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Title: I feel horrible now
Post by: Den on February 06, 2008, 08:55:46 AM
I just got back from dropping Memphy off at the vet as it's his neuter day. I should be used to it but it's still horrible dropping them off. To make matters worse I got to see him in the vet holding area and poor Memphis looked sooooooooo scared, I've never seen him look like that before  :( :( He's always so cheery. The hair on his tail was all stuck up and out and fluffy, and he gave me that "Meowmy come back" look.

I'm going to pick him up at 6 ... today's going to be a long day  :'(
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: madkittyrescue on February 06, 2008, 09:01:43 AM
awww bless.   I usually work on the assumption that if I treat it as if its another every day thing rather than fuss with them it helps.  It is hard not to worry though especially when its your own.

I'm sure he'll be just fine tho.  Let us know how he is later tonight.  :hug:
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: clarenmax on February 06, 2008, 09:05:08 AM
Aw, he'll be fine, and be home again before you know it  :hug:

Try not to worry (easier said than done I know), and try not to watch the clock as it will make the day go more slowly.

Keep yourself busy and the hours will just fly by  :hug:
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: Den on February 06, 2008, 09:23:24 AM
I can't get his scared little face out of my head :( Gonna just do housework, washing, walk the dog etc.
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: MrsR on February 06, 2008, 09:26:00 AM
Yes any of mine would be on my mind all day and I'd be worried but it is a routine op and I am sure everything will run smoothly and he will be home safely and be loving the cuddles and attention.   Try and keep yourself busy and if you need to keep phoning the vets to see how things are then do it - will rest your mind a little.
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: Susanne (urbantigers) on February 06, 2008, 09:30:25 AM
Poor lad.  He'll be fine.  I hate leaving Jaffa at the vets cos he's such a scaredy cat when he's there so it was awful when I had to leave him for his dental a while back.  But however much he hated it, he was fine when he got home so I'm sure Memphis will be the same.  He might not be very happy while he's there, but he will get over it.
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: maryas on February 06, 2008, 11:25:18 AM
Aw Den, I know how you feel.  When I used to leave Smudge at the vet for him to have his teeth done he would be meowing so loud and deep, like a screaming sound and Iwould walk out of the vet crying.  I had to do it twice in 14 yrs and each time I would always phone before he was due to come round from the anaesthetic and they would laugh at me turning up early to pick him up, but as soon as he heard my voice inthe reception he would start meowing from the other end of the surgery.  I too clock watched and it's not good for you.  I agree with others try and keep yourself busy and get out of the house.  He will be ok, they will keep him nice and warm and entertained I'm sure.

Cuddles all round tonight I bet - he'll forgive you.  :rofl:

Mary
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: MrsR on February 06, 2008, 12:54:36 PM
What time did they tell you to phone today?
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: sheryl on February 06, 2008, 12:57:07 PM
Its such a worry but I'm sure he will be fine.  Waiting until 6 seems an awfully long time, when Raffiki was "done" we dropped him off at 8.30am and he was ready to collect at 11am.  When he got home it was as if he hadnt had anything done.
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: Den on February 06, 2008, 13:03:05 PM
They should be phoning anytime now  :scared: :scared:

Surgery is 10:30-12 usually. I can actually pick him up at 2 but because of circumstances I'm not going to be able to do it until 6.
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: MrsR on February 06, 2008, 13:05:27 PM
At least once you hear from them you will be able to relax a little.
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: Den on February 06, 2008, 13:06:59 PM
I need the loo but refuse to go until they call  :-:
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: Susanne (urbantigers) on February 06, 2008, 13:14:13 PM
They should be phoning anytime now  :scared: :scared:

Surgery is 10:30-12 usually. I can actually pick him up at 2 but because of circumstances I'm not going to be able to do it until 6.

In some ways I think it's better to leave them there a bit longer.  That way the anaesthetic should have worn off and you won't have a wobbly kit trying to run around and bumping into things!
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: MrsR on February 06, 2008, 13:19:43 PM
I need the loo but refuse to go until they call  :-:

Take phone with you - have to admit I've done that when awaiting for the vet to call  :evillaugh:
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: ChrisB on February 06, 2008, 13:37:24 PM
It is horrible having to leave them - I'm sure everything will be OK and Memphis will soon forgive you.
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: maryas on February 06, 2008, 13:39:58 PM
Den, phone the vet, they will understand you are anxious.  I used to phone quite often with Smudge and I just said sorry but I need to know he's ok.  I agree with Suzanne too - not good for you as you want him asap, but it will give him more time to come around.  Good luck.  :hug:

Mary
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: Den on February 06, 2008, 13:58:55 PM
I went to loo then phoned them. Normally they'd have phoned so don't know what's so different today. He's fine and awake which is a relief.

What should he have for dinner today? ....... he was starving this morning as he couldn't eat after 6pm yesterday.
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: maryas on February 06, 2008, 14:02:49 PM
The vet usually tells you - I used to give Smudge some steamed fresh fish but he's an adult cat.

