Topic: I think Tiffy hasn't got long left (Read 18660 times)

swampmaxmum · « **Reply #152 on:** September 26, 2008, 22:28:11 PM »

Philip, that is a beautiful way to remember Tiffy, although I know that's of no comfort right now. Take care of yourself

Philip · « **Reply #151 on:** September 26, 2008, 22:17:35 PM »

Philip · « **Reply #150 on:** September 24, 2008, 17:47:51 PM »

People have been lovely.

Its helped a lot at a very difficult time.

ginge66 · « **Reply #149 on:** September 24, 2008, 11:46:09 AM »

Hi Philip, just catching up with this thread sort of guessed from what you said in previous posts that his time had come but it still doesn't make it any easier does it. I hope a week on that things are a little easier for you. Reading through this thread has made me quite emotional it is clear from the pictures he was a well loved cat and the support from people on here has been tremendous.

Andrea x

Michelle (furbabystar) · « **Reply #148 on:** September 21, 2008, 20:58:27 PM »

Go and soak in a hot bath xx

Philip · « **Reply #147 on:** September 21, 2008, 20:55:58 PM »

Kept busy today.

Work was crazy.

My back hurts now.

Michelle (furbabystar) · « **Reply #146 on:** September 21, 2008, 20:48:37 PM »

Yes he is beautiful Philip

How have you been today ?

I love the way you do these pics xx

Philip · « **Reply #145 on:** September 21, 2008, 20:17:02 PM »

I wanted to make a portrait of Tiffy so spent a few hours today putting this together.

He's so beautiful.

swampmaxmum · « **Reply #144 on:** September 21, 2008, 10:10:30 AM »

thinking about you too Philip.

Maddiesmum · « **Reply #143 on:** September 21, 2008, 09:27:21 AM »

me too

alisonandarchie · « **Reply #142 on:** September 21, 2008, 09:13:47 AM »

Thinking about you

Michelle (furbabystar) · « **Reply #141 on:** September 20, 2008, 22:50:47 PM »

Oh Hunny.....I know what You are going through.
I have done that myself, looking in old places....just hoping.

Take it a day at a time Philip -
Everyone is here for You

Philip · « **Reply #140 on:** September 20, 2008, 15:15:27 PM »

Hi Michelle.

I really miss him.

Sometimes I look at his old places to see if he is there. Then I get that sinking feeling that he's gone.

My lovely little boy.

Michelle (furbabystar) · « **Reply #139 on:** September 19, 2008, 20:38:26 PM »

Hows today been Philip ?

clarenmax · « **Reply #138 on:** September 19, 2008, 08:55:19 AM »

That was beautiful Philip

Philip · « **Reply #137 on:** September 18, 2008, 22:35:53 PM »

Thank you

It was very emotional playing it.

Maddiesmum · « **Reply #136 on:** September 18, 2008, 19:37:04 PM »

Wow Philip that is incredibly lovely. Tiffy will be so proud of you and I am sure the music will drift up to Rainbow Bridge for all the fur babies to listen to

Michelle (furbabystar) · « **Reply #135 on:** September 18, 2008, 18:53:22 PM »

Philip that is beautiful

(no a lighter note - i gotta just ask - Your a nurse, sing in a choir, play piano, love cats .....is there a downside to you somewhere ??

)

Philip · « **Reply #134 on:** September 18, 2008, 18:15:38 PM »

On the flying without wings theme. Decided to get on the piano and try and play something I could use at his cremation.

Came up with this.

If you want to download and listen click on the link

http://www.yousendit.com/transfer.php?action=batch_download&batch_id=bVlBYlJiTEQ3N0IzZUE9PQ

Please forgive any mistakes. I did it in one take.

Michelle (furbabystar) · « **Reply #133 on:** September 18, 2008, 17:26:17 PM »

Quote from: Maddiesmum on September 18, 2008, 17:19:31 PM

It's good to get the tears out. Isn't it strange that when we are upset every song on the radio is a sad one. Tiffy is worth the tears so cry them all away.

Tears are words the heart can't speak

Maddiesmum · « **Reply #132 on:** September 18, 2008, 17:19:31 PM »

It's good to get the tears out. Isn't it strange that when we are upset every song on the radio is a sad one. Tiffy is worth the tears so cry them all away.

Michelle (furbabystar) · « **Reply #131 on:** September 18, 2008, 17:02:33 PM »

Quote from: Philip on September 18, 2008, 16:21:12 PM

It comes and goes doesn't it. One minute you are fine and then the next.....Bang.

Almost like waves on a beach Philip, thats how i find grief....it comes and goes, sometimes the waves are little ones and then suddenly you get knocked over by a big one.
It's such early days too, it will get easier, the "good" days become more and more and finially you realise you havent had a "bad" day for ages

Sending you a

Philip · « **Reply #130 on:** September 18, 2008, 16:21:12 PM »

Took a walk into town and bought the new book by Vicky Halls "The complete cat" to cheer myself up.

