Bonnielass, I would very much appreciate it if you would stop bad mouthing me on here and instead have the courtesy to let me know this in private. At the last minute things changed and when I emailed you I said I would be there hopefully about lunchtime, when I knew this wasn't going to happen I let you know and gave you a new estimated time of arrival.
Why are you persisting in trying to defame me on here. There are many many things I could bring up which I feel slighted about but due to manners and feeling that you did look after them very well it would not be appropriate to drag it up yet you seem intent on hurting me and making me look like a selfish, unthoughtful, rude person. Anyone who knows me knows this not to be true. I can be a bit of a scatterbrain at times and probably completely forgot about sending you a text, not out of spite or rudeness, just human forgetfulness.
When Dave and I left I made sure to get up very early to ensure ther was plenty of time and warning for you that I would be leaving, once we had the carrier sorted I told I will grab Dave, which I did. It wasn't me deliberately stopping you from cuddling him but as you say, by this point time was pushing on, as you said yourself at the time and I was trying to get organised. I would never have stopped you saying goodbye, what sort of human being are you trying to paint me as!
I love that one side of the story is only being told here because I have manners not to air my dirty laundry or grievances in this manner, I go directly to the person but apparently I am not given this courtesy. Is that also a generational thing?
I have spent a good 13 or 14 hours travelling today and I get home to be greeted by this.
If you look back on the transport thread where I asked you to tell what I had posted that was so rude neither yourself, in private, or anyone else privately or publicly could tell me.
I am seriously considering walking away from purrs as I do not need to come on here to find a one sided attack on me with very little grounds to do so but leaves me in tears and heartbroken.
I am sorry for anyone I have done that is so heinously wrong, as I have said all along, it was never my intention. I am just rather speechless at my public treatment from you recently Bonnielass, I appreciate the strain you are under and I absolutely appreciate all you did for the puds but I am also in a very stressful situation at the moment myself and sometimes my brain goes a bit hayward because of this. perhaps the younger generation isn't allowed to be affected by stress.
Once again I am going to have to take a break as I cannot sit here crying every night at things people don't have the guts to bring to me privately as an adult.
