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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #67 on: February 26, 2007, 15:34:07 PM »
Helen I am so very sorry to here about gorgeous Tiggy  :hug:

She stole all our hearts and was a very special wee lady xxx

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RIP Tiggy you are a beautiful wee girl and you have left a very special pawprint on your Mummy's heart xxxxx

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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #66 on: February 26, 2007, 15:09:58 PM »
Im so sorry ((((((((((())))))))


RIP Tiggy play well at the bridge

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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #65 on: February 26, 2007, 14:36:09 PM »
Helen, I can't find words.  Tiggy was so loved and so special and she always will be. My heart goes out to you. All our love and support xxx

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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #64 on: February 26, 2007, 13:49:20 PM »
Yeah I feel like we all knew Tiggy and were all saddened by this. But it will be nothing compared to what Helen is going through right now. I hope she has someone there to comfort her.

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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #63 on: February 26, 2007, 13:42:06 PM »
Helen words can not tell you have devastated i am for you i recall your most recent pics she was such a gorgeous little girl.

Be strong - have fun on the bridge Tiggy Mummy adored you so very dearly.xxx

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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #62 on: February 26, 2007, 12:27:21 PM »
I am so very sorry Helen. You did the right thing but it is a devastatng loss and we are all suffering with you. I felt like I knew Tiggy and she knows that you will love her forever and soon she will send you a rainbow to tell you she is fine on  the bridge.  :hug: :hug: :hug:

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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #61 on: February 26, 2007, 12:17:05 PM »
So sorry for your loss, it is the hardest thing we ever have to do for our furkids.

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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #60 on: February 26, 2007, 12:11:02 PM »
Helen

So very, very sorry to hear about Tiggy.  Like most on here am in tears and know how you feel and wish I could say or do something to ease your hurt but there's nothing except time that can do that and lots of it. RIP Tiggy darling

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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #59 on: February 26, 2007, 11:51:21 AM »
Oh Helen, I am so so sorry to hear about your darling girl  :'(

Sleep tight princess, play hard at the Bridge and know how much your mummy will always love you until you see each other again.

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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #58 on: February 26, 2007, 11:46:00 AM »
I am so sorry to read this. It is an enormous responsibility we have, to sometimes have to make difficult decisions about what is best for our loved ones. I think everyone on here feels for you, and I hope you will be all right, even if it must feel very empty right now.

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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #57 on: February 26, 2007, 11:35:01 AM »
Goodbye dear friend, you've set me free
From any pain and misery
Of aching joints and failing heart
I know it's time for us to part
You made that choice to let me go
My time has come, this I know
Long and hard you fought, you tried
Oh dear friend I know you've cried
There are some fights that can't be fought
Old age is one, youth can't be bought
No pills, no cures for passing years
Our eyes do dim as do our ears
No magic wand can 'eer bring back
That precious thing we both do lack
The will to live, to stand and fight
There is no wrong, there is no right
In meadows green I will run
To you I know I was a son
A cat I was, not a child
Now I'm free, I can run wild
That bond between us will always stay
Even though I'm far away
'Til day is done for you I'll wait
Just outside of heavens' gate
My guide has come to lead me home
Where in green fields I'm free to roam
My aches have gone, my ills they mend
In that place, called Rainbow's End




THE VISITOR

In the silent, secret hours
Of a frozen, moonlit night,
Whilst you slumber fitfully, tearfully,
Broken by grief -
The soft, unseen footsteps of a phantom feline
Will tiptoe through your dreams.

When all the world is sleeping
I shall fill your empty heart with gentle memories,
And rest again, warm in the safety of your arms.

And when you awake,
Confused by sleep, half-remembering,
You will feel the parting, velvet imprint
Of my muzzle against your cheek,
And you will know
I am at peace.

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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #56 on: February 26, 2007, 11:34:45 AM »
You did such a brave and kind thing Helen and my heart goes out to you at this sad time...
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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #55 on: February 26, 2007, 11:32:43 AM »
Helen, I am so very sorry for your loss.

Beautiful Tiggy touched all our hearts. She had a wonderful life with you and you spared her suffering when the time came.

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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #54 on: February 26, 2007, 11:25:48 AM »
He pulled me up and saved me,
     From the misery and pain.
My body was hurt so badly inside,
     I could never be the same.

My search is really over now,
     I've found happiness within,
All the answers to my empty dreams
    And all that might have been.

I love you and I miss you so,
     and I'll always be nearby.
My body's gone forever,
     But my spirit will never die!

And so, you must  go on now,
     live one day at a time.
Just understand-
     God did not take me from you,
He only took my hand."

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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #53 on: February 26, 2007, 10:48:42 AM »
I am so sorry to hear this, she had such a wonderful life with you, and you gave her the greatest thing when it became apparent she couldn't fight any more. RIP little one
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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #52 on: February 26, 2007, 10:41:54 AM »
So sorry Helen. Like other people, I felt like I knew Tiggy. You did the kindest thing and spared her pain and illness.
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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #51 on: February 26, 2007, 10:36:46 AM »
Oh Helen - I'm so sorry  :hug:  Most of us on here have been through the same thing at some point so now how awful you must be feeling.  I feel I knew Tiggy so well through you and have a real lump in my throat right now.  She will be missed by all of us, but that's nothing compared to how you must be feeling.  I hope you can take some comfort in the fact that your care of her over the past few years undoubtably extended her life and that she lived a long and happy life due to you.  Letting her go before she suffered too much was the last thing you were able to do for her.  I'm glad she enjoyed her life right up until the end, especially her tent!

RIP Tiggy  :Luv:

You know we're all here for you, Helen.

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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #50 on: February 26, 2007, 10:35:58 AM »
Oh Helen, I'm devastated for you. Ive been thinking about you all night and I'm so sorry it had to come to this. Don't know what else to say. Wish I could be there with you as I'm feeling your pain, so sorry.  :hug:

Sleep well Tiggy, you have left a big hole in your mums heart.
Rest in eternal peace free from pain and suffering, you will be sadly missed.

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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #49 on: February 26, 2007, 10:30:47 AM »
Oh Helen, so sorry - not the news I wanted.

If it should be I grow frail and weak, 
And pain prevents my peaceful sleep,
Then you must do what must be done,
When this last battle can't be won.

You will be sad, I understand.
Selfishness might stay your hand.
But on this day, more than the rest,
Your love and friendship take the test.

We've had so many happy years ,
That what's to come can hold no fears.
You'd not want me to suffer.
So, When the time comes, please let me go.

Take me where my needs they'll tend.
Only stay with me until the end.
Hold me firm and speak to me.
Until my eyes no longer see.

I know, in time, you, too, will see,
It is a kindness that you do for me.
Although my tail it's last has waved,
From pain and suffering I've been saved.

Do not grieve it should be you.
Who must decide this thing to do.
We've been so close, we two, these years......Don't let your heart hold any tears


I hope you are having the day off today, you need it.

Thinking of you at this awful time  :hug: :hug:

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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #48 on: February 26, 2007, 10:27:44 AM »
I am so so sorry Helen. I hope you are comforted by the fact that she went peacefully. You know where we are if you want to talk about anything  :group:

Sleep well Tiggy, you've left a pawprint in the hearts of everyone here. You know how much you were loved and cared for by your Mummy and we all loved you too.  

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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #47 on: February 26, 2007, 10:25:24 AM »
Oh Helen hun I'm crying as i type i'm so sorry.  She will always be with you, always in your heart. She will watch over you on the bridge with no pain and will wait for you. One day you will be with her again. She's your Guardian angel.

My love and hug are with you hun, we are all here for you.  :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :Luv: :group:

RIP Tiggy darling. Have fun on the bridge with all our babes till we all come and cuddle you all again.
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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #46 on: February 26, 2007, 10:25:18 AM »
Oh Helen  :'(

I am sending you a big hug.  You knew what the right thing to do was for your girl remember that.  She will always be with you as I am sure there are lots of happy memories to treasure.  Words at this time are not much compensation but I know you have lots of friends here to talk to. 

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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #45 on: February 26, 2007, 10:24:40 AM »
Helen....So sorry, how awful.

I know there arent any useful words for you just now but take 1 day at a time and we're here as a group or individually if you need us.

RIP Tiggy...you were a wonderful beautiful girl
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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #44 on: February 26, 2007, 10:23:49 AM »
Helen, I was so hoping you wouldn't have to go through this so soon. Believe me, I know how you're feeling.

RIP Tiggy. You were a beautiful girl and you were cherished every moment of your life.

Helen, there's nothing I can say that will make it easier. ((hugs)) I hope you're coping and realise that Tiggy will know you loved her right up until the end.




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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #43 on: February 26, 2007, 10:20:40 AM »
Oh Helen, honey so very sorry, my thoughts are with you.


Rest in peace little girl, so missed and loved by your mummy and us.

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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #42 on: February 26, 2007, 10:16:54 AM »
(((((Helen))))))

I am so so sorry -

^Tiggy^, Sleep now Sweet girl

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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #41 on: February 26, 2007, 10:15:54 AM »
Helen, I am so, so sorry - there is nothing we can say to help right now but you gave Tiggy a wonderful life, full of love.   Thinking of you, Chris, XX
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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #40 on: February 26, 2007, 10:14:33 AM »
I am so sorry, as you know I do know exactly how you must be feeling. What a bad month we are all having.

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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #39 on: February 26, 2007, 10:11:57 AM »
She's gone.... The vet found a lump in her small intestine, she just lay on the table with her head down after he'd felt for it - I looked into her eyes and knew that she couldn't fight any more so I let her go. 

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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #38 on: February 26, 2007, 10:03:51 AM »
Oh helen i only just saw this thread.  I do hope i see some positive news when i check back on later. 
I really really hope that Tiggy can ralley from this and the vet can give her some "pick me up" drugs. 
From my own experience with my soots I can feel nothing but complete sadness and empathy for you but am praying the news will be better than you expect.

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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #37 on: February 26, 2007, 09:53:14 AM »
Oh hun thinking of you constantly this morning. xxx

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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #36 on: February 26, 2007, 09:28:59 AM »
Thinking of you and Tiggy and hoping something can be done.




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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #35 on: February 26, 2007, 09:19:30 AM »
I opened this thread with a heavy heart when I saw who had started it and am reading it with tears in my eyes.  There are no words to describe how much I feel for you, Helen.  I'm hoping she picks up and there is something the vet can do, but if not you know her better than anyone and will know when the time's right to let her go.  You've given her a wonderful life.  I'll be thinking of you today.

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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #34 on: February 26, 2007, 09:06:32 AM »
Tiggy & You were the first thing I thought of this morning. Really hoping for the best for you both  :ahh:
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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #33 on: February 26, 2007, 08:55:00 AM »
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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #32 on: February 26, 2007, 08:50:02 AM »
I woke up this morning with Tiggy on my pillow purring very gently unprompted, she still hasn't eaten but it has given me a bit of hope....  Appointment is at 09:20, I'm still terrified that I might have to say goodbye but like you have all said I will do what's right for her.

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I am so sorry. All I can say making the decision for the final act of kindness heartbreaking but often the right thing to do.
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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #30 on: February 26, 2007, 08:11:24 AM »
Thinking of you both today  :hug:  xxxx


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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #29 on: February 26, 2007, 07:54:54 AM »
Will be thinking of you today HElen.
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Re: I think it might be time to let her go....
« Reply #28 on: February 26, 2007, 00:13:17 AM »
Helen  :hug:

Just wanted to show my support at this difficult time for you. I have not been in your position but I am sure whatever decision you make, it will be right for Tiggy.  Sending positive thoughts and big hugs for you and the beautiful Tiggy.

 


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