Whatever you give him I would only make it a small amount even though he might seem like he's starving.

Bet you're dead happy.  :hug:

Mary
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: Pinkbear (Julie) on February 06, 2008, 14:03:33 PM
Den, all vet nurses go through extensive training on dealing with fretful meowmies and daddies.  :evillaugh: But sometimes the lure of a cheese and pickle sarnie does make them forget promises to call with updates.

I must have dropped dozens of cats off for the snip. None of them looked happy about it. Only one caused problems but that was because he was crypto and even so, he survived the ordeal and was still pleased with the bowl of prawns he got as a reward.  ;)
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: Den on February 06, 2008, 14:07:39 PM
I've volunteered [and worked - but we don't talk about that] in rescue. In fact at the same place Memphy is, I know them all very well. They do so many neuters every week, and I've taken care of plenty of neutered dogs/cats but it's so different when it's your own little one  :scared: :scared:
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: MrsR on February 06, 2008, 14:13:49 PM
So glad all is fine :)
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: clarenmax on February 06, 2008, 14:14:18 PM
Glad he's OK  :hug:  Bet you can't wait until later on now to go get him and give him a huge cuddle  :Luv:

I would go with bland food for today, when Max had his teeth done a few years ago they gave us some pouches of food, and said he probably wouldn't be hungry after the anesthetic ............. boy were they wrong, bounded straight out of his carrier to his food bowl  :evillaugh:
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: MrsR on February 06, 2008, 17:14:41 PM
Awwww not long now - I'm waiting for the clock to hit 6 also and its not even my furbaby!  :doh:
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: Den on February 06, 2008, 18:53:24 PM
Aww thank you MrsR.

He's home now and he's sleepy. He started meowing as soon as he got him home. I let him out and he went charging around downstairs meowing his little head off. Then he ran upstairs and started digging on the bed so I picked him up and plopped him in his litter box. Poor boy was in the "wee position" for so long and not much came out. Then he had a little groom a bit of food and went back into the carrier and started grooming himself. Now he's asleep on my bed ... he still seems very out of it  :Luv:

Apparently he was very well behaved.
I was shocked that they leave the incision open.
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: Millys Mum on February 06, 2008, 18:58:09 PM
Everything pops back nice and tight so no need for stitching, its a teeny hole so dont worry about things appearing  :rofl:

Glad that you have got your boy back  ;D
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: Bazsmum on February 06, 2008, 20:30:41 PM
Aw bless I bet your relieved it's all over now.... :hug: :hug:

Shows how differently the anesthetic affects our babes.....My Baz (biggest cat even massive as a kitten!) was really tired from it....even fell asleep sat up in the litter tray!  :Luv: Just watch him with food as he could be sick if he eats when he is too sleepy....water is fine though as weeing weakens the effect of the anesthetic!  ;)
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: Millys Mum on February 06, 2008, 20:39:46 PM
My VN told me bigger cats take longer to get rid of the effects of a GA or sedation. I didnt ask why as at the time i wanted to get my poor spikey home asap  :evillaugh:
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: Bazsmum on February 06, 2008, 20:40:51 PM
My VN told me bigger cats take longer to get rid of the effects of a GA or sedation. I didnt ask why as at the time i wanted to get my poor spikey home asap  :evillaugh:

Prob like people....ammount given = size/weight of the patient!  ;)
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: Den on February 06, 2008, 20:45:16 PM
He's still asleep!!!!!!!!!!! If he gets up and acts like a loon at 10pm he's normal, if not he's officially still drugged up.

Memphis weigh in was 3.2Kg and he's just turned 6 months!
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: Pinkbear (Julie) on February 06, 2008, 20:48:51 PM
My first ever cat, a stray I took in called Tooshey, made the most of it when he was done. He jumped straight out of the carrier and on to the sofa, curled up and went to sleep.

I let him lay for hours but eventually, as he hadn't moved, I got worried.  :shify: I tried calling him, stroking him, no response.  :( Then I got out his favourite snack - sliced liver sausage. As soon as the smell hit his nose, he lept up from his coma and nearly ate my fingers off.  :rofl:
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: MrsR on February 06, 2008, 21:06:41 PM
Awwwww glad he he home and happy, albeit and drugged up happy boy  :evillaugh:
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: Millys Mum on February 06, 2008, 21:14:00 PM
My VN told me bigger cats take longer to get rid of the effects of a GA or sedation. I didnt ask why as at the time i wanted to get my poor spikey home asap  :evillaugh:

Prob like people....ammount given = size/weight of the patient!  ;)

But they get the same dose per kg as a smaller cat would.... :-:
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: blackcat on February 06, 2008, 21:18:17 PM
yes, but it is still a larger dose all up - so they sometimes take longer to recover ...
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: Susanne (urbantigers) on February 06, 2008, 21:53:07 PM
I'm glad he's home and well!  I bet you're so relieved.  I know I always am.  When Mosi was neutered he bounced out of his carrier like he was on speed and acted like nothing had happened.
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: Gill (sneakiefeline) on February 06, 2008, 22:50:29 PM
Hope Memphis is all woke up now, has he eaten and drunk?
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: dolcetta46 on February 06, 2008, 23:47:07 PM
Just found this thread phew, what a day for Memphy!!  Hope he has awaken and doing well!!   :hug: :hug: :hug:
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: clarenmax on February 07, 2008, 09:11:37 AM
How's Memphy doing this morning?  :Luv:
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: MrsR on February 07, 2008, 09:16:31 AM
Yes how is the patient this morning :)
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: Den on February 07, 2008, 10:29:59 AM
He's only just woken up  :shocked: He has basically slept from the time I got him home to now ---- (in fact I think he's fallen asleep under my legs right now  :shocked:). He's still very quiet. Normally he would be jumping all over me, but nothing so far  :-:
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: clarenmax on February 07, 2008, 10:30:36 AM
Aw bless him  :Luv:  Has he eaten anything since last night?
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: Den on February 07, 2008, 10:32:51 AM
Yup, he's been getting up having a nibble then going straight back to bed.
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: MrsR on February 07, 2008, 10:45:44 AM
Awwww bless him, give him a kiss from me
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: clarenmax on February 07, 2008, 10:48:18 AM
Sounds like he's milking it for all its worth then, and making you feel very guilty for de-nutting him  :evillaugh:

I'm told they do that veeeeerrrrrry well  :hug:
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: Den on February 07, 2008, 10:59:37 AM
You all should see where he is  :scared:

I want to get out of bed, but he's so comfy!! I'm lying in bed with my legs up so the duvet forms a tent (its comfy for me) and he has taken the space on the bed under my legs and is curled up asleep  :innocent: He likes it in the dark.
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: MrsR on February 07, 2008, 11:01:37 AM
Awwwww comfy kitty  :)
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: Susanne (urbantigers) on February 07, 2008, 11:25:09 AM
Sounds like he's milking it for all its worth then, and making you feel very guilty for de-nutting him  :evillaugh:

I'm told they do that veeeeerrrrrry well  :hug:

I think Memphis is going to milk this one for all it's worth!
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: clarenmax on February 07, 2008, 11:37:01 AM
Clever Memphy  :naughty: :evillaugh: :Luv:
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: Den on February 07, 2008, 13:56:57 PM
 :-: He's back to normal!!!!

He's chasing the dog.
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: MrsR on February 07, 2008, 14:01:07 PM
 :rofl: Fabulous news
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: clarenmax on February 07, 2008, 14:15:03 PM
It doesn't take them long to bounce back  :evillaugh: ;D

Great news!
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: dolcetta46 on February 07, 2008, 14:49:40 PM
 ;D Great to hear that Memphy is back to normal!!  Bless him :hug:
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: Gwen on February 07, 2008, 15:02:31 PM
YAYYY,go Memphis,go Memphis :shify:
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: Den on February 07, 2008, 15:16:31 PM
Really Really back to normal now

(http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v449/Bauersqg/IMG_0420.jpg)
(http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v449/Bauersqg/IMG_0421.jpg)
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: Gwen on February 07, 2008, 15:18:51 PM
Den if you want rid of them anytime you know my number and I'll be over.  They are too adorable for words :Luv: :Luv:
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: clarenmax on February 07, 2008, 15:20:22 PM
Aw, they're gorgeous  :Luv:
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: MrsR on February 07, 2008, 15:54:50 PM
Awwwwwww so cute - more photos more photos
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: Den on February 07, 2008, 18:04:06 PM
They share boxes ...
(http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v449/Bauersqg/IMG_0417.jpg)
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: blackcat on February 07, 2008, 18:05:56 PM
that is so cute!!!  :Luv: It is wonderful when a dog and a cat are such great mates isn't it!? Smidgen and Shadow are doing their cuddlebunny routine right now - it makes me go all gooey  :Luv:
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: Bazsmum on February 07, 2008, 18:27:26 PM
 :Luv: the fist pic with him and the dog on the chair open mouthed.....which one thinks he is the dog or vice versa?  :rofl:
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: blackcat on February 07, 2008, 18:30:36 PM
We have similar difficulties. they do synchronised washing. Lick one paw, wipe face. Lick other paw, wipe face and so on, it cracks me up  :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: Den on February 07, 2008, 18:43:17 PM
Molly is very cat like and Memphis is very dog like ... they are so backwards!!!
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: blackcat on February 07, 2008, 18:49:23 PM
Yep, Shadow is definitely the cat in my household partnership ... ;)
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: Den on February 07, 2008, 19:55:29 PM
Yep, Shadow is definitely the cat in my household partnership ... ;)
It funny how that works.

Memphis is wishing he could get neutered everyday. He's just had all the prawns from my dinner (5 in total), that made him very happy.
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: Gill (sneakiefeline) on February 07, 2008, 23:32:51 PM
Sompleased he is back to normal  ;D
Title: Re: I feel horrible now
Post by: alisonandarchie on February 08, 2008, 16:06:51 PM
Glad he is back to normal. What lovely pictures, its lovely to see they get on so well ;D