AM
Thanks Sweepy hun  :thanks:  Mums are no gud wen it cums to this sorta stuff  :hug: 

Thanks so much everyone for your comments.  Take care Phillip.  :hug:  Black cats are so very fab   :hug:
Title: Re: Our lovely boy Thomas
Post by: Gillian Harvey on September 21, 2008, 15:37:51 PM
Lovely tribute Rosella - the bits about the friend 'stealing' him away in the handbag and how proud he was of his mouse catch made me smile (through the tears).   :hug: RIP Thomas. 
Title: Re: Our lovely boy Thomas
Post by: JackSpratt on September 27, 2008, 19:27:34 PM
I agree - love black cats. :Luv: