hi - thought i should introduce myself - i've already had quite a bit of help from people here with various foster cats for which i'm really grateful. maybe should say a bit more about me.
i've had cats almost all my life, but only ever one at a time. when midgecat my precious tabby cat died in september this year i stumbled into fostering. didn't want to just "get another" cat .... hard to imagine anyone replacing her. so i was in touch with my local rescue (sheffield) and started fostering Mog. i fell in love with her and adopted her very quickly in spite of the plans not to have another permanent cat. in the last 3 months i've had 8 other cats for foster. not all at once i hasten to add. just got 2 lovely ginger boys arrived yesterday. absolutely loving it.
i don't know if this is the best place to ask this question but not sure which other section it would fit best in (mods feel welcome to move or tell me to repost).
? the more i do the more i realise i don't know. things like - how worried should i be about that cough? what to do when we have tummy upsets. how do i know if she's pregnant / he's been neutered? are they playing or starting a serious fight? should i intervene or leave them to settle? how should i best try to calm an angry / scared cat. loads of stuff that just doesn't come up in the same way if you have just one long term family pet.
