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Cat Health & Behaviour => Health & Behaviour General => Topic started by: Teresa Pawcats on May 08, 2008, 08:46:41 AM
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Time for an update on Busters condition , his tumour is now huge and yesterday vet gave him anything from 12 hours to 2 weeks,our little man has shrunk and is so fragile. He is not in pain and does have some quality.
Here are my thoughts of him
Buster the first time I set eyes on you I wanted to kill the 80 year old drunkard that had confined you so cruelly, of course I couldn’t do that because I had a terrible fight on with you, how angry and aggressive you were towards me. You wanted to kill any human that crossed your path and somehow I was right in the line of fire.
For 7 long months I fed and cared for you and you repaid my kindness with bites and scratches at every opportunity, you hated me, I despaired of you; you never cowered in a corner you always came forward to attack; Buster what a fighter you are.
Without warning one sunny July day you decided I was an ok person and jumped onto my chair and enjoyed being stroked, soon after you became a people cat. Some lovely people offered you a home and you ran off out of the garden and didn’t return until they had gone, I got friends to offer you a home and each time you ran down the garden disappearing until they had gone; Buster you are a crafty old so and so, you knew exactly what you were doing, I guess you chose us.
A couple of months later you became really poorly and needed a life saving operation like a sex change, it was touch and go but we got through ok and I think we both realised at this time just how much we loved each other. We also found out that you had a heart problem and spondylosis of the spine and that you would need monthly injections for life.
Over the years you have made some wonderful friends both furry and human, Winnie the dog was your all time favourite, You took charge of our bottlefeds and taught them everything they needed to know, how to wash properly, how to kick a ping pong ball and most importantly how to gain human love and respect, wee Andy was your last charge.
You welcomed quite a few golden oldies and made them feel so important and comfortable during their last days Sundance was as fragile then as you are now he’s waiting to greet you along with Iris and Clio and others. As for us humans you greeted each and every one always the purr fect host and so worthy of your title of Buster President of Paws Inn
For some strange reason you never had any patience with Minimopsical, how strange that now in your final days she is the one you now choose to share a bed with, or is it because you groomed her for the job of First Lady when she was a tiny bottle-fed?
Buster in truth I can describe you as a rogue, quite the most lovable, intelligent and understanding rogue and somehow that cat I once despaired off has become part of me. I am proud to have shared your life and I pray that your last days with us are happy and that I am strong enough not to let you down.
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Firstly hun you haven't let him down at all and I say that with 100% of my heart.
I wish I could send you all my strength and love. I wish I knew what to say but I don't. Please know that the tears I cry right now after reading your post are sincere and understanding of what you are going through.
I am sorry I don't know the right thing to say and sorry I am apologising when you need strength rather than what I offer x x x
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Best wishes for you and buster T :hug: :hug:
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Thinking of both of you.
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My thought's are with you and Buster T! :hug: :hug: :hug:
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What a wonderful piece Teresa, so filled with love. Buster is lucky you found him and you have given him what every cat has a right to, a loving, caring home. I hope his last days are filled with pain free happiness and my thoughts are with you at this sad time. :hug: for you and :hug: for Buster
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Thinking of you both :hug:
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Thinking of Buster and you.
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Sitting at my desk with tears in my eyes Teresa, what a lovely piece you have written. :hug:
Sending all our love and best wishes for you and Buster :hug:
ems and jon
xxxxx
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Thinking of you and Buster. :hug:
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My thoughts are with you, Teresa. May Buster's remaining time be as happy and content as all his years with you. Love to both of you.
Much love
Christine
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No words are enough to describe my love for Buster. I do know that he trusts you to know when the time is right.
C xx
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Teresa, Buster is so lucky to have found you. It's obvious how much love you have for him (And from what you've written I can understand why) and I can't see it's likely that you'll ever let him down.
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Sorry T - I'm sure he is only here now due to your love and persistence. You have given Buster a great life. You will find the strength somehow - you always do :hug:
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Oh T what beautiful words, you wont let Buster down Hun. xxxx Thinking of you T and wishing Buster contentment and happiness in his remaining time. xxx
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What lovely words for a wonderful boy
You have not failed him in any way you gave him love and gained his trust and he will tell you when its time but perhaps the sunshine might give you some extra time with this lovely boy
Our thoughts are with you at this time
Liz and the Clan Cats :hug:
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Buster has had a very long and wonderful life with you T and I can feel your pain. He has made it through to the start of the sunny weather and am sure he knows that you will always be with him where ever he is in the future :hug: :hug: :hug:
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T: Thanks to you Buster has had a long and very happy life and your patience and love has turned him into the amazing friendly cat he is today. At least Buster will spend his final days with all the love and support that you have always given him and I am sure that that will bring him great comfort. I will keep you and Buster in my thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time :hug: :hug:
Buster: I am so proud to say I have met you. You are such a handsome boy and you did make me giggle when you accompanied me to the toilet and watched me just in case I didn't know what I was doing. You stole my heart on my visit to Paws Inn and there really is only one word to describe you, incredible. You really are one of a kind. I know that when you decide the time is right to leave for Rainbow Bridge that you will continue to keep a watchful eye over your slaves and the Paws Inn residents. I hope that the rest of your time is peaceful and that you enjoy the sunshine xxxxxx
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T hun That is so beautiful :) Darlin Buster knows you won't let him down, you never have. You have shown him all the love he so deserves, he knows without you all those years ago he would not be the loving cat he is today.
Sending all my love over to you and Buster, give him a gentle cuddle from us all and you both are in my prayers and thoughts. :hug:
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Spent the last couple of days and nights in tears but am now sitting smiling.
Buster: I am so proud to say I have met you. You are such a handsome boy and you did make me giggle when you accompanied me to the toilet and watched me just in case I didn't know what I was doing.
Think he did the same for Pav such a caring old rogue :Luv:
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Oh Teresa,
I had no idea that dear Buster was so ill....I am so very sorry. I have always felt a special bond with Buster because of the illness and 'sex change' op that he shared with Jet. Until I read your beautiful testament to him, I had no idea of his early life.
Like everyone else, I am deeply saddened that his life is now nearing its end....he has been such an inspiration. But what a triumph he has been for all the love and care you devoted to him. God bless you Buster.
When he finally passes over you know that he will still be with you in spirit and that you will be together again one day. He will be fully restored to his former glorious self (sex intact!) and will be in a place far more beautiful than anywhere we can imagine on this earth. Somewhere that is filled with love and joy.....I am certain of it. And I bet pretty Iris will be there to greet him at the end of his journey.
Take care hun and I will be thinking about you.
Lots of love to you both
Roz
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I am sorry to be coming to this so late, you haven't let Buster down, and never could, he ended up in the best possible place all those years ago, and he is such a lucky boy. You will both be in my thoughts.
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Thinking of you and Buster :hug:
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Teresa, what a touching and very moving tribute to Buster. He knew when he found you how lucky he was - no way was he ever going to live with anyone else ever :hug:
I know how hard it will be for you to say goodnight to Buster when the time comes. Remember its only goodnight and never goodbye xxxx.
Thinking of you and Buster xxxxx
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Teresa, my thoughts are with you and Buster - what a special boy.
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Buster was gently Put To Sleep this morning.
At 22 years Buster has enjoyed a good happy life. Our lad never forgot his origins as a stray and welcomed the endless stream of needy cases resulting in him being made President of Paws Inn a job he carried out with Purr fection to the end.
I am sure that Buster would be delighted if lots of cats got extra cuddles in his honour.
Looks like I`ve a lot of cuddles to give and each one with a big smile.
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I'm pleased Buster is at peace now. God Bless this gentleman who could make anyone smile. I will miss him terribly, he was the highlight of my trips to the Inn.
RIP dear dear Buster, enjoy a life at the bridge full of love and happiness.
With much love always,
Ruth and Lexy xxxx
And a big cuddle for Aunty T. xxx
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RIP Buster
Good night and God Bless :hug:
Much love to you Teresa :hug:
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Darlin Buster you always were and always will be a wonderful wonderful Lad and we will all miss you very much. Rest easy sweetheart, have fun with all our babes up there on the bridge. :Luv:
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T you and Rob and all over at Paws are in my thoughts, send my love over and lots of hugs. I will def give my lads a huge cuddle and some prawns in Buster name. :Luv: :hug 2:
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RIP Buster, much loved and always in everyones hearts
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Oh Teresa,
What can I say? I'm so sad to hear about the demise of big, beautiful, wonderful Buster....
I know you gave him a smashing life and he repaid you with his loyalty and affection and steadfastness. How different his life would have been if you hadn't taken him in.
He is at peace now, bless his heart, but will always be with you.
I'm so, so sorry. :'(
God bless you Buster darling. Go play in those sweet meadows and watch over each and every member of Paws Inn from your new home, just like you did when you were here.
Thinking of you Teresa :hug: :hug: :hug:
Lots of love
Roz
Teresa, can you pm me with your address please? I can only find scant details....I know I used to have it but seem to have mislaid it.
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Awww T, I'm sorry hun :hug:
He will no doubt be telling his new Bridge friends what an amazing life he had with you :hug:
RIP Buster, play hard at the Bridge sweetheart.
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So much loss recently of dear feline friends, have shed a tear or two, but find it so difficult to find the right words...
:hug: to Teresa & everyone else still suffering a loss.
And a special four paw salute in you honour Buster,
God Bless you Sir!
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:RIP: Buster
Thinking of you today - take care :hug:
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Buster was a very special cat and worthy President of Paws Inn, where he enjoyed such a long and happy life.
My thoughts are with you, Teresa, and I shall be certain to give Blip an extra cuddle as a tribute to dear Buster.
Love
xChristine
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I'm sorry Teresa.
I loved seeing Buster whenever I've been to the Inn. He was (and will be on the Bridge) a real star, and I know all cats are special but Buster had something else about him entirely. I reckon his legacy will live on with all the little ones that you save.
RIP little man.
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sorry to hear this T, 22 is an amazing age so he did very well finding you :hug:
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RIP darling Buster xxx
>T :hug: :hug:
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Sorry T - I know as much love as you have for all cats, Buster has a special place in your heart. You gave him a long wonderful life and should be proud :hug:
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:RIP: Sweet Buster. :hug:
I met Buster once but i will always remember him with a smile , he was sweet and kind. Bless you .
Teresa sending you :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:. Pav, Phoebe, Boy and MrTramp.x
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I am so sorry. I never knew Buster but he was obviously a well loved character judging by what other people who have met him say. RIP Old fella
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My thoughts are with you at this sad time.
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Teresa please accept my sincere and heartfelft condolences for your loss :(
Buster was a very special boy who had along and obviously happy life with you.
RIP Buster ... much loved and sorely missed. Play hard at the bridge ole fella.
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Very sorry to hear about Dear Buster. what a wonderful life he had you must feel so proud of your boy :hug:
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RIP Buster :'(
:hug: to you all at Purrs Inn :hug:
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RIP to a very special little old man who made the world a happier place. I'm so sorry for your loss. :hug:
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RIP Buster. You were a wonderful character and you'll be missed.
Teresa, hope you're coping OK.
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RIP Buster :'(
T you gave him a fabulous life :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Teresa I'm so sorry to hear about Buster, he was a really special lad. I know you'll miss him loads.
Take care of yourself, loads of hugs.
x
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So sorry to hear your news T - just re-read your thoughts on Buster, what a lovely life he had with you. :hug:
:RIP: Buster, sleep tight.
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So sorry to hear this Teresa :hug: He'll be safe and sound at the Bridge by now, waiting for you until you are ready to collect him...
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Huge :hug: for you and all at Paws T, thinking of you xxx
RIP Buster, watch over your Mummy and all the furbabies from the bridge, have fun special boy xxx
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Teresa, Im thinking of you and send lots of love xxxx
Goodnight darling Buster xxxx
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Had so many lovely messages and PM`s from people I just dont know how to begin to say thank you to everyone.
I promise to reply to all PM`s when I feel a little less raw.
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RIP little one, and do send a message down to show you got to the bridge safely and are happy up there - I know you have some old friends up there, all waiting till you can be reunited again.
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Buster and president of Paws in may you run free and look in on your Mum
Only ever borrowed, never owned but always a pawprint in the Inn's world
Loved by so many and missed by your cyber family
Our thoughts are with you at this time and the wonderful legacy this boy leaves behind is an inspriation to all cat rescuers everywhere that with love and time you became his devoted slave and above all him Mum :hug:
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So sorry to hear this, Teresa you give him the best of everything :hug:
RIP Buster, carry on your good work up there teaching the young and comforting the old.
Night night sweetheart x
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Sleep tight darling Buster you will be missed so very much xxxxxx I have given all my cats a big cuddle in your honour and told them all about what a wonderful boy you are. Take care on the bridge and send your Mummy a sign so she knows you are safely there xx
Huge hugs to you T at this awful time :hug: :hug:
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So sorry to hear about Buster, your tribute to him has left me in floods of tears. He was very lucky to find such a great mum
RIP little man :hug:
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Teresa - to you I send this :hug:
To Buster, I salute his spirit, and courage. May he cross the Bridge with swagger and panache. :candle:
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RIP Buster :(
Teresa i'm so sorry for your loss
*Goes to hug Blue*
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I'm so sorry to read this.
RIP Buster. Poor little mite.
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So sorry to read about Buster, Teresa :hug:
RIP Buster :RIP:
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I left the vet and got into the car yesterday and was about to drive off when Annie the vet nurse came charging out to check I was ok as she had been in the back and only found out about Buster when his body was carried through; Annie hugged me and said what beautiful music, it was Classical Fm my most favourite piece though I didnt know what it was called. The music was played at the birth of each of my 3 grandsons and has such a special meaning in our family. I looked it up on Classical FM it is Einaudi`s I Giorni so beautiful and so significant and to me it was an immediate sign that Buster was already made new.
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Ive just seen this - Im so sorry Teresa. :RIP: Buster.
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R I P Buster xxx
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I'm so sorry to hear about Buster T, he was truly a very special gentleman and was blessed to have found you when he needed you most. He will be missed by so many, including those of us not lucky enough to have met him in person. I'm sure he is already looking after all of the cats at Rainbow Bridge the way he looked after so many at the Inn.
:RIP: Buster enjoy your new life at the Bridge and let Aunty T know you are safe.
Love to you all at Paws Inn from Ann, Dylan and Hobbes x
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Teresa, I am so pleased that you heard that piece of music just when you did - my thoughts are with you. With all the friends Buster has waiting to meet him at the Bridge I guess he needed to let you know he is OK without delay - what a special boy and I know he will be keeping a watchful, loving, eye on all at Paws Inn, both human and furry.
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RIP dear Buster.
He's got a lot of kitties to look after on the bridge.
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I am so sorry, RIP Buster x
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Hi everyone:
Please see: http://www.purrsinourhearts.co.uk/index.php/topic,15244.0.html
This is our tribute to Buster. :Luv:
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Thanks Ruth, Tan and everybody that has already donated. I know this is what Buster would want; after all he was a very needy stray once upon a time.
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Will you accept a cheque and if so do I send it to the shop address and who should I make it payable to please?
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what an amazing thing about the music T, well done Buster for passing on his message so quickly - if I'd like to donate by cheque who do I send it to??
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Hi Chrissie and Dawn,
Thank you for that. Please feel free to send a cheque to Tan at the shop address. If you don't have that let me know.
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payble to purrs?
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Yes thanks.
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On it's way today
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So sorry for your loss Teresa. Buster sounds like he was an amazing cat and proof of how much love and attention can make all the difference to a cat.
R.I.P Buster.
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I am sorry to hear of your sad loss. Thinking of all your family at this time.
Rest in peace Buster.
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You will all know how much Buster meant to us at Paws Inn (and to lots of other people around the country).
While he will never be forgotten by us, we also wanted to do something special to remember him.
Teresa had the great idea of Busters Bench and to complete this, we have added a remembrance plaque in his honour.
A number of people contributed to the cost of the plaque and the remainder of the money collected has been used to create the Buster Memorial Fund which is to be held and managed by Tan.
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Simply beautiful
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And Busters Memorial Fund now exists as a fitting tribute to the wonderful, brave Buster: to be used for the most needy ones, wherever they may be.
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Glad to see Minimopsical has given it her seal of approval, too. :)
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Just wanted to say a huge Thank you to Claire and everyone who donated towards Busters plaque , as you can see from the pictures it is really lovely and he would have approved, the last photos we took of Buster were of him sitting on his bench so its lovely to take a minute and sit there remembering him.
Also want to say a huge Thank you to everyone who has donated to Busters memorial fund, I know Tan will will ensure it reaches the most needy when the time comes.
Thankyou All
Teresa x