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Warm Welcome to Purrs! => Welcome to Newbies :) => Topic started by: caledonia on December 27, 2007, 19:50:47 PM

Title: Hi there from another newbie!
Post by: caledonia on December 27, 2007, 19:50:47 PM
Hello all,

Just wanted to say hello as I have recently joined Purrs in our heart and wanted to say hello. Sadly I came accross the site whilst trying to find some comfort following the passing of my Beloved Bertie on Sunday. Bertie was my one and only baby as I had been advised by the Rescue that he needed to be a lone cat. I have been very very sad without him but I am trying to focus on the good times and I am thankful that I ever got him in the first place. He was a lilac point Balinese that had been given up because he was bullying the other cats in the home. I couldn't believe it when I set eyes upon him back in April 2005 and when I found out he had been there for three months I was even more shocked. It seemed that most people going to the rescue already had a cat so could not take him on - lucky for me I guess! He was the most affectionate and intelligent cat I could have ever hoped for and will always have a place in my heart.

I will try and post a picture here but I have a fear I don't have any small enough. 

Anyway I look forward to chatting to you all and trying to cope with my loss. Hopefully with time I can think about whether I have room in my heart for another special boy or girl - but right now I fear I would be expecting too much from them!

Hello all anyway xxxx

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Title: Re: Hi there from another newbie!
Post by: caledonia on December 27, 2007, 19:59:38 PM
Oh it worked - well let me try some more - Bertie enjoying sleeping - his favourite past time and perched on the footstool - his favourtie location :wow:. I really do miss him  :-[

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Title: Re: Hi there from another newbie!
Post by: Gill (sneakiefeline) on December 27, 2007, 20:08:32 PM
 :welcome: to Purrs and I am sorry its in such sad circumstances  :hug:

We all know what you are going through, which I know is not much consolation , except it means we all care. Bertie is one handsome boy and I bet all the girls will be chasing him up there on the Bridge.

RIP Bertie, play hard and you will never be forgotten cos you will always have a pawprint in your meowmys heart.
Title: Re: Hi there from another newbie!
Post by: Tiggy's Mum on December 27, 2007, 20:25:20 PM
Hi &  :welcome: to Purrs, sorry you've found us under such sad circumstances  :hug:  Bertie looks like a very special boy, hopefully one day you'll be able to share some of the love you have for him. 
Title: Re: Hi there from another newbie!
Post by: Sam (Fussy_Furball) on December 27, 2007, 21:22:57 PM
Hi Caledonia and  :welcome: to Purrs,

I'm so sorry you found us under such sad circumstances but you have definitely come to the right place.  Everyone on here is very friendly and most of us know the immense heartache and pain that comes with losing a furry friend. 

Bertie really was an incredibly handsome boy but he will always be with you ... a special boy like him leaves more than a pawprint on your heart ... they trample all over your heart soul and mind and make sure they are forever with you.  :Luv2: :Luv2:

RIP Bertie ... much loved and sorely missed by your mummy.  Play hard at the bridge handsome.
Title: Re: Hi there from another newbie!
Post by: dolcetta46 on December 28, 2007, 10:54:46 AM
 :welcome: caledonia!  Though I have to echo the sentiment expressed by others, so sorry to hear about your recent loss, Bertie is such a beautiful, sweet boy!!  However you must know that he will always be near in your heart even if you can't see him. :hug: :hug:
I hope and believe chatting in this forum will comfort you a lot, we all know, care and feel with you.  :)  Hang with us whenever you feel sad and lonely, or even when you feel okay, we will try to make you feel better!!  And hey some day when the time is right, Bertie will send another furry baby on your way so you won't be left alone!! ;)
Title: Re: Hi there from another newbie!
Post by: Desley (booktigger) on December 28, 2007, 11:00:55 AM
Welcome to Purrs, sorry it is under such sad circumstances, Bertie was a gorgeous cat, and I am sure he will send you another furbabe when you are ready.
Title: Re: Hi there from another newbie!
Post by: Yvonne on December 28, 2007, 13:37:11 PM
Hiya and a warm   :welcome 2:  from me too

Like others have said, so sorry that you found us under such sad circumstances.

Look forward to seeing you posting

Take care   :hug:
Title: Re: Hi there from another newbie!
Post by: Ralph's mum (angie) on December 28, 2007, 17:06:02 PM
Hi and  :welcome:

You will find this place a source of comfort,  unfortunately a lot of us know exactly what you are going through, but we are here if you need a ear to listen  :hug:

Bertie is a very handsome boy and very lucky to have you to share his time with  :hug:

Nite Nite Bertie xx
Title: Re: Hi there from another newbie!
Post by: momma on December 29, 2007, 20:47:07 PM
I am so sorry ro hear about BERTIE. This site gave me so much comfort and still does Everyone is great and they all understand. If you feel you need to talk we are here

 :hug:Joyce
Title: Re: Hi there from another newbie!
Post by: Nikkid on December 30, 2007, 13:11:59 PM
Sorry to hear of your sad loss. There  are lots of lovely people on this site that will make you feel really welcome. It helps to know that people out there genuinely care.

I hope your heart heals soon.

Love Nikki x
Title: Re: Hi there from another newbie!
Post by: Stuart on January 03, 2008, 14:54:45 PM
Hi Caledonia  :welcome: to Purr's

Sorry to hear about Bertie :(
thats the same reason how I found Purr's too :shy: :hug:

:RIP: Bertie
Title: Re: Hi there from another newbie!
Post by: Bazsmum on January 03, 2008, 17:30:28 PM
 :welcome: to Purrs Caladonia  :)

Sorry to hear about Bertie  :(
Title: Re: Hi there from another newbie!
Post by: Felix (Caroline) on January 04, 2008, 20:41:11 PM
Hiya and  :welcome: to purrs

Sorry to hear about Bertie xx