Topic: Sofa's not good - vets this evening - UPDATE - Sofa was PTS (Read 10760 times)

Sam (Fussy_Furball) · « **Reply #84 on:** January 08, 2009, 19:11:42 PM »

Quote from: MrsR on January 08, 2009, 13:07:39 PM

I am just so sad and exhuasted, have made an appt with my midwife for next week as getting so down that I don't want it to spiral out of control as use to suffer from anorexia and don't want that sparked off again. I just miss Sofa and Vesti so much my heart aches.

Oh Nikki hun please take care of yourself ... I know your heart must be breaking after losing Vesti and Sofa but you must look after yourself and your two precious bundles

LesleyW · « **Reply #83 on:** January 08, 2009, 13:35:15 PM »

So sorry to hear this news,

to you.

Shine a light down to your mum from the Bridge Sofa, to show you are safe and free from pain.

Ann Clarke (Tabby cat) · « **Reply #82 on:** January 08, 2009, 13:14:50 PM »

I'm so sorry to hear about Sofa and coming so soon after Vesti, it must be so hard for you. There's nothing I can say really except that they will now be together on the Bridge and watching over you all. Take care of yourself.

RIP Sofa darling, enjoy yourself at the bridge with Vesti and all our other babes.

MrsR · « **Reply #81 on:** January 08, 2009, 13:07:39 PM »

I am just so sad and exhuasted, have made an appt with my midwife for next week as getting so down that I don't want it to spiral out of control as use to suffer from anorexia and don't want that sparked off again. I just miss Sofa and Vesti so much my heart aches.

candyshandy · « **Reply #80 on:** January 07, 2009, 23:13:40 PM »

So very sorry

Take care

xx

Zenith (Liz) · « **Reply #79 on:** January 07, 2009, 21:41:36 PM »

I'm sorry MrsR, sleep well Sofa

MrsR · « **Reply #78 on:** January 07, 2009, 21:38:11 PM »

Quote from: Liz on January 07, 2009, 19:53:20 PM

So sorry for your loss

Me thinks your twins have now got a pair of special guardian agenls looking after them

:hug:to you and OH

I am trying to change my thought process to Sofa and Vesti are now guardian angels for the twins but its hard.

A friend text me to say sorry today and she said people tend to have a death close to them when a baby is born or a women is pregnant and I have heard this before. Maybe Sofa and Vesti were my humans as my cats to me are as special as any human around me.

Liz · « **Reply #77 on:** January 07, 2009, 19:53:20 PM »

So sorry for your loss

Me thinks your twins have now got a pair of special guardian agenls looking after them

:hug:to you and OH

MrsR · « **Reply #76 on:** January 07, 2009, 19:35:20 PM »

Thanks guys still struggling with everything and thanks to those weho have PM'ed me

Millys Mum · « **Reply #75 on:** January 07, 2009, 18:55:52 PM »

So sorry to hear you lost her

Christine (Blip) · « **Reply #74 on:** January 07, 2009, 18:55:07 PM »

I am so sorry for your loss, MrsR. You saved Sofa from suffering, and that's the greatest gift we can give.

Debsymiller (Rufus' mum) · « **Reply #73 on:** January 07, 2009, 18:28:55 PM »

I am so sorry to hear this honey, such a hard time but she will be at peace and free from pain. She's probably having a ball, all fully restored at the bridge with Sylvester.
I completely feel your pain but send lots of

to you and your family. xxx

**TINA** · « **Reply #72 on:** January 07, 2009, 17:34:51 PM »

So sorry to read this

run free baby xxxxxx

Feline Costumier · « **Reply #71 on:** January 07, 2009, 17:28:10 PM »

So sorry for you loss, please take care of yourself

Sam (Fussy_Furball) · « **Reply #70 on:** January 07, 2009, 16:59:58 PM »

Oh Nikki I am truly sorry for your loss. I can't begin to imagine how you must be feeling today

Although it seems you have let two furbabies go to get two babies in return it's just coincidence hun. Your human babies will of course each have a very special feline guardian angel to watch over them now though and I have no doubt the both Vest and Sofa will repay you for all the love and kindness you showed them by fulfilling their guardian duties to the max.

Take care hun

RIP Sofa ... play hard at the bridge little lady and have fun with Vesti.

em1209 · « **Reply #69 on:** January 07, 2009, 16:01:57 PM »

So so sorry. Take care of yourself

. RIP little one x

MrsR · « **Reply #68 on:** January 07, 2009, 13:07:20 PM »

Thanks everyone, am in work trying to hold it together - think burying my head in paperwork is keeping me from really loosing it.

karenjet · « **Reply #67 on:** January 07, 2009, 11:47:59 AM »

I really feel for you

R.I.P little angel

Gwen · « **Reply #66 on:** January 07, 2009, 11:31:34 AM »

Nikki I am so sorry to hear this,only just logged on from last night.

Words fail me and life does indeed seem to cruel for words sometimes. You gave Sofa and Vesti the best life and without you and OH's love and care Sofa would of had a much shorter life.

I'm so sorry hunny

hOrZa · « **Reply #65 on:** January 07, 2009, 10:54:26 AM »

So Sorry To Hear This

Wee One

JackSpratt · « **Reply #64 on:** January 07, 2009, 10:52:04 AM »

I'm so sorry for your losses. Hope you and your husband are coping OK.

puddypaws · « **Reply #63 on:** January 07, 2009, 10:37:44 AM »

So very sorry to hear this

to you

Maddiesmum · « **Reply #62 on:** January 07, 2009, 10:26:37 AM »

sixfurballs · « **Reply #61 on:** January 07, 2009, 10:01:27 AM »

I can't believe you have had to face losing both of them in such a short time. I am so sorry.

I can understand why you are feeling so low at the moment and thinking of the twins but just try to think of all the great times ahead of you with your beautiful babies and that Sofa and Sylvester will be watching from the Bridge and guarding over you and the Babies. They are together now running and chasing with no health problems to hold them back. xx

maryas · « **Reply #60 on:** January 07, 2009, 09:39:13 AM »

Oh My God - I am so sorry. I can only imagine how you feel. Loosing 2 in such a small space of time doesn't seem fair but there is a reason for everything that happens in life and it must have been time for them both to go to the Bridge and play there together.

I'm crying so many tears for you and I wish I had a magic wand. Sofa and Sylvester know you did your very best for them both and you have to look after yourself and those babies.

Mary

MrsR · « **Reply #59 on:** January 07, 2009, 09:34:54 AM »

I just want them both back cannot believe I will have 2 little caskets soon

Leanne · « **Reply #58 on:** January 07, 2009, 09:32:26 AM »

Oh Mrs R I am so sorry to read this.

A close friend of mine went though simular last Jan she lost her beloved Amber when she was only a few weeks pregnant and I remember her saying exactly the same as you have.

Yvonne · « **Reply #57 on:** January 07, 2009, 09:27:53 AM »

I am so sorry to read this

Sofa

Nikki

I'm Free
Don't grieve for me, for now I'm free.
I'm following the path that has been laid you see.
I took the hand when I heard the call,
I turned my back and left it all.

I could not stay another day.
To laugh, to love, to meow or play.
Tasks left undone must stay that way.
I found that peace at the close of the day.

If my parting has left a void, then fill
it with remembered joys.
A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss.
Oh yes, these things I too will miss.

Be not burdened with times of sorrow.
I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow.
My life's been full, I savoured much.
Good friends, good times, a loved one's touch.

Perhaps my time seemed all too brief.
Don't lengthen it now with undue grief.
Lift up your hearts and peace to thee.
The Bridge wanted me now and set me free!

sheryl · « **Reply #56 on:** January 07, 2009, 09:13:29 AM »

I am so so sorry Hun and know what you are going through - we lost Roxy and Amber is the space of 4 weeks around this time last year and the empy feeling was almost too much to bear.

Take care of yourself xxx

RIP Sofa - play hard at the Bridge Princess xxx

clarenmax · « **Reply #55 on:** January 07, 2009, 08:57:19 AM »

I'm so sorry sweetheart

You gave your Princess an amazing life, but sadly it was her time to go, and you gave her the greatest gift in letting her go peacefully. Sofa will already have met up with Vesti on the bridge, they will keep each other company until you see them again, and I'm sure they've met up with the other Purrs bridge babes as well

Please don't think that they have passed on to make way for the twins hunnie, I know you're hurting at the moment, but you've got to focus on you and the babies, so look after yourself

We're all here for you xxxx

Dawn F · « **Reply #54 on:** January 07, 2009, 08:56:42 AM »

sounds like you gave Sofa a wonderful life and in the end that is all any of us can hope for - I can understand how you feel about the babies but you haven't traded anything its just the way it has worked out - take care of yourself

Maddiesmum · « **Reply #53 on:** January 07, 2009, 08:43:44 AM »

What a beautiful girl, love her smudgy nose

Janeyk · « **Reply #52 on:** January 07, 2009, 07:36:50 AM »

Very sorry to hear this sad news

your 2 kitties will be together now,
Sofa was a very pretty princess, godbless her xx

MrsR · « **Reply #51 on:** January 07, 2009, 07:21:02 AM »

My princess

Maddiesmum · « **Reply #50 on:** January 07, 2009, 06:57:42 AM »

I am so very very sorry. How difficult a time you have had but you know in your heart of hearts that you made the bravest and most unselfish decision. Can you see it another way>? I understand you have been trying to have a baby for a while and maybe your cats stayed round long enough to see you well into your pregnancy because they loved you so much they wanted you to be happy. It is difficult enough losing one cat but to lose two so close together must be devastating. You have given them both wonderful lives and you did the best by them at the end.

tigerbaby · « **Reply #49 on:** January 07, 2009, 00:31:12 AM »

Oh no. You must be feeling awful. Losing a dear friend is so hard to deal with, even if you know it might be just around the corner. Know she is in a safe place now

RIP Sofa. Play hard with my Jameson on the Bridge. x

caledonia · « **Reply #48 on:** January 07, 2009, 00:27:18 AM »

so sorry to hear about sofa..... You must be so devastated to lose two cats do close together. At least
They have each other on the rainbow bridge and can look down on together xxx

Gillian Harvey · « **Reply #47 on:** January 06, 2009, 23:44:30 PM »

I'm so sorry to hear this

so soon after losing Sylvester too, a double blow. You're right, it is so unfair.

Mark · « **Reply #46 on:** January 06, 2009, 23:38:08 PM »

I'm so sorry Nikki,

You gave her a long wonderful life

No words I can think of to comfort you - I'm sorry

CC & The Pussycat Guys & Dolls · « **Reply #45 on:** January 06, 2009, 23:17:52 PM »

Oh Nikki, Im so sorry hunnie I really dont know what to say

I know its especially hard loosing a furbabe whilst pregnant, and I did end up feeling like I had "traded" one for the other and thought I would rather keep what I already had at that time. But I realised nothing was going to bring my furry friend back and you have to try to look after yourself.

So sorry hun

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