Was listening to my walkman and "flying without wings" came on. I'm so glad I had my sunglasses on because I had floods of tears streaming down my face.

It comes and goes doesn't it. One minute you are fine and then the next.....Bang.

Maddiesmum · « **Reply #129 on:** September 18, 2008, 15:43:21 PM »

You know Philip I have always felt a sense of peace when I have collected the ashes. It is upsetting but I have felt that my babies were home for good.

clarenmax · « **Reply #128 on:** September 18, 2008, 10:37:47 AM »

Sending you a big

Philip · « **Reply #127 on:** September 18, 2008, 10:35:52 AM »

I'm sort of ok I think. Having weird dreams.

Cant really think about Tiffy right now.

I guess it will hit me hard when I pick his body up to go to the crematorium.

swampmaxmum · « **Reply #126 on:** September 18, 2008, 10:05:14 AM »

how are you today Philip?

Michelle (furbabystar) · « **Reply #125 on:** September 17, 2008, 17:54:54 PM »

You havent got to say sorry for making any of us cry.....we cry because we feel and share your pain

Philip · « **Reply #124 on:** September 17, 2008, 17:05:49 PM »

Maddiesmum · « **Reply #123 on:** September 17, 2008, 17:04:20 PM »

Please don't feel bad about making me cry I guess part of it is my thinking about my Dragan too. You are right about not hiding your feelings

Philip · « **Reply #122 on:** September 17, 2008, 17:02:37 PM »

My pain is bad, but it is born of happiness. I would have rather had him in my life and go through this pain than never had met him.

I'm glad he was in my life. As I am all my kitties are. I have learned over the years its bad to keep you're feelings hidden. It stops you from being you're true self. It doesn't show weakness but strength. I'm proud to say I love Tiffy and all my cats.

I don't mean to make anyone cry. I'm sorry if I do. I guess as you all know, the love you give and receive from a relationship with a pet is a very special gift to be cherished.

Maddiesmum · « **Reply #121 on:** September 17, 2008, 16:56:15 PM »

Oh Philip your pain is so bad, I wish I could say something to help you at this awful time in your life. I am glad you are able to share your thoughts and feelings with us and your lovely tribute again, brought tears to my eyes. Tiffy was, indeed, a very lucky cat to have you for his daddy.

Stuart · « **Reply #120 on:** September 17, 2008, 16:39:30 PM »

Beautiful

Philip · « **Reply #119 on:** September 17, 2008, 16:36:29 PM »

Dear Tiffy.

When I was 16 I lost my dad. I planted a seed in the ground and cried tears of sadness. Those tears of sadness made the seed grow and you were born.

I have spent many happy years with you. Even though there have been many, it was still too short a time. It would have been however long we had together.

Now it was you're time to go. Like a flower in autumn, the flowers and leaves dropped and the cycle of life turned full circle.

I have tears of sadness again, but I understand you haven't left me. The cycle of life still goes on all around me. The fires in you're eyes lights up in mine.

Please wait for me. Because one day I will be with you again. It's not my time quite yet. I have still much to do and learn. I have to continue the work you and my other fur babes inspire me to do. I still have lots of love to give others. I know you will understand.

God bless you my special baby.

You're daddy xxx

Maddiesmum · « **Reply #118 on:** September 17, 2008, 16:33:33 PM »

He's such a little sweetheart

Michelle (furbabystar) · « **Reply #117 on:** September 17, 2008, 13:46:49 PM »

Quote from: Philip on September 17, 2008, 13:11:25 PM

I had a dream about him last night.

He looked happy.

Hey Philip
They say that when you dream of someone who has passed it is their way of visiting you
I think You just got your Bridge kiss !!

Ann Clarke (Tabby cat) · « **Reply #116 on:** September 17, 2008, 13:18:28 PM »

I haven't been able to read all of this thread as I am in tears at work but I will read it all later when I am home. I just wanted to say how sorry I am Philip. Tiffy was a beautiful cat and he had a wonderful life with you. RIP Tiffy enjoy yourself at the bridge darling.

Philip · « **Reply #115 on:** September 17, 2008, 13:18:03 PM »

Here he is in the last hour before his sister Jemilla went to the bridge.

Its so sweet how he stayed so close to her.

Maddiesmum · « **Reply #114 on:** September 17, 2008, 13:16:33 PM »

I am glad he looked happy.

MrsR · « **Reply #113 on:** September 17, 2008, 13:12:27 PM »

Quote from: Philip on September 17, 2008, 13:11:25 PM

I had a dream about him last night.

He looked happy.

Maybe he is trying to tell you something sweetie so you don't ache so much

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