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Post by: **TINA** on April 16, 2009, 20:48:04 PM
Today has been a long day.
My mam has been suffering a long time now with kidney failure and needed dialysis 3 day a week for 3 yrs.
This long term has caused her to become more ill.
She had been diagnosed with something which affected her arteries in her legs causing uklsers.
She has battled on thru this and this stay in hosp has been 10 wks but i got a phonecall from the hosp this morining to go in.

Mam had a bleed in her stomache today and we were in the quiet room with the doctors, and told that all they cold do
was giver her morphine on drip and let nature take its course as mam went down to just over 4 stone in weight.

Tonight at 6.10 she went peacefully.
We were by her side and now she is pain free.
It would have been her birthday tomorrow, her 64th.

RIP mam, we will always love you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

My 4 babies know something has happened and pod is close by.
I just feel numb, tears rolling down my face as i tell you, but we knew it was coming.

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Post by: Sootyca on April 16, 2009, 20:51:27 PM
There's nothing I can say that will make you feel any better at the moment but she went peacefully with her family at her side and that will be of comfort to you in the days/weeks/months/years to come.

 :hug:

Take care of yourself.

Karen
x
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Post by: Debsymiller (Rufus' mum) on April 16, 2009, 20:53:11 PM
I'm so sorry  :hug: Nothing I say will make you feel better but know you must need a hug. It must have been so comforting to have her family at her side as she peacefully passed.
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Post by: Tiggy's Mum on April 16, 2009, 20:56:03 PM
So, so sorry to hear this  :hug: 
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Post by: Wibblechick on April 16, 2009, 21:06:47 PM
Im so sorry for your loss  :hug:
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Post by: Bonkers Mad!!! on April 16, 2009, 21:09:22 PM
i'm so so sorry  :(
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Post by: JackSpratt on April 16, 2009, 21:20:30 PM
Tina, I'm so sorry. I know your Mum has been ill for some time but there's no preparation for losing a loved one. Sending you a big hug. :hug:
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Post by: Mollyrock on April 16, 2009, 21:35:11 PM
I am so sorry hon for what you have been through and will go through in the months, years to come. For me it is unimaginable to think i will one day lose my mum.
64 is such a young age too. I work with elderly dementia patients & it's so hard to see people suffer. I am glad she went peacefully.
You are in my thoughts & prayers xx
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Post by: bonnielass on April 16, 2009, 21:39:27 PM
Tina im so sorry to hear your sad news , but take comfort in the fact that she went peacefully with the ones who loved her around her :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Stuart on April 16, 2009, 21:45:02 PM
Im So so Sorry  :(

 :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: MrsR on April 16, 2009, 22:00:41 PM
I am so very sorry x
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Post by: Zenith (Liz) on April 16, 2009, 22:00:51 PM
I am so sorry.   :'( :hug:
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Post by: Yvonne on April 16, 2009, 22:07:19 PM
Sorry to hear your sad news    :hug: :hug:

 :candle: :candle: :candle:
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Post by: Beth on April 16, 2009, 22:07:56 PM
So very sorry. Thinking of you. :hug: :Luv2:
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Post by: clarenmax on April 16, 2009, 22:43:24 PM
I'm so sorry to hear your news sweetheart  :hug: :hug:

I can only echo the sentiments already said on here.

 :hug: :hug:
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Post by: hannah (weeny) on April 16, 2009, 22:44:25 PM
i'm so so sorry  :hug:
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Post by: Team Svartalfheims on April 16, 2009, 22:55:28 PM
I'm so very sorry Tina  :hug:
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Post by: Mark on April 16, 2009, 23:00:05 PM
Sorry Tina, it's hard I know. We expect them to be around forever  :hug:
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Post by: CC & The Pussycat Guys & Dolls on April 17, 2009, 00:05:07 AM
Oh Tina Im so sorry hun, 64 is no age to go at all  :(


RIP Tina's mum xxx

 :hug:
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Post by: **TINA** on April 17, 2009, 00:06:54 AM
Thank you all for your kind words x x x
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Post by: soudicca on April 17, 2009, 00:30:42 AM
So sorry to hear your news.
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Post by: Bazsmum on April 17, 2009, 01:56:09 AM
Sorry to hear the sad news!  :hug:
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Post by: Dawn F on April 17, 2009, 08:41:18 AM
 :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: blackcat on April 17, 2009, 08:48:07 AM
sometimes life is so unfair. My heart goes out to you hun :hug:
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Post by: Janeyk on April 17, 2009, 09:10:59 AM
Sorry Tina  :grouphug:
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Post by: Teresa Pawcats on April 17, 2009, 09:30:18 AM
I am so sorry  :hug:  Lost my own mum recently so know exactly how you feel, Take care  :hug:
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Post by: LesleyW on April 17, 2009, 09:51:00 AM
So sorry Tina.  :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Gail Bengal Slave on April 17, 2009, 11:37:19 AM
So So sorry  :(
I lost my Dad 2 years ago so know how you are feeling - a HUGE hole has appeared in your world - it does get smaller, eventually.

But remember the good times - the laughs and good things -
MEGA   :hug: :hug: to you xxxxxxx
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Post by: pappilon on April 17, 2009, 11:41:42 AM
 I am so sorry TINA. :hug: :hug:
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Post by: moira on April 17, 2009, 11:55:48 AM
There isn't much I can say to make you feel better at this time. Just want to let you know I'm thinking of you. I have lost a parent and can only say that at the moment your grief is raw. We never get over this kind of loss but in time we come to terms with it and at that time you will be able to remember her fondly without the pain.
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Post by: Christine (Blip) on April 17, 2009, 13:35:34 PM
I am so sorry for your loss, Tina.
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Post by: Leanne on April 17, 2009, 14:26:50 PM
Thinking of you Tina  :hug:
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Post by: Sam (Fussy_Furball) on April 17, 2009, 16:27:56 PM
OMG I'm so sorry for your loss Tina.

Take care hun and know we are here for you if you need us.

RIP Tina's Mum xxxx
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Post by: Sheli_80 on April 17, 2009, 16:53:03 PM
So sorry to hear about your mum Tina.

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Post by: Michelle (furbabystar) on April 17, 2009, 17:09:59 PM
Oh Tina I am so sorry  :hug:

RIP Tina's Mum - Gone too soon xx
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Post by: Mojo on April 17, 2009, 17:14:06 PM
Lost my mum just under a year ago now, know how your feeling and am sooo sorry to hear your news. Take Care xx :'(
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Post by: Kirst on April 17, 2009, 22:28:52 PM
Im so sorry Tina , thinking of you. :hug:
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Post by: Gillian Harvey on April 17, 2009, 23:41:28 PM
I'm so sorry to hear about your mum Tina  :hug:
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Post by: Christie on April 19, 2009, 14:53:50 PM
Very sorry about your loss; I lost my mom and then my dad in 2002.
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Post by: James on April 19, 2009, 16:21:44 PM
So sorry.  I can't imagine. Thinking of you, x
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Post by: Maddiesmum on April 19, 2009, 21:52:40 PM
So sorry to hear about your mum Tina  :hug: