Topic: Dragan has gone (Read 9362 times)

dolcetta46 · « **Reply #56 on:** February 08, 2008, 20:09:19 PM »

Yes I also think Charlie is a gift sent from Dragan... he is taking good care of you from up above

alisonandarchie · « **Reply #55 on:** February 08, 2008, 20:06:19 PM »

Thinking about you

Gill (sneakiefeline) · « **Reply #54 on:** February 08, 2008, 20:02:20 PM »

Poor you and yes that happens

Sometimes the days just seem to be full of sorrow and memories, I used to write down what I was thinking about and sometimes there was no consoling me.

It will ease but not for a long time, you will never forget Dragan but give Charlie a stroke, cos Dragan sent him

Maddiesmum · « **Reply #53 on:** February 08, 2008, 19:59:07 PM »

Am really really missing him right now - even though Charlie has moved in.

alisonandarchie · « **Reply #52 on:** January 29, 2008, 16:34:22 PM »

Sorry to hear the news about the lovely Dragon

clarenmax · « **Reply #51 on:** January 29, 2008, 13:35:41 PM »

Maddiesmum · « **Reply #50 on:** January 29, 2008, 13:33:49 PM »

Thank you all again for the lovely posts. I have brought his ashes home today. They are in the sweetest little casket you ever saw with a flower on the top. I have put them in his furry house for the last time. I also got a lovely condolence card and a different version of Rainbow Bridge that I never saw before.

Baggy · « **Reply #49 on:** January 28, 2008, 22:48:34 PM »

So sorry to hear about your clever and brave Dragan

Schmew · « **Reply #48 on:** January 28, 2008, 20:19:28 PM »

So sorry to hear about Dragan

Hope you're doing ok

x

Ralph's mum (angie) · « **Reply #47 on:** January 28, 2008, 16:12:07 PM »

Sorry to hear this Chrissy

PennyLineker · « **Reply #46 on:** January 28, 2008, 14:58:29 PM »

Years ago, when we had to put our pet to sleep, i found this poem very comforting. I hope you get some comfort from it too.

If it should be I grow frail and weak
And pain prevents my peaceful sleep.
Then you must do what must be done
When this last battle can't be won.
You will be sad, I understand.
Selfishness might stay your hand.
But on this day, more than the rest,
Your love and friendship take the test.
We've had so many happy years
That what's to come can hold no fears.
You'd not want me to suffer. So,
When the time comes, please let me go.
Take me where my needs they'll tend.
Only stay with me until the end.
Hold me firm and speak to me.
Until my eyes no longer see.
I know, in time, you, too, will see
It is a kindness that you do for me.
Although my tail it's last has waved,
From pain and suffering I've been saved.
Do not grieve it should be you.
Who must decide this thing to do.
We've been so close, we two, these years......
Don't let your heart hold any tears.

Thinking of you xx

Desley (booktigger) · « **Reply #45 on:** January 28, 2008, 14:19:48 PM »

I am sorry things are so hard for you, I think it will be harder cos you dont have another furbabe to fuss and get some comfort from. We are all here for you.

PennyLineker · « **Reply #44 on:** January 28, 2008, 13:21:17 PM »

I am so sorry to hear of your loss and send you my heartfelt best wishes.

xxxx

ClaireR · « **Reply #43 on:** January 28, 2008, 12:28:55 PM »

Sending you hugs.

Take care.

xxxxxx

Dawn F · « **Reply #42 on:** January 28, 2008, 10:43:17 AM »

so sorry - hugsx

swampmaxmum · « **Reply #41 on:** January 28, 2008, 10:23:17 AM »

to you today. xxx

Maddiesmum · « **Reply #40 on:** January 28, 2008, 08:13:34 AM »

Thank you all so very much for your lovely messages of support they are really helping me deal with this. I have lost furbabies before but the pain has never been this extreme. I am really struggling this morning and have wept buckets. I went onto a pet loss grief support site (I have been there before) and there is a little song "Precious Little Friend" written by a woman about saying goodbye to her dog. That made me weep buckets, sobbed even. But my little man is worth my tears.

lucy · « **Reply #39 on:** January 27, 2008, 21:38:45 PM »

So sorry

Rosella moggy · « **Reply #38 on:** January 27, 2008, 20:35:38 PM »

Nothing helps at a time like this. I remember, as others will, how much it hurts.

So very, very sorry for your loss

Gillian Harvey · « **Reply #37 on:** January 27, 2008, 19:27:54 PM »

Oh no - I've only just caught up with this as I didnt log on yesterday - I'm so very sorry that Dragan has gone. Its horrible that fleeting moment when you forget they've gone and then it all comes rushing in doesnt it? Take care of yourself

Dragan

pappilon · « **Reply #36 on:** January 27, 2008, 18:09:22 PM »

x

Teresa Pawcats · « **Reply #35 on:** January 27, 2008, 18:00:11 PM »

I am so very sorry
Take care

Gwen · « **Reply #34 on:** January 27, 2008, 16:56:09 PM »

Maddiesmum · « **Reply #33 on:** January 27, 2008, 16:54:40 PM »

Thank you Pav. I am mostly all cried out, went to bed last night with bulging red eyes and a mega headache. It was difficult this morning when he wasn't around and I didn't need to get his breakfast and his meds sorted and I have forgotten he is gone a couple of times. My tears are more in waves today.

I should get his ashes home on Tuesday which will be another sad day but it will be good to bring him home.

This is the first time in almost my whole life that I haven't had a furbaby to fuss over. It's not nice.

I will ring you definitely during the week, just a bit too emotional right now.

Hope BOY is fine today

pappilon · « **Reply #32 on:** January 27, 2008, 16:49:41 PM »

Thinking of you today

How are you feeling?

Michelle (furbabystar) · « **Reply #31 on:** January 27, 2008, 14:46:09 PM »

No !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Oh i am so so sorry (((HUG))) I am truly shocked to hear this.

RIP Dragan, Have fun at the Bridge, My Bridge babies will look after you xxx

puddypaws · « **Reply #30 on:** January 27, 2008, 13:54:57 PM »

Thinking of you

Play hard at the Bridge Dragan

MillyMollyMandy · « **Reply #29 on:** January 27, 2008, 13:43:30 PM »

So very sorry.

Gwen · « **Reply #28 on:** January 27, 2008, 12:35:34 PM »

RIP little one

fluffybunny · « **Reply #27 on:** January 27, 2008, 11:42:26 AM »

So sorry to hear this - big hugs to you xxx

RIP Dragan.

LesleyW · « **Reply #26 on:** January 27, 2008, 11:38:14 AM »

So sorry, RIP Dragan

Pinkbear (Julie) · « **Reply #25 on:** January 27, 2008, 11:06:24 AM »

I'm so sorry for your loss. It is never easy...

swampmaxmum · « **Reply #24 on:** January 27, 2008, 10:31:15 AM »

I'm so very sorry to hear this. He was so very loved and I know how terribly you will miss him. RIP little Dragan. A big hug to you.

Gill (sneakiefeline) · « **Reply #23 on:** January 27, 2008, 00:31:56 AM »

I am so terribly sorry to hear this sad news, thinking of you

RIP Dragan, you will always be loved and remembered.

chris91011 · « **Reply #22 on:** January 26, 2008, 23:37:37 PM »

oh, i am so so sorry, i know it's a very hard descission and one i will have to make in the coming weeks or months,
i am thinking of you, RIP Dragon you were so well loved.

Someone gave this to me many years ago when my mum had her dog pts, then when my dog died from a heart attack 6yrs ago i would read it over and over again, it would make me cry, but it helped and brought all the grief out--

If it should be

If it should be that I grow weak,
And pain should keep me from my sleep,
Then you should do what must be done,
For this last battle can't be won.

You will be sad-i understand,
Don't let grief then stay your hand,
For this day more than all the rest,
Your love for me must stand the test.

We've had so many happy years,
What is to come can hold no fears,
You'd not want me to suffer so,
The time has come,please let me go.

Take me were my needs they'll tend,
And please stay with me until the end,
Hold me firm and speak to me,
Until my eyes no longer see.

I know in time that you will see,
The kindness that you do for me,
Although my tail its last has waved,
From pain and suffering I have been saved.

Please do not grieve it must be you,
Who has this painful thing to do,
We've been so close we two these years,
Don't let your heart hold back it's tears.

:hug:to you and take care.
Chris

Dawn (DiddyDawn) · « **Reply #21 on:** January 26, 2008, 22:18:50 PM »

So sorry hun

RIP Dragan, sweet dreams, xxxxxxxxxxx

JackSpratt · « **Reply #20 on:** January 26, 2008, 21:52:10 PM »

I'm so sorry.

RIP, Dragan.

Yvonne · « **Reply #19 on:** January 26, 2008, 21:45:38 PM »

I am so sorry that you had to make this awful decision but at least the end was peaceful.

Dragan

unseeliechylde · « **Reply #18 on:** January 26, 2008, 21:27:01 PM »

Goodbye special boy, and watch over your mommy from the bridge - she misses you so much.

Play hard, little furry angel, and know that you have left your pawprints on many hearts.

Desley (booktigger) · « **Reply #17 on:** January 26, 2008, 21:24:33 PM »

I am so shocked to read this, I am so truly sorry, it is such a hard decision to have to make, and is the price we have to pay for having them in our lives. He was lucky to have such a wonderful owner who did the best by him though, and he will be grateful you were strong enough to do that for him. RIP little one.

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