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Re: SORRY
« Reply #47 on: February 19, 2016, 10:34:34 AM »
Thanks, I keep having a sneaky look on RSPCA site but they are really old and not in good nick at the moment.  It's good that they are in Foster Homes though and not in a pen in the centre.  Although being in one of their pens in nice cos they get fussed all the time by volunteers and staff.

Dawn, a nest, I'm not getting any birds  :naughty: :rofl:

They've not phoned me for my home visit yet but I'm not going to chase them at the moment as I'm busy with my early Spring clean that will probably take me until Christmas to finish.

Jo that's good that you might be getting oldies. :hug:

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« Reply #46 on: February 18, 2016, 18:07:59 PM »
I am planning on taking on oldies once I am part time or retired.  It must be heartbreaking but wonderful at the same time to know that you were able to offer warmth, love & comfort to elderly kitties who are at the end of their days.

I am sure Bonnie will send more your way soon Mary  :Luv:

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Re: SORRY
« Reply #45 on: February 18, 2016, 13:57:48 PM »
its such a shame you have an empty nest Mary, any cat would be so lucky to have you as a mum

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Re: SORRY
« Reply #44 on: February 18, 2016, 13:54:56 PM »
Thank you Jo, I keep wondering if it was Bonnie who sent them to me to end their lives in luxury :hug: :Luv2:

Everything happens for a reason, so God knows what is for me next ;)

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Well I think we're all hoping that next, you get a healthy and happy little oldie under the EARS scheme, and that you have years of comfy snuggly days and nights ahead.    :) :hug:

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Re: SORRY
« Reply #43 on: February 18, 2016, 11:47:00 AM »
Thank you Jo, I keep wondering if it was Bonnie who sent them to me to end their lives in luxury :hug: :Luv2:

Everything happens for a reason, so God knows what is for me next ;)

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Re: SORRY
« Reply #42 on: February 17, 2016, 22:33:13 PM »
Heck, I haven't been on here for a while.. Mary, I am so sorry to hear about Kitty.

What a lousy time you have had.

As everybody else has said, you gave her a loving home in her old age and a peaceful painless end to her life, she couldn't have asked for more.

Bless you. Take care.

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« Reply #41 on: February 12, 2016, 05:08:44 AM »
 :hug:  :hug:   I do hope you will soon be having a new cat coming  to settle in with you, Mary .  :hug:   The house feels empty if you don't have a furry friend stretched out giving their list of daily requirements.  My Billy is a proper boss cat.  :hug:   

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Re: SORRY
« Reply #40 on: February 11, 2016, 18:02:15 PM »
Mary, I do feel your pain, I think most of us have had to let a beloved furbabe go over the years, it never gets any easier, but you did all you could for Kitty and her Sister. Please just believe you did everything you could for them both and they knew they were properly loved at the end. :care: :care: :care:

There will be another cat to fill your heart again. Can't remember who said, and may be paraphrasing, but you don't love the ones you have lost any less, your heart just expands. (Sure it was put far more elegantly than that),

You take care, Sweet, and if you need anything just call or pm me. :hug: :hug: :hug:

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Re: SORRY
« Reply #39 on: February 08, 2016, 00:39:18 AM »
That's really nice of you Julz  :hug:

Hopefully it won't be too long until I have another cat in my life.  Hugs to the wonderful Winnie.

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Re: SORRY
« Reply #38 on: February 07, 2016, 17:27:45 PM »
Oh Mary!!

I'm really sorry to have read this and I apologise for not reading this sooner. Kitty was a lovely cat and knew that she was loved by you and all of us here at Purrs. Winnie thought of her very highly and sends you loads of head butts, kisses and purrs.

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I know Winnie sent a candle, but here is mine to you and Kitty.

Play hard at the Rainbow Bridge Kitty. You are loved by all on here...and your Mummy is a wonderful, special woman who I like very much.

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Re: SORRY
« Reply #37 on: February 03, 2016, 15:52:07 PM »
Kitty looks so comfortable and relaxed lying on you Mary. I am sure that, somehow, she understood that she was loved.

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Re: SORRY
« Reply #36 on: February 03, 2016, 13:02:06 PM »
 :hug:  :hug:  :hug: I am so sorry to hear about Kitty, but it did sound like it was her time to go.....

Those photos  :Luv: she obviously did know deep down that you were looking after her  :hug:
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Re: SORRY
« Reply #35 on: February 02, 2016, 00:00:27 AM »
RIP Kitty

God bless you, Mary xx

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« Reply #34 on: February 01, 2016, 13:14:10 PM »
Thanks everyone, you are brilliant  :hug:

You can rely on us Stuart ;)

I've just got to keep on remembering that everything happens for a reason.  Everyone I have lost last year and Kitty this year, they all had to go, to stop their pain. 

We all know it's very hard and we know it does get easier and if it wasn't for us putting ourselves through this pain, there would be hundreds of less loved cats on this Earth and at The Bridge.

God Bless Us All  :hug: :hug:

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Re: SORRY
« Reply #33 on: January 31, 2016, 19:43:40 PM »
Thirded
jeez, I wish I hadn't popped in now  :'( :'( :'(
So Sorry Mary, play hard at the bridge Kitty xx
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Re: SORRY
« Reply #32 on: January 31, 2016, 19:14:43 PM »
Oh Mary, what a dreadful time you've had. You're such a kind, thoughtful, caring woman, and my heart goes out to you over the trials you've suffered lately.  :hug: :hug:

I hope things turn around for you very soon, until then do stay in touch, you're very special to us. :care:

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« Reply #31 on: January 31, 2016, 17:19:25 PM »
Oh Mary, what a dreadful time you've had. You're such a kind, thoughtful, caring woman, and my heart goes out to you over the trials you've suffered lately.  :hug: :hug:

I hope things turn around for you very soon, until then do stay in touch, you're very special to us. :care:

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« Reply #30 on: January 30, 2016, 20:34:49 PM »
You're a wonderful lady Mary  :hug: :hug: :hug:
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« Reply #29 on: January 30, 2016, 14:43:59 PM »
 :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  all the best, Mary

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« Reply #28 on: January 30, 2016, 14:30:16 PM »
 :thanks: everyone

Rosella you did find what to say to me  :hug:

My friend Andy buried her in my garden this morning next to Tisha and along side of Bonnie and Smudge.  Both happy and healthy at the Bridge now  :Luv2: :Luv2:

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Re: SORRY
« Reply #27 on: January 30, 2016, 08:41:50 AM »
I saw this yesterday Mary but didn't know what to say and still don't.  I'm so very sorry for your loss but grateful on Kitty's behalf that she was so loved by someone who knew when to perform that last act of kindness.

It's very sad that your time together was so short but it was such real quality time.  In tears as I type Mary; naturally.  My heart goes out to you but I'm so glad to know someone who was prepared to take on the challenge of caring for 2 beautiful oldies.  Bless you Mrs.  You're one in a million  :cuddle: 

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« Reply #26 on: January 30, 2016, 08:21:42 AM »
Oh Mary, I am so so sorry  :( :(

You are in my thoughts. :hug: :hug: :hug:

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Re: SORRY
« Reply #25 on: January 29, 2016, 22:21:15 PM »
The last pic Mary....  :Luv: :Luv: :Luv: ...look how peaceful she is. She was ready xx
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« Reply #24 on: January 29, 2016, 21:23:24 PM »
Gorgeous girl  :hug: :hug: :hug:

If you want this thread moved to Rainbow Bridge  let me know Mary.
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No that's ok Gill as I've been thinking about doing a thread on Bridge for Tisha so I'll do a joint one for them now.

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« Reply #23 on: January 29, 2016, 21:17:53 PM »
Oh bless her. She lost loads of weight. Lilli was the same. X
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« Reply #22 on: January 29, 2016, 21:06:26 PM »
Gorgeous girl  :hug: :hug: :hug:

If you want this thread moved to Rainbow Bridge  let me know Mary.

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« Reply #21 on: January 29, 2016, 19:52:43 PM »
The hardest thing is the kindest thing. She knew real love in her last few months.  :hug:

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« Reply #20 on: January 29, 2016, 19:28:27 PM »
Thanks everyone, I'm so glad she got close to me in the last few months and these last few days when she couldn't walk I know I had to let her go.

Here are some pics I took of her laid on me and one where I even had her dish of food on my chest for her  :hug:

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« Reply #19 on: January 29, 2016, 13:59:02 PM »
So sorry Mary  :hug:

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Re: SORRY
« Reply #18 on: January 29, 2016, 10:21:53 AM »
My heart goes out to you, thinking of you and sending hugs.

Others have said it far better than I could but remember Kitty was lucky to be so loved in her last months and will take that with her to the bridge.
Please take care,
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« Reply #17 on: January 29, 2016, 07:08:39 AM »
It has been a very difficult year for you,  Mary.    :hug:   Give yourself a good long break now and rest as much as possible.   :hug: :hug:   Best wishes.

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« Reply #16 on: January 29, 2016, 01:55:02 AM »
I'm so sorry Mary.  :hug:  I can only agree with all that's been said.  Thinking of you and hoping this really is the end of terrible year and things start to look up soon.

Fly free Kitty and send your meowmy a rainbow.

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« Reply #15 on: January 28, 2016, 23:27:49 PM »
Dear Mary, I am so sorry to hear this very sad news.  It is really heartbreaking.  I can only echo what the others have said.  You gave Kitty a wonderful, loving home when she needed it most, and cared for her and looked after her in a way that no one else had.  She knewt the love you gave her and responded to it. 

Thank you for all that you did for Kitty, and for your braveness in letting her go when she needed to. 

Rest peacefully little Kitty, you and your Meowmy are in my thoughts and prayers xx

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« Reply #14 on: January 28, 2016, 23:11:25 PM »
I'm so very very sorry Mary. It is so unfair after all you have been through.  :hug:
You were brave. so very brave to hear her whisper and to let her fly free when she needed rest. Your love and care kept her happy for her twilight times and she will watch over you.
A new star shines tonight.
Play well at the bridge Kitty - you were much loved xx

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« Reply #13 on: January 28, 2016, 21:50:20 PM »
Sorry Mary, I don't know Kitty's story, but it sounds like you have had a terrible time. Take care of yourself xxx
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« Reply #12 on: January 28, 2016, 20:12:26 PM »
I'm so very very sorry Mary. It is so unfair after all you have been through.  :hug:
You were brave. so very brave to hear her whisper and to let her fly free when she needed rest. Your love and care kept her happy for her twilight times and she will watch over you.
A new star shines tonight.
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« Reply #11 on: January 28, 2016, 19:24:31 PM »
Oh Mary  :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: How sad  :'( :'( I'm so sorry.
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« Reply #10 on: January 28, 2016, 19:10:21 PM »
I'm so sorry, Mary. I feared something like this. I don't really know what to say. There are times when there are no words. You gave an old lady a happy home and it was lovely to read about her slowly coming out of her shell. I doubt that will be much consolation today  :hug:

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« Reply #9 on: January 28, 2016, 19:06:29 PM »
Oh Mary this is such devasting news  :hug: :hug: :hug:

Kitty had just got to trusting you with all your care and now she has gone to the Bridge, i am so very sorry.

I so wish I could put thungs better for you.

RIP Kitty play hard on the Bridge you have left a pawprint in your meowmys heart.

Please stay in touch Mary even if its just to say Hi, we were all so worried about you.

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« Reply #8 on: January 28, 2016, 18:19:12 PM »
Oh no, I am so sorry to read this.

Just know that you gave her a wonderful home where she felt loved and that you gave her a great gift. Patience, to be herself and to learn to trust people again.

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