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Cat Health & Behaviour => Health & Behaviour General => Topic started by: hels on September 01, 2008, 13:26:47 PM

Title: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: hels on September 01, 2008, 13:26:47 PM
My cat George is 17 and he got various medical things wrong with him like kidney and thyroid problems and he's recently been having episodes of cystitus.

yesterday he kept trying to wee and only little bits were coming out and he was a little incontinent. and last night he had like a seizure and we took him to the vet and the mass/tumour in his bladder has got bigger and theres another mass near his kidneys. his bladder was completely full and she emptied it and said in the next 24hrs he needs to start eating again (he'd gone right off him food) and weeing on his own.

she gave him a painkiller, antibiotic and gave me some valium to give him today. i gave it to him but it's made him so unstable and he is still insisting on going to the litter tray and trying to wee and nothing is coming out. he is eating ravonously but i know that's just the valium doing it. he's lying beside me now completely flat out.

they cant operate on his bladder as it cant really be repaired and i guess i could learn to empty his bladder but then that wont stop him going to the litter tray to try to wee.

does anyone know if there's anything else i can try, i know im clutching at straws but i thought it was at least worth asking

Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: Gill (sneakiefeline) on September 01, 2008, 13:48:48 PM
So very sorry to hear about George  :hug: :hug:

What is your vets best advise?
Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: Dawn F on September 01, 2008, 14:19:55 PM
Hels  :hug: what does your vet advise, is George comfortable do they know?
Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: hels on September 01, 2008, 14:23:07 PM
the vet said if he's not weeing properly and eating in 24hrs then there's not really anything they can do, so i guess we would have to have him put to sleep.

George doesn't seem comfortable, he keeps trying to go to the litter tray and not being able to wee.

i guess i know what i have to do but dont want to
Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: Dawn F on September 01, 2008, 14:27:24 PM
oh Hels hun, I'm sorry - I think deep down we all know when the time has come  :hug: :hug: :hug:
Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: Gill (sneakiefeline) on September 01, 2008, 14:27:35 PM
I am so very sorry  :hug: :hug: :hug:
Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: Christine (Blip) on September 01, 2008, 14:29:15 PM
 :hug:, Hels
Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: Team Svartalfheims on September 01, 2008, 14:30:07 PM
Sending a big hug to you and George  :hug: :hug:
Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: Leanne on September 01, 2008, 14:55:33 PM
 :hug: :hug: :hug:

I don't know what else to say

 :hug: :hug: :hug:
Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: Tiggy's Mum on September 01, 2008, 14:56:42 PM
:grouphug:
Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: HaneyHarperIndyMum (Val) on September 01, 2008, 15:33:34 PM
Oh I am so sorry that George is not doing so well.  It is a very heartbreaking decision for you to make I'm sure.   I'm sure George has has a wonderful life as it is clear you love him very much.  Sometimes we must put our hearts aside and do what is best for our fur babies.  You will know when that time has come.  Again, I'm so sorry. :hug:
Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: clarenmax on September 01, 2008, 15:36:12 PM
Can't say any more than has been said already hun  :hug: :hug:

Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: Mark on September 01, 2008, 15:38:43 PM
Sorry Hels,

I can't offer any advice other than if you trust your vet completely, they will know what to do for the best which is what you will also do for George  :hug:
Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: Jasmine on September 01, 2008, 16:24:09 PM
So sorry to hear about George.

Metoo (15 yr old boy I adopted in June) has undergone tests recently for suspected bladder cancer - the ultrasound has come back clear so it is unlikely, but it's too risky to undergo x-rays to know for sure.

The vet did tell me it is a very painful condition. :( 

With all the will in the world, I'm not sure there is anything you can do Hels...

Thinking of you & George.
 :hug:

Jas
 X
Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: Maddiesmum on September 01, 2008, 18:47:00 PM
So sorry, think the only thing you can do is rely on the meds etc and hope he pulls through this.  Fingers crossed.
Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: Liz on September 01, 2008, 20:43:37 PM
Hels,


We are crossing paws here at the Clan cats but can't offer any advice other than if you trust your vet completely, they will know what to do for the best which is what you will also do for George   :hug:
Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: Kirst on September 01, 2008, 21:48:20 PM
So very sorry to hear about George. You will know what to do for the best for him when the time comes. :hug:
Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: swampmaxmum on September 01, 2008, 21:52:17 PM
I'm terribly sorry.  :hug:  :hug:
Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: candyshandy on September 01, 2008, 22:06:31 PM
George has now gone to the bridge  :'(
Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: Gill (sneakiefeline) on September 01, 2008, 22:13:37 PM
I am so sorry Hels  :hug: :hug:

RIP George
Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: Jasmine on September 01, 2008, 22:14:24 PM
Sorry Hels,
God Bless you George.

 :hug:
Jas
 X
Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: Tiggy's Mum on September 01, 2008, 22:18:52 PM
Really sorry to hear this  :hug:

RIP George, safe and sound at the Bridge until your Mum is ready to collect you xx

Remember Our Love

I was chosen today
I'm learning to fly
the world took me away,
but please don't you cry

And I chose you today
to try and be strong
so please don't you cry
and don't say that I'm gone

When you're feeling alone
just remember our love,
I'm up near the stars
looking down from above.

Remember our love
In a moment you'll see
that I'm still here beside you
when you're thinking of me.
Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: HaneyHarperIndyMum (Val) on September 01, 2008, 22:20:40 PM
I'm so very sorry.  I can't imagine how sad you feel inside.  Losing George after all those years together has to be so hard.


 RIP George   :RIP:   You are pain free now over at Rainbow Bridge to run and play just like a new kitten.
Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: Michelle (furbabystar) on September 01, 2008, 23:35:35 PM
I am so sorry Hels  :hug:
Sending You a hug and much love

RIP GEORGE xx
Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: caledonia on September 01, 2008, 23:51:19 PM
RIP George  :RIP:
Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: Maddiesmum on September 02, 2008, 05:42:12 AM
I am so sorry, RIP George
Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: Desley (booktigger) on September 02, 2008, 08:18:52 AM
I am so sorry to hear this Hels, but you did the best thing for him, RIP little one
Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: clarenmax on September 02, 2008, 09:37:19 AM
I'm sorry Hels  :hug: :hug: :hug:

RIP little one xxxx
Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: Dawn F on September 02, 2008, 09:38:02 AM
Hels I'm so sorry but it sounds like you had no choice  :hug:
Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: Mark on September 02, 2008, 10:11:01 AM
Sorry Hels  :'(  :hug:

You spared him from suffering - as Ela always says, it's the last kindness we can offer them  :hug:
Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: Christine (Blip) on September 02, 2008, 11:16:49 AM
I am so sorry, Hels

xC
Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: Liz on September 02, 2008, 20:35:20 PM
 :hug:to you and the others Hels, somehow you will get through this but having been so long part of your life its like loosing your own baby, the pain will lessen but he will be a pawprint in your heart forever
 :grouphug:
Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: Kirst on September 02, 2008, 21:51:56 PM
So sorry to hear this Hels , Play hard at the brideg George.,xx :hug:
Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: Angeladeedah on September 02, 2008, 23:24:03 PM
I am so sorry to hear of your loss.   My thoughts are with you.   :RIP: George x
Title: Re: Is there anything that can be done to save him?
Post by: Gillian Harvey on September 02, 2008, 23:30:10 PM
I'm really sorry Hels  :hug: