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Title: It's Bad News - UPDATE: Healing Vibes Needed For Misty - RIP 6 April 09
Post by: Stuart on January 19, 2009, 11:15:27 AM: original post http://www.purrsinourhearts.co.uk/index.php/topic,21148.msg373078.html#msg373078

Just recieved a phone call from the vet, it's the Worst news :'( during the blood test, the lab in Aberdeen found Strange Abnormalities in Misty's Plasma
and had phoned the vet's to see if they could do another kind of test to determine what it was, Misty has now been diagnosed with " Lymphosarcoma "
( Cancer of the Bone Marrow ) I had a very good/long talk with the vet going through all the option's chemotherapy/steroids and the side effects, but
just like Misty's CRF there is no cure, I was also told that even if I put Him through this it still might not add any longevity to his life, there's just no telling?
I had asked would he be in any pain if I decided not to go through with the Treatment (because of His age) and was told Just like the CRF condition there
is no pain, It'll just make Him feel a bit Lousy every now and then. The vet also told me that it was this that Caused his CRF to begin with, and His new
blood result's have confirmed that the state of His Kidney's have worsened over the past year.

Can't really think of anything else to say at the moment, I feel so Rotten and Down :'( :'( :'(
Misty's been with me for such a long time (My First Pud)

Prognosis from diagnosis is 2 - 9 month's
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Post by: Dawn F on January 19, 2009, 11:18:05 AM: oh Stuart I am so sorry don't know what to say really :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Kittybabe (Ruth) on January 19, 2009, 11:18:38 AM: :care: Stu. So sorry to hear this.
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Post by: sheryl on January 19, 2009, 11:25:38 AM: Oh Stuart Hun I am so sorry - :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Bryony84 on January 19, 2009, 11:27:43 AM: I'm so sorry that its bad news :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Janeyk on January 19, 2009, 11:31:52 AM: oh Stuart, I'm ever so sorry :hug:
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Post by: tigerbaby on January 19, 2009, 11:37:26 AM: :hug: :hug:
Sorry to hear the bad news. I think you are doing the right thing saying no to chemotherapy, esp if he will be in no pain without it.

Hugs to you both.
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Post by: Maddiesmum on January 19, 2009, 11:40:01 AM: I am so sorry, you must be heartbroken. Let's hope he has the longest possible time with you :hug:
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Post by: Catbird on January 19, 2009, 11:41:11 AM: I am so sorry to read this and I wish you both strength.

C.
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Post by: madkittyrescue on January 19, 2009, 11:56:34 AM: Stuart, you and mitsy are in our thoughts. I'm so so sorry that it is such bad news. :hug: :hug:

Remember you have many a cyber shoulder to cry on hun :hug: for you and Mitsy.
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Post by: clarenmax on January 19, 2009, 11:57:47 AM: I'm sorry to hear this hunnie, and if he is no pain without treatment, then I think I would be taking the same course of action.

Cherish every day you have together, and I pray that you have many, many more :hug:
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Post by: caledonia on January 19, 2009, 11:58:49 AM: sorry to hear the news about Misty :hug: :hug:
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Post by: swampmaxmum on January 19, 2009, 12:06:58 PM: I'm so very sorry Stuart. I hope that you have many months of love with Misty and know that every moment will be special. :hug: x
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Post by: ems on January 19, 2009, 12:08:28 PM: Oh Stuart I am so so sorry :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Mark on January 19, 2009, 12:24:29 PM: Sorry Stuart :hug:
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Post by: Leanne on January 19, 2009, 12:34:03 PM: I'm so sorry to hear this :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: bonnielass on January 19, 2009, 13:07:52 PM: Oh Stuart what terrible news :( im so sorry to hear about Misty, all i can say is cherish whatever time you have with him and i will be praying that its for the longest time possible :hug: :hug:
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Post by: ChrisB on January 19, 2009, 13:12:48 PM: So sorry to read this Stuart - thinking of you and Misty.
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Post by: MrsR on January 19, 2009, 13:18:59 PM: Oh hunnie I am so sorry.

Yes cherish every moment you have together now more than ever :hug:
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Post by: Liz on January 19, 2009, 13:21:39 PM: Sorry for the bad news for you and Misty - its never what we want to hear is it

On the plus side he is still Misty and you are still his Dad so that bond hasn't changed its only the time factor that has been moved

Stuart you will love him while you can and I'm sure more treats are coming as are the cuddles - by the way vet should ask the cat re the time parameters all ours have outlived the time frame the vets gave them and we got them for that wee bit longer

Its a very hard outcome but at least you still have your boy and thats what makes this day and all the others he still has with you worth it :hug:
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Post by: Jasmine on January 19, 2009, 14:19:56 PM: Sorry to hear this Stuart, for what it's worth, think you've made the right decision about the treatment too.
:hug:
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Post by: Kirst on January 19, 2009, 16:15:09 PM: Im so sorry to hear this Stuart. I think If it were me I would have taken the same descision. :hug: :hug:
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Post by: JackSpratt on January 19, 2009, 17:33:18 PM: :care: I'm so sorry, Stuart. Cherish the time you have left with Misty, it's so obvious how much you love him from your posts.
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Post by: pappilon on January 19, 2009, 17:44:41 PM: I am so sorry , Stuart. :hug: I think you made the right decision about the treatment.
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Post by: Christine (Blip) on January 19, 2009, 17:52:22 PM: I'm sorry to hear this Stuart. I too would make the same decision in the same circumstances :hug: Take each day as it comes and I hope there are many, many more of them.
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Post by: Gillian Harvey on January 19, 2009, 19:01:05 PM: So sorry Stuart :hug: give Misty an extra cuddle from me :hug:
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Post by: Tiggy's Mum on January 19, 2009, 19:07:12 PM: So sorry to hear this Stuart :hug: You know we're all here for you :hug:
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Post by: Baggy on January 19, 2009, 19:34:36 PM: I'm very sorry to hear this news and hope you have a long time left together yet :hug:
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Post by: Stuart on January 19, 2009, 20:16:14 PM: Thanks Guy's,
although this past month Misty has had a couple of bad day's , not really eating he's just licking the gravy off his food
still been lapping up his milk and drinking water
Right at this moment He's as bright as a button and is currently tucking into a large piece of freshly cooked Salmon
Looking at him tucking in, I still find it hard to digest that I only have a limited amount of time left with him :'(

can't think of anything else to say, I wont let him suffer

Thank's again for your understanding and support
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Post by: Millys Mum on January 19, 2009, 20:22:04 PM: Sorry Stuart :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: CC & The Pussycat Guys & Dolls on January 19, 2009, 20:37:37 PM: Oh my goodness, Im so sorry to hear this :(

I hope Misty has many more good times to come :hug:
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Post by: bonnielass on January 19, 2009, 21:58:45 PM: Try (tho its hard ) not to think of a time limit with Misty,just take each day that comes and treasure the memories that you will be making with him. :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Rosella moggy on January 19, 2009, 22:53:50 PM: Really so sorry to hear this Stuart :hug: :hug:.

It's so very difficult to get a time limit out of your head once a vet has mentioned something but we all know the vet can't really know how long Misty has left. You always knew Misty was getting on and has a limited span like us all. Try to think back to that reality not the vet's guess and enjoy Misty as he is now :hug:
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Post by: Debsymiller (Rufus' mum) on January 19, 2009, 23:03:24 PM: I am so sorry to hear this sad news :hug:
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Post by: Gill (sneakiefeline) on January 19, 2009, 23:22:45 PM: I am so sorry Stuart and know exactly how you are feeling. :hug:

I try to tell myself that Franta is no worse now than he was before I knew the story and thats working better now but its taken all month and unlike Misty he never tucks into nice food.

I think that you must tell yourself the same and then it sorta calms down until they have a bad day........sigh

Its the shock of actually being told and the time it takes to sink in and then the misery.

Like everyone says take each day one by one and give him lots of cuddles from me and franta sends furry headbuts and pushes and a meowwwwwwwwwww :hug:
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Post by: Stuart on January 20, 2009, 15:16:39 PM: Thank's again folks
I look at Misty now and He's still Misty :Luv: although today he's back to gravy licking again :(
Like you say Gill, just because I now know what's wrong with Him, He's still the Same, untill they have an off day :(
then it all hit's home and the misery set's in :'(

the vet also told me that it won't be the cancer that will take Him (although that is the underlying cause for His illness)
but it will probably be kidney failure. (this is bad) but I feel a wee bit of relief knowing that, and will know what to look out
for and what to expect as I went through the same with Hamish

as you have all said, I will now be Taking it day by day

Thank You all again, Your support means so much to me
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Post by: Dawn F on January 20, 2009, 15:29:53 PM: with Bluto (he died of kidney cancer so might not be the same) the first sign he was going down hill was a lack of co-ordinatation - not trying to scare you or upset you but its worth knowing because I didn't have a clue - I just put it down to him getting on a bit
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Post by: Gail Bengal Slave on January 20, 2009, 16:36:28 PM: I'm so sorry to hear Misty is not well -
many :hug: :hug: to you both xxxxx
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Post by: Topsy Turvey on January 20, 2009, 16:43:42 PM: Really sorry to hear about Misty. :hug: :hug: to you both at this sad time x
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Post by: Desley (booktigger) on January 20, 2009, 21:15:51 PM: I am sorry that the bloods didn't show anything more positive Stuart, I think you are doing the right thing by not giving him the treatment, and I do hope he exceeds the vets expectations. While deep down we know our babies wont be with us forever, it is news like this that hammers it home, and makes things hard, but he will enjoy life regardless, he has no concept of time in that respect, and just treasure every day with him, and make sure you have plenty of pics and happy memories.
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Post by: 2d on January 21, 2009, 00:13:15 AM: I'm so, so sorry.

Doubtless you know that cancer just took one of ours.

All I can say is what Ed-puss taught me in the last month or so - he doesn't know what's happening - treasure every day - try not to think about what's coming (I know, I couldn't stop myself, but try).

And it's true that you'd know if he were in pain, so don't worry about that.
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Post by: Philip on January 21, 2009, 00:29:10 AM: Hi.

Im really sorry to hear this news Stuart.

I know you will treasure every moment you have together.

Take care.

:hug:
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Post by: sylvie on January 21, 2009, 18:15:28 PM: I'm sorry to hear the news.... :hug:
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Post by: MrsR on January 21, 2009, 18:32:57 PM: Sending you and Misty hugs x
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Post by: Stuart on January 22, 2009, 16:39:39 PM: Misty has eaten very little in the last 2 day's and He is now refusing to touch the milk and his water intake has reduced also :'(
I was back at the vet's yesterday, and had another long talk with Her to see if there was some way of kick starting him to eat??
I've now got half a pill to give him, to increase appetite, and a course of steroid pill's which may perk Him up a bit (no side effect's with these)
He has eaten some raw chicken today and licked all the gravy from three pouches + had some tuna brine, and I'm currently making up some
chicken broth for him (a simple recipe I found on the internet) so will see how he goes with that
there was no stool in the litter tray this morning but he'd weed a lot :( which is making me worry even more, Hamish started doing this and it
was only ten day's later he was sent to the bridge :'(

He still seem's bright in himself, but i know if he doesn't start eating soon He will go down hill very quickly
I will see how he goes the rest of the day, but if there is no improvement, I will give him the appetite inducer and start the course of steroids
tommorrow
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Post by: Janeyk on January 22, 2009, 16:47:43 PM: I wonder why the vet has chosen tablets? my vet gives Schui a steroid injection and it's brilliant, I suppose your vet will have her reason though. Also if he hasn't eaten very much he probably doesn't need to go to loo. I hope Misty starts to eat more soon, loads of positive vibes for him :hug:
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Post by: Kirst on January 22, 2009, 17:04:40 PM: Sometimes 1/2 a valium tablet helps - Beavis has a steroid injection and it did naff all, but the valium kick started his appetite. :hug:
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Post by: swampmaxmum on January 22, 2009, 17:26:23 PM: The steroids should help his appetite and I think the pills give a steady dose rather than the whammy of the injection, which is a lot stronger than prednisone. You can also play around a bit with the dose to find the right one for him. Sometimes they make cats drink and wee even more often (and sometimes not, just a warning in case it worries you more). One thing that puts my Swampy off his food is that even moderate CRF can cause indigestion or stomach acid. You could ask the vet if he's got any Zantac as Pepcid's not available here any more. I think UK vets now use Zantac? If he's not left you a nasty to clean up, he could be off his food from constipation? Hope things are better tomorrow :hug:
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Post by: Gwen on January 22, 2009, 17:41:29 PM: So sorry to read about Misty,lets hope you have lots of time you have left and of course I know you'll cherish every moment.

Please give Misty a gentle headbutt from our lot and a kiss from me too :hug:
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Post by: Stuart on January 23, 2009, 00:52:25 AM: Well the rest of the day Misty made no progress eating wise (although he kept running to his feeding area even though I had tried him with
everything I had, hi-life 70% fish cat food, the chicken drumstick's-carrot-potato-stock cube-teaspoon of catnip all simmered into a broth +
slices of thin cut chicken and every tin/pouch of catfood i have in the house :(
my OH(nurse) suggested trying the steroids as they are the same as the ones humans get to perk elderly people up and put on weight too
within half an hour He was eating /drinking everything that was on offer (not over indulging) just small amount's, and has even passed a stool
(although that wasn't very well formed) but that was kind of expected because he hadn't really been eating
I haven't given him the appetite inducer, will see how he get's on with the steroids
the steroid pill's are called prednisolone 5mg ( x 60 ) misty is really good at taking pill's....thankfully
the vet did mention the injection and how strong it was, and decided to see how He got on with the pill's, leaving the injection as a last resort
as for the indigestion & stomach acid, i have been giving Misty Sippery elm bark, which i think is working ??

thank you all for you support and concerns
i will keep you all updated how it goes, still taking things one step at a time

Stuart + Misty
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Post by: Janeyk on January 23, 2009, 07:21:42 AM: Thank you Stuart, probably why Schui had the injection then as we thought at the time we may lose him - although the injections (he's had a couple in the past as he could have nasal growth) take a couple of weeks to kick in he is now a different cat.

Brilliant news about Misty! ;D
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Post by: bonnielass on January 23, 2009, 07:48:53 AM: Glad to hear that Misty has started to eat something and hopefully with these tablets he will continue to do so, :hug: :hug:
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Post by: swampmaxmum on January 23, 2009, 09:37:59 AM: good news about Misty, Stuart. If he does have to be on steroids for ages, I've read (vet disagrees on its importance, but I don't) on a vet site on the web that it is better to give them at night. Something to do with cats' natural production of whatever by the adrenal system as they are more awake at night. If constantly given in the morning - unless you have to, I have to give every 36 hours so have not much choice with Swampy - they over time impair the cat's ability to manage stress. I've really found that to be honest. But I couldn't cut his steroids as they help too much in other ways. Even if it's masking the real problem, they feel better and eat and that is surely what it is all about.
What they do do is lower immunity so if he's on them for a while, he may also have to take some a.bs.
I've been told by 2 different vets that cats handle long/er term use of steroids quite well, unlike dogs, so not to worry if they are working and he's feeling better. But the best dose is the lowest dose at which you get good results. :hug:
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Post by: sheryl on January 23, 2009, 13:04:38 PM: So glad that Misty has eaten something - sending love, huggles and positive vibes xxx

Big :hug: :hug: :hug: for you Stuart - I know how hard it is when they refuse to eat, I can remember sitting on the floor with Amber and trying every food I could think of and just crying and begging her to eat something.
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Post by: Baggy on January 23, 2009, 13:14:43 PM: Glad that Misty has eaten - it's so nerve wracking when they won't.

When Dinah has bad tummy acids she refuses to eat, hovers over her water dish and smacks her lips all the time so it sounds as if the slippery elm is working for him.

Re: steroids, our vet agrees with swampmaxmum - they are better given at night as the withdrawal is less rapid that way.
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Post by: Stuart on January 24, 2009, 00:35:33 AM: Misty has currently got 4 different food bowls to choose from, ( not really sure if thats the best idea ) the chicken broth, fishy cat food,
senior cat food, and the milk. He hasn't done too bad today, and i say he's eaten more of the fishy food than anything else
(about quater of a tin) still gravy licking of the senior food though :(, had some milk, had some chicken broth
(although he doesn't seem so keen on it now) and he's drinking the water, but still no where near like he was

not sure what to do about the steroids though, the perscription says 1x5mg pill twice a day, I was giving 1 in the morning and 1 at night
should i cut out the one in the morning ?? and just give him one at night ??

thanks again guys
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Post by: bonnielass on January 24, 2009, 08:38:14 AM: I cant offer any advice ref tablets ,just wanted to say im glad that Misty is eating a bit better and hope he continues to do so,could you maybe try him with a little bit of turkey mince,my oldie George is fussy eater and sometimes wont eat cat food at all, just his whiskas milk but if i put a small dish of turkey mince who eats it all ,anyway hope its a good day for you both :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Christine (Blip) on January 24, 2009, 14:00:25 PM: Misty might like Hermanns food: I've just bought some for the first time and it's really sloppy - the consistency of porridge or pottage. Blip loves gravy and she loves the Hermanns. I got it from Zooplus.
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Post by: Baggy on January 24, 2009, 15:29:49 PM: Quote from: Stuart (Misty's Dad) on January 24, 2009, 00:35:33 AM
not sure what to do about the steroids though, the perscription says 1x5mg pill twice a day, I was giving 1 in the morning and 1 at night
should i cut out the one in the morning ?? and just give him one at night ??
I'd stick to one tablet in the morning and one at night - as he's having two they won't be wearing off inbetween doses so the withdrawal thing won't matter as much - if that makes sense?
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Post by: Stuart on January 24, 2009, 16:26:42 PM: Thanks Baggy, yes that makes sense ( how's Dinah keeping btw ?? )

Thanks Christine, we have a couple of pet shops in fraserburgh, will see if they have it as they have a wide variaty of stock
Just wondering though?? how long does zooplus take to deliver an order ??

Misty is still nibbling away at the food I chase him around the house with, but it's so frustrating !! ;D when He eats something
and :'( when He just turn's His head away (but like OH pointed out, with him not eating properly recently, his stomach has
probably shrunk, therefore he doesnt need so much food to fill Him up) I want Him to eat like he used to :(

He has eaten a big piece of salmon today, along with the fishy cat food and has maybe had about half a pouch of senior, and I'll
try him with some more raw chicken later on tonight.

there were these treats I was giving him for the last year called Pit'r pat, and He goes daft for them, but I have been having
difficulty getting more (they are very popular apparently) I have scoured uk websites selling them, and most say not in stock!
I did find a website and ordered 20 tin's , just to recieve an e-mail 4 days later telling me "they are sorry, but we have none left >:( "

Last week I bit the bullett and ordered the Tin's off an ebay seller from America (thats where these treats are made)
I just hope they get here soon :(

Stuart + Misty
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Post by: Janeyk on January 24, 2009, 16:33:36 PM: I think if he's eaten all that so far today that's really good Stuart :) I don't think mine have eaten that much, he is liking the cat milk?
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Post by: Christine (Blip) on January 24, 2009, 18:24:12 PM: Quote from: Stuart (Misty's Dad) on January 24, 2009, 16:26:42 PM
Christine, we have a couple of pet shops in fraserburgh, will see if they have it as they have a wide variaty of stock
Just wondering though?? how long does zooplus take to deliver an order ??

I've always found Zooplus extremely efficient: I ordered food for Blip last Saturday and had it by Wednesday. Would you like me to send you a pouch to see if Misty likes it? If so, PM me your address and say whether Misty would prefer fish or beef :hug:
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Post by: Stuart on January 24, 2009, 18:37:09 PM: I thought he was going off His milk, but I caught Him earlier drinking some, so that is good, He has also made a Large healthy looking deposit in his litter tray :evillaugh:

for fleeting moments I'm happy, but it's now always in my mind that He has Cancer and it will be just a matter of time :'(

( As with all our furbabes ) I have lost count of the times I have seen Misty being cheeky/funny or cute and thought of getting it on film or a photo, and I regret
myself for thinking " I'll get the camcorder/camera out next time " I do have a lot of Photo's of Misty, but am now thinking of all the missed Opportunities :(

anyway as some of you may know, I entered Misty into our local pet show, and He won the category of "Best Veteran Cat" I just got round to getting a photo tonight :-[

(http://i223.photobucket.com/albums/dd228/culnara/mistystrophypetshow.jpg)
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Post by: bonnielass on January 24, 2009, 19:56:56 PM: We all regret lost opportunities and dont realise until its too late, but your memeories of Misty will last far longer then your photo,s :Luv: Hes a beautiful cat and you both look so proud in the photo, just try to put it from your mind that he has cancer and enjoy the time you have with him :hug: and there is still time for more photo,s and time spent together enjoying the bond you have with each other,take it one day at a time and make each one special, :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Baggy on January 24, 2009, 20:28:45 PM: It sounds as if he has eaten well today ;D.

Dinah is doing a bit better thanks Stuart, she is eating well and quite bright in herself but not definitely not as well as she has been. Bonnielass is right, we should be enjoying time with our babes but it is hard at the moment - when she eats and purrs, or nags me to light the fire I feel so happy, then catch her looking a bit sad, or she doesn't enjoy being fussed and I'm all down again.

Even though we can't change what is going to happen, at least we know we will do our absolute best to make sure our babes are comfortable and spoiled rotten so I hope we can take some comfort from that.
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Post by: Stuart on January 25, 2009, 00:41:41 AM: Thanks Bonnielass, I do try and think positively, but it's so hard when you know whats wrong :shy:

So glad that Dinah is doing well, and i know what you mean by being bright one moment then the next, seeing the illness in them
it's such an emotional roller coaster for us :) :( :) :(

oh almost forgot :doh: Misty has eaten loads more chicken tonight :)

P.S. I have sent you a pm Christine ;)
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Post by: Janeyk on January 25, 2009, 08:13:00 AM: That's a lovely photo and memory for you to keep Stuart :Luv2: I too regret not taking more photos of my previous cats as I think we all regret things at times like this but we still have the memories in our hearts and they never go.
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Post by: bonnielass on January 25, 2009, 10:09:43 AM: I know how hard it is knowing that time is limited :( but wether its weeks or months you have the chance to shower him with love and cherish the time you have remaining and make lots more memories that will remain in your heart forever,when it gets hard for you we are all here for you so dont ever try and cope alone :hug: talk to us we all understand what your going through and will help you :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Maddiesmum on January 25, 2009, 10:43:06 AM: That is a beautiful photo and one you will be able to look back on with pride and love. A day at a time (easier said than done I do know) and we are all here for your ups and downs. Lets hope there will be more ups than downs :hug:
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Post by: bonnielass on January 27, 2009, 07:58:51 AM: How is Misty doing today? and how are you? :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Stuart on January 27, 2009, 14:30:40 PM: Thank's Bonnielass, Misty is so so, he IS eating and drinking more, but when I put food down, I usually find myself waiting with Bated Breath
to see if He'll eat it, I'll lay it down in front of Him, and go out of the room Listening to see if he's eating (I don't want to distract him) I have tried
the coaxing and giving Him encouragement to get him to eat something, but have found it makes no difference whether I am doing that or not
it all depends on if he want's to eat, he had a bad day yesterday, and did not eat very much, just some raw chicken, I went down and bought
more chicken legs for him and also diced raw steak( he had a couple of bit's of raw steak and that was it. I'd also popped into Lidl's an got some
cat food to try him with (Opticat Supermeat, comes in 100g tin's) and He Liked it, during the rest of the afternoon to this morning, He'd eaten
two tins (200g) I went back to Lidl's this morning and bought more, but so far today He has only eaten about 25g's

as for myself I am still :( because I know He wont get better.........only worse :'(

Just glad I am at Home to nurse Him, was supposed to be back to work last saturday but that's been put on hold (still getting paid though)
which I'm really glad of because (although OH would do Her best for Him) I know I would just be worrying all the time about him

Misty has tooken to sleeping on/in one of my jacket's (camera is always at hand now)

Curled up Cosy

(http://i223.photobucket.com/albums/dd228/culnara/misty2-1.jpg)

Very Cosy

(http://i223.photobucket.com/albums/dd228/culnara/Misty1-1.jpg)

Maybe too cosy, jacket probably making him too hot

(http://i223.photobucket.com/albums/dd228/culnara/misty3.jpg)
Title: Re: It's Bad News
Post by: Gill (sneakiefeline) on January 27, 2009, 14:42:08 PM: Sounds much like Franta but he never eats anything but jelly or gravy and a few biscuits. I stand over him watching to see the other cats dont disturb him but nothing else I can do really.

He spends most of his time sleeping on the days that I think are his bad days and on the good days he drives me up the wall shouting and pushing and shoving to be on my knee.

Its so hard and I am sure somme good weather would help.

I didnt know Misty was a blue cat and he looks gorgeous..........I reckon he has lots of life in him still :hug: :hug:
Title: Re: It's Bad News
Post by: bonnielass on January 27, 2009, 14:44:17 PM: Im glad hes eating a little bit,perhaps little and often may be better for him :Luv: I love the pictures of him ,his coat looks like velvet with that sheen on it and he looks very content all stratched out, its so hard to believe looking at him that there was anything amiss, and i know it must be so hard for you and my heart goes out to you, i wish i could say or do something to make it all go away but unfortunately that isnt possible :( so all i can offer is take pleasure in every minute with him and make sure that camera is always to hand to capture all those silly little things that make treasured memories :hug: :hug:
Title: Re: It's Bad News
Post by: Stuart on January 27, 2009, 20:15:35 PM: Thanks Guy's
That sound's exactly the same as Misty, He's spending most of his time sleeping also, and when he wakes i bring the food to him (usually work's) He is still
bright and happy looking when he is awake, but I can still tell He is unwell ( or maybe thats just because I know He's unwell, if that makes sense?? )
Misty does no head nipping to get on my knee, He'll just quietly walk in and sit down next to me till I pick Him up.
Yes and I do think if we had some good weather that would help too

Gill, You say that you didnt know Misty was a blue cat ?? LoL, thats kinda how he got His name, didn't know what to call Him when I first got Him, but with His
blue eye's and a slight tinge of blue through His coat, this colour reminded me of the Mist coming off Loch migdale in the morning when I stayed with my
grandfather during the holidays, So I called Him ( Misty Blue ) " Misty " for short

aye Bonnielass, the little and often is the route I am taking, and so far today He has had nearly two tins of the Lidl's food again, sfunny, you buy the most expensive
stuff and He wont look at it, but will happily eat the cheap stuff :shocked: go figure ??
I dont know if my mind is playing tricks on me but I think He has putten a little weight too?? or maybe it's just wishful thinking

anyway, I have managed to get my scanner working and have scanned in the only decent photos of Misty when He was ickle, back in 91
these were taken with a cheap camera so the quality is not too good, and they dont show the blue tinge
I got a bit upset doing these because it just made me realise how long I've had Him :'( but I just felt the need to share :shy:

Misty playing with the Rug Tassle's - note - just remembered, by the looks of his tummy, He's still full of worms at that point

(http://i223.photobucket.com/albums/dd228/culnara/Misty1-2.jpg)

I know what it looks like he is doing :-: but I can assure you He's not !!, this was Mistys first experiance of being outside up at my grandfathers
He was going daft running about everywhere!! the amount of photo's I took that have no tale/head etc

(http://i223.photobucket.com/albums/dd228/culnara/Misty2-2.jpg)

This was an attempt at a close up with the cheap camera, thank Goodness for Digital nowadays

(http://i223.photobucket.com/albums/dd228/culnara/Misty3-1.jpg)
Title: Re: It's Bad News
Post by: Maddiesmum on January 27, 2009, 20:35:04 PM: oh wow he is just the cutest little puss cat :Luv2: :Luv:
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Post by: bonnielass on January 27, 2009, 21:45:19 PM: Of course you will get upset looking back to when Misty was a kitten :Luv: so cute, 18yrs is a long time to own such a beautiful cat and im sure over those years you have a million memories and photo,s charting the roads you travelled together, this is what stays in the heart and neither time nor man will ever erase those wonderful memories. Im sure you have given Misty the very best any cat could wish for . :Luv2: It always amazes me as you say you buy the best and they only want the cheap stuff, but what the hell if thats what he wants thats what he gets as long as he is eating thats the main thing, you say you think hes put some weight on, maybe he has if hes not so active but still eating, . Anyway take each day as it comes, some may be bad , some will be good but through it all hes still your baby and you will do your best by him no matter what. God Bless and lots of hugs for all :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Janeyk on January 28, 2009, 08:36:39 AM: I was going to suggest taking the food to him, it works a treat with Schui when he was last poorly I kept taking it to him on the sofa (where he always sleeps) and feeding him, trouble is he wants that all the time now! lots of love to Misty, the photos are just so cute xx
Title: Re: It's Bad News
Post by: Gill (sneakiefeline) on January 28, 2009, 16:06:09 PM: Yes I take the food to Franta too and as Misty is eating so much, he may have put on weight. I was shattered when the vet weighed Franta in early Jan and he had put on weight, now I need his fur to grow again.......sigh

I think we are tainted by the fact that we know they are ill and we are watching and waiting for signs that they are getting worse , instead of just getting on as normal......whats normal!

At 18 years old its normal that Misty would sleep more and not be so energetic and the same with franta at 15 and half which is probably as good as 18 yrs for his breed.

I so understand how you feel and my late Kocka was a blue cat but with yellow eyes and she stayed with me for 10 years and came to me around 10 yrs old.
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Post by: Maddiesmum on January 28, 2009, 17:47:32 PM: It's very hard and my thoughts are with you and the beautiful Misty :hug:
Title: Re: It's Bad News
Post by: bonnielass on February 02, 2009, 14:02:35 PM: Hi just wondered how things are going with Misty as you havent posted for a while, :hug: :hug:
Title: Re: It's Bad News
Post by: Stuart on February 02, 2009, 22:42:58 PM: Oops, sorry Bonnielass, Misty is eating so much (maybe too much) and drinking normally too :wow:
I cleaned out our local Lidl's of the beef flavour and had to go to Peterhead to get some more, I
bought another 22 tins on friday and have only got 8 tins left = 4+ tins a day, but this is bringing
up another problem, Misty still has CRF and is supposed to be eating a low Phosphorus diet, He
wouldn't eat the royal canin food I bought, so I had been feeding him on senior until he stopped
eating alltogether, now I am afraid to change his food or mix binders into it in case he goes off it
again. But if I keep feeding him the normal food the way it is, it may speed up His kidney failure :(

Misty is still putting on the weight, and is happy :Luv: specially in the morning's where he'll run about
for 10 - 20 minutes before retiring to the bed for the rest of the day, only to get up for the lav
(I am still waiting on him hand and foot, and have a lap tray for his food and water)

still taking it day by day (even though He has improved a lot in a few days)
Title: Re: It's Bad News
Post by: Gillian Harvey on February 02, 2009, 23:00:29 PM: Quote from: Stuart (Misty's Dad) on February 02, 2009, 22:42:58 PM
Misty still has CRF and is supposed to be eating a low Phosphorus diet, He
wouldn't eat the royal canin food I bought, so I had been feeding him on senior until he stopped
eating alltogether, now I am afraid to change his food or mix binders into it in case he goes off it
again. But if I keep feeding him the normal food the way it is, it may speed up His kidney failure :(

Misty is still putting on the weight,

Stuart, please don't think you will speed up his kidney failure by feeding normal food - you've said yourself he's putting on weight - thats a good sign, and as you know its more important that he eats something (anything). I think you are right not to rock the boat. :hug:
Title: Re: It's Bad News
Post by: ChrisB on February 02, 2009, 23:01:19 PM: Stuart, so pleased that Misty is happy and eating well - he is a gorgeous boy.
Title: Re: It's Bad News
Post by: Rosella moggy on February 02, 2009, 23:06:09 PM: Quote from: ChrisB on February 02, 2009, 23:01:19 PM
Stuart, so pleased that Misty is happy and eating well - he is a gorgeous boy.

Well said!
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Post by: Desley (booktigger) on February 03, 2009, 08:02:43 AM: I wouldnt worry about it speeding up his kidney failure, at the end of the day, if he wont eat, he will feel worse, and have a poor quality of life - and with illness, quality is way more important than quantity. I agree about not rocking the boat with binders though.
Title: Re: It's Bad News
Post by: bonnielass on February 03, 2009, 08:10:51 AM: Hi Stuart,im glad to hear things are well so far and that Misty is eating well, have you tried Hills prescription diet K/D(gold top ) this is especially for kidney failure and has reduced phospherous and as its mostly fresh chicken it should also help with his weight altho i think as Gillian said if hes putting on weight that cant be a bad thing and the fact that hes happy will make a difference. I think your right just take each day as it comes and try to remain positive. :hug: :hug:
Title: Re: It's Bad News
Post by: Maddiesmum on February 03, 2009, 10:27:07 AM: I agree with the other posters. glad things are good at the moment otherwise though :hug:
Title: Re: It's Bad News
Post by: Philip on February 03, 2009, 18:55:11 PM: Hi Stuart.

I found with Tiffy that he wouldnt eat the renal foods available so I used Ipakitine phosphate binders. They should only be used for six months max though. At the end of the day, If the cat is eating any food its better than nothing. If blood toxin levels are high, then the cat may develop mouth ulcers that can cause pain on eating so if Misty is eating then thats good.

I don't know how you would feel about asking youre vet if they would teach you how to give subcutaneous fluids at home. It really helped my Tiffy when he crashed, but its something I felt comfortable doing as I am a trained nurse.

I truly believe it gave Tiffy 2 more years with me learning how to do that. I just wondered how you felt.

As the kidneys function deteriorates, it can be useful to have means of rehydrating the cat safely. Especially if it feels sick due to increased toxins in the blood (uraemia). Giving subcutaneous fluids helps to flush them out. You don't have to worrk about fluid overload as subcutaneous fluids absorb more slowly.

I did a instruction thread on how to do it:

http://www.purrsinourhearts.co.uk/index.php/topic,6964.0.html
Title: Re: It's Bad News
Post by: Janeyk on February 04, 2009, 07:33:30 AM: Vey pleased that Misty is eating well :)
Schui won't eat renal food but my vet said eating is more important and we agree quality of life than quantity, Schui eats what he wants but is a happy boy.
Title: Re: It's Bad News
Post by: Stuart on February 04, 2009, 18:33:58 PM: Thanks Peeps, Misty is still eating and drinking like a horse, I am getting OH to give him his steroid pill's, because I dont think he likes the taste :P
and he was starting to sulk with Me when I gave them >:( Still chews his Fortekor though :Luv:

about the sub-Q's Philip, the short answer would have to be no, I lost my Hamish through CRF (it was very well advanced, & I still regret/blame myself
for not noticing the sign's :( ) Hamish did go into the vet's and was immediatley put on a drip for 24 hrs, which did help, but he lost all the fluids within
1 - 2 days, the vet did mention about doing sub-Q's at home, but due to his age (17) and the fact I knew he would not like being prodded and poked
with needles, if Hamish had been younger though??

But it is the same with MIsty, He'll nearly be 18, and I don't want to start poking him with needles either, also on top of His CRF he has Cancer too, It
has been a hard decision, but I dont want to prolong his life as the CRF / Cancer progresses.

at the end of the day He has reached a very respectable age

for now misty is eating and is happy, and I'm just taking/treasuring each day as it comes
Title: Re: It's Bad News
Post by: Liz on February 04, 2009, 18:49:52 PM: Stuart am so glad Misty is being a good boy and now getting OH to be the dreaded pill person - I tend to do the same then they love me!

I think your attitude is positive and one day at time is the right way to go so no pressure on either of you and you enjoy each others company

I think if and when he ie ready he will let you know they are remarkable animals and ours always seem to beat the vets prognosis as I'm sure under your care misty will to :hug:
Title: Re: It's Bad News
Post by: Philip on February 04, 2009, 21:47:46 PM: Stuart.

Please don't beat yourself up about Hamish. The signs are very difficult sometimes to see and a cat with only 25 % kidney function will still look and act normally. I found out Tiffy had CRF by a chance blood test.

I respect your decisions and feelings with Misty and as someone who has been through this understand how you feel.

Tiffy didnt mind the needles so it did make things easier. He was 17 when I first started giving subcutaneous fluids. You have to do what you feel is right as you know Misty better than anyone.

I hope he continues to eat. I know what an emotional rollercoaster this is for you.

Anything you want to ask me about CRF please let me know.

Take care.
Title: Re: It's Bad News
Post by: Stuart on February 05, 2009, 00:46:10 AM: Thanks Liz :shy:

and Thanks Philip, I was also annoyed with my old vet's, so much so I left them >:( the first thing I noticed was Hamish weeing in strange
places, I didn't really notice Him drinking more because for over 10 years I had left the cold tap trickling in the bath, and thats where they
both drank from, that has changed now so i can keep an eye on Mistys water intake
Hamish had inhouse blood tests done by the vets about a year previous to the weeing problems, I remember the vet saying something about
slightly raised creatine, nothing to worry about just now, but we'll keep an eye on it.
anyway when I went in with Hamish's wee problem I was pretty hacked off to discover they had lost his previous results >:( it was only 10
days after that I lost Him :'(

Thanks again Philip :shy:
Title: Re: It's Bad News
Post by: Pinkbear (Julie) on February 05, 2009, 00:54:21 AM: Stuart

I am so sorry for your troubles. :hug: :hug: They are only lent to us for a short while... :Luv: :'(

Try to enjoy whatever is left and do try not to worry or reflect on past mistakes however painful. :hug: Throw caution to the wind and think about quality as much as qauntity. If Misty is enjoying junk food, well why the heavens not! Whatever she fancies as far as I'm concerned - my granny had bowel cancer and went to her grave puffing on a ciggie saying "It's too late now - knickers to the doctors!" :evillaugh:

I had exactly 6 hours warning that my bridge babe Tigger had chronic CRF after he broke his leg as he slipped down two steps coming downstairs. He had completely shattered his femur. The failing kidneys had weakened his bones, there was no hope and he had to be PTS later that day. I truly don't know whether it's worse to have the time to say goodbye or to have it sudden they way I did, but one thing is for sure you cannot stop it so cherish and enjoy what's left. :briggin: :hug: :hug:
Title: Re: It's Bad News
Post by: Maddiesmum on February 05, 2009, 06:41:39 AM: I can only echo what the others say, do what you think is right by your cat, you know him. Wishing you lots of happy days together :hug:
Title: Re: It's Bad News
Post by: alisonandarchie on February 05, 2009, 22:59:50 PM: Its good to hear Misty is eating ;D
Title: Re: It's Bad News - but for just now He's improved greatly
Post by: Stuart on February 09, 2009, 21:08:11 PM: thanks folks, just a wee update that Misty is still doing fine, and is more or less back to the way he was before he stopped eating
I Got His cat treats from america today, and he is going daft for them :Luv: I'll try to get it on film ;)
Title: Re: It's Bad News - but for now Misty's doing well
Post by: Christine (Blip) on February 09, 2009, 21:10:51 PM: Attaboy, Misty :hug:
Title: Re: It's Bad News - but for now Misty's doing well
Post by: MrsR on February 09, 2009, 21:18:41 PM: Awwww great news.

Sorry for my lack of posts to you and Misty but I hope you understand its been hard for me to read some of the posts as its so close to home for me with my recent losses but I am thinking of you both always x
Title: Re: It's Bad News - but for now Misty's doing well
Post by: Janeyk on February 09, 2009, 21:28:24 PM: :) That's great news, well done Misty xx
Title: Re: It's Bad News - but for now Misty's doing well
Post by: bonnielass on February 09, 2009, 21:36:37 PM: Stuart thats fantastic ;D im so glad hes almost back to normal and im sure you must be feeling just a tad more relaxed now and not so stressed,will look forward to the photo,s :hug: :hug: :hug:
Title: Re: It's Bad News - but for now Misty's doing well
Post by: ChrisB on February 09, 2009, 22:25:37 PM: Great news - good boy Misty.
Title: Re: It's Bad News - but for now Misty's doing well
Post by: clarenmax on February 09, 2009, 22:45:27 PM: That is good news hun :hug: :) :Luv2:
Title: Re: It's Bad News - but for now Misty's doing well
Post by: pappilon on February 09, 2009, 23:04:21 PM: That is great news, :hug: :hug: for you and Misty.
Title: Re: It's Bad News - but for now Misty's doing well
Post by: Maddiesmum on February 10, 2009, 06:50:59 AM: WTG Misty keep it up :Luv2:
Title: Re: It's Bad News - but for now Misty's doing well
Post by: Desley (booktigger) on February 10, 2009, 07:47:40 AM: I am glad he is doing so well.
Title: Re: It's Bad News - but for now Misty's doing well
Post by: Stuart on February 17, 2009, 20:45:39 PM: Thanks again fellow Purrs ppl :) and yes Bonnielass, your right, I have been feeling more stress free since Misty started eating again ;D

Just thought I'd give you all a wee update, Misty is still doing fine although He doesn't seem to be putting anymore weight on and
I can still feel his spine, But He is being Misty, Cleaning Himself quite regular too and not even throwing up any furball's, infact He has
not been sick in ages :wow:

only thing I have not been happy about is the photo quality with my Camera, it's not so much the quality, it's maybe more lack of
knowledge and why the flash keep's going off and making it look as though He's a cat lantern >:(
there was a new member Nigel who joined recently on purr's and he had a link to photo's of His two furbabes, I was so impressed
by them :wow: that I got in touch, and he was more than helpfull (THANK'S AGAIN)

it did mean buying a new SLR Camera, but it has fairly improved my photografic skill's :evillaugh:
what do you People think ??

http://i223.photobucket.com/albums/dd228/culnara/MrMisty-1.jpg

no more glowing eye's :wow: although the colour's a wee bit yellow from bedroom light :shify:
hopefull get some more taken in daylight which should improve lighting colour ;)
Title: Re: It's Bad News - but for now Misty's doing well
Post by: Janeyk on February 17, 2009, 20:54:05 PM: well done dear Misty, keep it up kitty :hug:

lovely photo Stuart :Luv2:
Title: Re: It's Bad News - but for now Misty's doing well
Post by: Liz on February 17, 2009, 20:56:44 PM: Stuart he is looking very well and all credit to you and your OH the pill giver, I think once we relax they tend to feel better and then play bait the human!
:rofl:
Title: Re: It's Bad News - but for now Misty's doing well
Post by: bonnielass on February 17, 2009, 21:48:03 PM: Its so good that your feeling more relaxed as Misty will also be more so as he wont be picking up on your stress,the photo is beautiful ,you have every right to be proud of him :Luv: and i know we all look forward to plenty more of him in the future,so keep up the good vibes and :hug: :hug: to all
Title: Re: It's Bad News - but for now Misty's doing well
Post by: ems on February 17, 2009, 21:51:36 PM: Oh Stuart what a beautiful photo :Luv:

Well done Misty! :Luv:
Title: Re: It's Bad News - but for now Misty's doing well
Post by: Gill (sneakiefeline) on February 17, 2009, 23:21:52 PM: Thats a stunning picture Stuart and Misty is looking so well ;D

I agree that the more relaxed you are the better it is for the cats but how to get relaxed is another thing altogether!

You and OH are obviously doing really well for Misty :hug:
Title: Re: It's Bad News - but for now Misty's doing well
Post by: Christine (Blip) on February 18, 2009, 13:24:18 PM: Patrick Demarchelier, eat your heart out :evillaugh:

Good to see wee Misty looking so well, Stuart :)
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Post by: swampmaxmum on February 18, 2009, 19:30:47 PM: He's looking really good Stuart and I love that choclit nose ;D I hope he feels well for ages to come still. That's a lovely photo, so great to have his eyes so clear and expressive and no "alien glow" to them like with normal cameras. You'll have to take a few more for us all.
Title: Re: It's Bad News - but for now Misty's doing well
Post by: Stuart on February 22, 2009, 14:44:16 PM: Here is a photo of Misty this Morning ( in His True Colours :evillaugh: )

(http://i223.photobucket.com/albums/dd228/culnara/Misty22ndfeb.jpg)

The past couple of days were not so good :( on thursday and friday he didn't eat a lot, and was sick during the early
hours on saturday, but he has bounced back a bit now and is eating better.
I had been clearing out some cupboards and had an empty box which Misty soon commandeered :Luv:

(http://i223.photobucket.com/albums/dd228/culnara/mistybox.jpg)

so the box is in the spare bedroom and I made the journey into the attic to get his old bed, will just have to wait and
see how long it is before he stops using them again :innocent: :tired:
Title: Re: It's Bad News - but for now Misty's doing well
Post by: Janeyk on February 22, 2009, 15:05:51 PM: Misty is just adorable Stuart :Luv2:
Title: Re: It's Bad News - but for now Misty's doing well
Post by: ChrisB on February 22, 2009, 21:04:01 PM: Lovely pics of the gorgeous Misty, XX
Title: Re: It's Bad News - but for now Misty's doing well
Post by: Baggy on February 25, 2009, 22:48:37 PM: Good to see that Misty has perked up again and is keeping you running round after him... :naughty:
Title: Re: It's Bad News - but for now Misty's doing well
Post by: Gill (sneakiefeline) on February 25, 2009, 22:55:03 PM: i love misty and thats exactly the colour that kocka was, although hsave no pictures of her with the right colour.....sigh

so pleased misty is doing well :hug:
Title: Re: It's Bad News - but for now Misty's doing well
Post by: clarenmax on February 26, 2009, 08:58:17 AM: Lovely pics Stuart, and I'm glad he's picked up again and is a bit brighter :Luv2:
Title: Re: It's Bad News - but for now Misty's doing well
Post by: Rosella moggy on February 26, 2009, 09:24:22 AM: Misty is one very beautiful boy Stuart and so glad to hear he has perked up a little.
Title: Re: It's Bad News - but for now Misty's doing well
Post by: Stuart on March 13, 2009, 10:54:20 AM: was doing a bit of spring cleaning yesterday, and as per usual Misty was never far away from the action
sitting on the bed when your trying to remove the sheets and catching them ( you all know the procedure :evillaugh: )
eventually got the mattress up ready for turning, and misty decided he hadn't done his mountaineering trick for a while :tired:
here's some piccys :)

It's quite nice up Here

(http://i223.photobucket.com/albums/dd228/culnara/01.jpg)

Hello down there

(http://i223.photobucket.com/albums/dd228/culnara/02-2.jpg)

Eh!! Whats she up to??

(http://i223.photobucket.com/albums/dd228/culnara/04.jpg)

Aww No, Not the Hoover, I hate the Hoover

(http://i223.photobucket.com/albums/dd228/culnara/05.jpg)

Grrrrr, I Really hate the Hoover, It's Clean Enough !! You Can stop Now !! ffs

(http://i223.photobucket.com/albums/dd228/culnara/03.jpg)

Misty has been slowing down on the food intake over the last couple of days, just hope He's going through a fussy stage :scared:
Going down to Tesco's today to see if there is something else I can tempt him with
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Post by: CC & The Pussycat Guys & Dolls on March 13, 2009, 10:56:36 AM: Aww hello Mr Misty, glad to see your still feeling fit and young :hug:
Title: Re: It's Bad News - but for now Misty's doing well
Post by: clarenmax on March 13, 2009, 11:18:27 AM: Awwwww, Misty the mountaineer :Luv2: :Luv2: :Luv2:
Title: Re: It's Bad News - but for now Misty's doing well
Post by: Christine (Blip) on March 13, 2009, 11:48:34 AM: He's certainly enjoying the bed making :) Let us know about the food - he might just fancy a change.
Title: Re: It's Bad News - but for now Misty's doing well
Post by: Topsy Turvey on March 13, 2009, 13:19:12 PM: Great pics. He certainly looks in good health :)
Title: Re: It's Bad News - but for now Misty's doing well
Post by: pappilon on March 13, 2009, 13:19:50 PM: Awww he is gorgeous and looking well. :Luv:
Title: Re: It's Bad News - but for now Misty's doing well
Post by: Liz on March 13, 2009, 16:47:00 PM: Stuart he is looking well and imagine getting the dreaded hoover out and keeping him awake - bad parents!

Just when you think you have the food sussed they change their minds - good shopping!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ;)
Title: Re: It's Bad News - but for now Misty's doing well
Post by: Gillian Harvey on March 13, 2009, 23:45:44 PM: Quote from: Stuart (Misty's Dad) on March 13, 2009, 10:54:20 AM
sitting on the bed when your trying to remove the sheets and catching them ( you all know the procedure :evillaugh: )

Misty has been slowing down on the food intake over the last couple of days, just hope He's going through a fussy stage :scared:
Going down to Tesco's today to see if there is something else I can tempt him with

Oh yes, I know that procedure well LOL! Joe is my star 'mothers little helper' in the bedmaking department :evillaugh:

Hope Misty is just being fussy - I'm sure you'll find something to tempt him :Luv2: Gorgeous pics of him further down this thread by the way :Luv2:
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Post by: Philip on March 14, 2009, 17:13:41 PM: Fantastic piccies...... :Luv:
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Post by: Janeyk on March 14, 2009, 20:32:45 PM: :Luv: ah, bless that Brave boy, hope his appetite picks up Stuart :hug:
Title: Re: It's Bad News - but for now Misty's doing well
Post by: Stuart on March 15, 2009, 11:54:30 AM: well went back to Tesco's and bought umpteen different variaties, quite a few were the good old "put on a plate, then put straight in the bin...sigh"
But we seem to have made a breakthrough, and He seem's to be eating reasonable amount's of Sheba Tender Terrine brands , at least two tins a day :)
watching Him Like a Hawk and keeping fingers crossed it continues
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Post by: Michelle (furbabystar) on March 15, 2009, 12:43:37 PM: Yipeeeee glad he seems to be eating something

*Well done Misty* :Luv2:
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Post by: Millys Mum on March 15, 2009, 18:49:55 PM: Quote from: Stuart (Misty's Dad) on March 15, 2009, 11:54:30 AM
well went back to Tesco's and bought umpteen different variaties, quite a few were the good old "put on a plate, then put straight in the bin...sigh"

I know the feeling stuart :hug: my others are acting dustbin for all of millys rejected offerings :(
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Post by: MrsR on March 20, 2009, 22:03:52 PM: How is Misty doing hun?
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Post by: Stuart on March 21, 2009, 16:59:20 PM: Mr Misty is doing fine at the mo :thanks: for asking MrsR :)
He's back eating like a horse :Luv:

only negative thing's I have noticed is He is weeing more
and have noticed the last couple of days, He is not so confident when it comes to jumping onto the Bed or settee
must be feeling a little weak in His hind quarters :scared: will keep an eye on that

Here's Mr Fluff Last night Hogging the Heater as usual :naughty:

(http://i223.photobucket.com/albums/dd228/culnara/mistyheathogger.jpg)
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Post by: Michelle (furbabystar) on March 21, 2009, 17:07:37 PM: Glad to hear he is doing well ......well done MR Misty :hug:
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Post by: Stuart on March 21, 2009, 17:10:24 PM: Thx Michelle :)
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Post by: MrsR on March 21, 2009, 17:10:31 PM: Glad Misty has a good appetite.

Maybe he is feeling a little stiff in the old joints like we all do some days - give Misty a leg rub from me :hug:
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Post by: Stuart on March 21, 2009, 17:21:47 PM: LoL MrsR, will do ;)
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Post by: Janeyk on March 21, 2009, 17:25:14 PM: He is a lovely boy :Luv2:
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Post by: Maddiesmum on March 21, 2009, 18:45:22 PM: :Luv2: :Luv:
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Post by: Stuart on March 31, 2009, 23:57:03 PM: Misty has really got worse these past four Day's :( I keep waiting for Him to return
to the way he was.. photos posted 13th march

He is still eating n drinking really well and looks happy in himself
but the main thing Ive noticed has been He's not jumping as well now and is really hesitant when attempting to do so
I don't know if this is arthritis related or something Else :scared: (He seem's weak)
He was clambering up to get onto bed's and settee (I lift Him up when I'm there)
But it has just been since yesterday I have observed Him doing the same when coming down (won't Jump :scared:)
will phone the vet tomorrow and see what she think's
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Post by: Bazsmum on April 01, 2009, 03:30:47 AM: Sending positive healing vibes for Misty and yourself, hope all is gonna be ok~~~~~~~~~ :hug:
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Post by: Janeyk on April 01, 2009, 07:14:42 AM: Hugs to Misty :hug:
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Post by: Desley (booktigger) on April 01, 2009, 07:45:04 AM: Fingers crossed the vet doesn't think it is anything too serious - it could be a potassium issue, that is common with CRF and can cause weak back legs, I think it is easily remedied though.
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Post by: bonnielass on April 01, 2009, 08:18:33 AM: thinking of you both and really hope the vet can come up with some solution,sending lots of positive vibes and hugs for you :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Liz on April 01, 2009, 08:24:18 AM: Lets hope its just the change in the weather all this sun is a complete change to the freezing temps from last week.

Now you need to build lots of steps and ramps so he can get access to all his fave places - you need a project don't you.

We have the extra steps around the place for Maverick our 3 legged hooligan and have found that Sweetie now pulls her self up on the throws on 2 of the couches - now they are well anchored and taped under the cushions so she still thinks she is doing it all by herself

Hope the vet can help out with what ever the issue all paws crossed here at the Clan Homestead for you and Misty :hug:
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Post by: MrsR on April 01, 2009, 11:41:53 AM: Sorry Misty doesn't seem to be perking up, let us know what the vet says and how Misty is today hunnie :hug:
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Post by: clarenmax on April 01, 2009, 13:42:39 PM: Fingers crossed for Misty :hug:
Title: Re: It's Bad News - but for now Misty's doing well
Post by: Stuart on April 02, 2009, 12:13:26 PM: On the way home from doing my Medical Yesterday, I went in by My vet's, and explained what's happening
They want to see Misty, so I'll be taking him through today (don't really want to take Him cause He gets in a right state
in the car sometimes ) But it has to be done :(

He still looks really happy and contented (doesn't seem to be phased one little bit) Still cleaning Himself and drinking plenty,
but His food intake is down a bit (only had 1 tin of Sheba yesterday) and some raw chicken breast

My main worry is His hind quarters (He seem's really weak) He is very slow when walking and very wobbly at times
will not jump down from anywhere, not even wee distances, Yesterday I observed him flop down/fall over twice :'(
He still goes to his litter tray no problem

I look back at my post's and this all seem's to have started on the 21st march and he's deteriorated from then onwards
I kept waiting for Him to improve :doh:

there are various step's placed about the house to aid His ascent and decent (when he feel's like using them....sigh)

Right now He is was curled up in front of His fire, I've just lifted Him onto the bed, and He's now
ermmmm....playing with his plush orangutan :shy:

appointment at the vet's for 2pm, I'll update when I get home
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Post by: Michelle (furbabystar) on April 02, 2009, 12:15:05 PM: Hope all goes well Stuart -

Will be thinking of you both xxxxx
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Post by: Dawn F on April 02, 2009, 12:16:05 PM: good luck Stuart
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Post by: MrsR on April 02, 2009, 12:53:14 PM: Good luck x
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Post by: Gillian Harvey on April 02, 2009, 13:21:15 PM: Hope Misty is ok :hug: Low potassium can cause that back leg weakness, I think there is something they can have for that.
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Post by: Stuart on April 02, 2009, 15:12:53 PM: Misty had a thorough check and everything is fine Temp,Heart etc.etc

vet watched Him walking (very unsteady in His hind quarters) she ruled out arthritis because He's not moving like an arthritic cat
and guesses that the Lymphosarcoma may be progressing into His spine :'(

I have been told to double the dose of steroids for the next week (He hates them) and see how He goes from there
if there is an improvement, to gradually lower the dose again

He was Sick in His carrier on the way home :( but as soon as i let him out He made a B-line for food and ate about half :Luv:

I forgot to mention the Potassium :doh:
will see how He gets on over the next few days :(
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Post by: Liz on April 02, 2009, 15:41:40 PM: Stuart might be worth getting the vet to give a long lasting steroid injection rather than trying to tablet him

We used to get them for Gracie with her tumour and for Gem to - injections just seem less hassle thatn tablets

Lets hope he improves and we have all paws crossed here :hug:
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Post by: Stuart on April 02, 2009, 15:46:34 PM: I did mention the injection Liz, but vet said we'll see how he gets on with double dose as they helped Him first time round
this is a different vet than I usually get ( She's only in her 20's I'd say )
Much prefer the older one for some reason
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Post by: Janeyk on April 02, 2009, 16:32:31 PM: Our Schui did very well on long acting steroid injections he had them for the first 2 years we had him and didn't have many they lasted a good 6 months in his system initially and made his life much better. I suppose your vet has her reasons why she is trying this route though Stuart, :hug:
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Post by: Michelle (furbabystar) on April 02, 2009, 18:41:25 PM: Sending You both lots of love xxx

Hope the double doze of steroids will make him feel better x
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Post by: Christine (Blip) on April 02, 2009, 18:46:58 PM: Thinking of Misty and hoping that the extra steroids help :hug:
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Post by: Debsymiller (Rufus' mum) on April 02, 2009, 19:18:32 PM: Sending serious vibes :hug:
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Post by: Gill (sneakiefeline) on April 02, 2009, 19:50:32 PM: Sending lots of good wishes to Misty :hug:
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Post by: Baggy on April 02, 2009, 19:51:39 PM: Sending healing vibes to you both - will your OH be on double tablet duty? :hug:
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Post by: Stuart on April 03, 2009, 00:45:59 AM: Quote from: Baggy on April 02, 2009, 19:51:39 PM
will your OH be on double tablet duty? :hug:

of course :sneaky: but she has been letting me down recently, cause I sometimes find them on the carpet :doh:
Like I say Misty doesn't like them :P

Thank you all for the vibes :shy:
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Post by: Janeyk on April 03, 2009, 07:28:31 AM: How is Misty this morning?
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Post by: Desley (booktigger) on April 03, 2009, 07:57:16 AM: Fingers crossed the steroids help.
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Post by: Tiggerman on April 03, 2009, 07:58:52 AM: Hope all goes well.
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Post by: CarolM (Wendolene) on April 03, 2009, 14:38:40 PM: Sending lots of positive vibes for Misty and :hug: :hug: for you and yours.
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Post by: Bazsmum on April 03, 2009, 14:49:53 PM: :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Stuart on April 03, 2009, 14:53:34 PM: THX Guy's :shy:
Misty is not so good today "He seem's worse" and has fallen over quite a lot :'(
was up quite a few times during the night so he could go for a wander and use his tray
It's strange He was moving a lot better during the night ( did not fall ) but like I say, this
morning He seem's worse

will keep you all updated, Just Hope He start's to improve soon :scared:
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Post by: MrsR on April 03, 2009, 14:55:19 PM: Awwwww Misty, sending hugs your way :hug:
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Post by: Stuart on April 03, 2009, 15:09:52 PM: Sorry forgot to add, He still seem's happy and is still eating and drinking as well as cleaning Himself :shy:
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Post by: Maddiesmum on April 03, 2009, 15:24:11 PM: Aw so sorry to hear about Misty, fingers crossed he is soon feeling much much better :hug:
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Post by: ChrisB on April 03, 2009, 21:21:34 PM: Stuart, do hope that Misty is feeling a bit better this evening, X
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Post by: bonnielass on April 03, 2009, 22:51:03 PM: Hi Stuart, im sorry to hear Misty is not doing very well :( hopefully the double dose will help him, sending lots of positive vibes for him and :hug: for you
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Post by: pappilon on April 03, 2009, 23:15:40 PM: Sending positive vibes for Misty, i do hope he feels a bit better tomorrow. :hug:
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Post by: Desley (booktigger) on April 04, 2009, 09:06:19 AM: Fingers crossed the tabs kick in soon - when is he due bloods?
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Post by: Stuart on April 04, 2009, 09:25:46 AM: I have been up with Misty since 4:30 as he woke me up trying to get onto the lowest step for getting back onto the bed
Misty has virtually lost the use of His Back legs now :'(
He has been to the toilet about 8 times today and I had to wash Him because He can no longer crouch
He still Looks really Healthy and is a Good weight, still eating and drinking lots

I really hoped the steroids would have kicked in by now, but It feels like it's getting close to the end of the road
It tears me up inside just watching Him try to stand, I feel like phoning the vet to come round and end it :'(

I Dont know what to do
This is Breaking My Heart :'( :'(
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Post by: Janeyk on April 04, 2009, 09:30:57 AM: Stuart, Schui was the same so I know exactly where you're coming from - remember me posting he suddenly stopped being able to climb up? Sounds good that Misty is still a good weight, eating and seems ok on himself though hugs to Misty :hug:
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Post by: Mark on April 04, 2009, 09:33:24 AM: Sorry Stuart - I can't offer any advice other than you know Misty better than any one and wouldn't let him suffer. :hug:
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Post by: bonnielass on April 04, 2009, 09:39:17 AM: Im sorry there is no improvement in Misty, is there any way you could have a chat with your own regular vet, not the one who has doubled his dose, and maybe ask about the injection instead.then take it from there , :hug:
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Post by: Stuart on April 04, 2009, 10:40:55 AM: The vet has just left
Misty has been given the steroid injection, vet said if it is going to improve Him, it will be in the next 24/48 hrs
if not The decision will have to be made, I cant watch him suffering :'(
It's so damned annoying/hard and I know it's probably the steroid Pill's, But He's eating and Drinking Really well
and Misty is Looking Just like He alway's did (He's still Misty) it's Just that His back end has gone
If He was Looking Ill and Not eating or Drinking, it would be a whole lot simpler :(

Hoping for a Miracle
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Post by: Christine (Blip) on April 04, 2009, 10:56:30 AM: I'm hoping with you, Stuart, and thinking of you and Misty :hug:
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Post by: Stuart on April 04, 2009, 11:18:29 AM: I keep lifting Him to places where I think He wants to go
We sat out on the Balcony for twenty minutes getting some sun, where He started cleaning Himself
Although very wobbley, He walk's not to bad on the carpet, but in the Kitchen where His litter tray is
It's laminate flooring and he cannot get a grip on the floor, ends up sliding :(

here is a photo taken at 11 o'clock

http://i223.photobucket.com/albums/dd228/culnara/Misty4-4-09.jpg

edit: have now moved His litter tray into the living room
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Post by: CC & The Pussycat Guys & Dolls on April 04, 2009, 11:19:22 AM: Big :hug: for Misty, hoping he can improve, come on Mr Misty you can do it

:ahh:
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Post by: Janeyk on April 04, 2009, 11:34:38 AM: :hug: loads of positive vibes for dear Misty xx
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Post by: CarolM (Wendolene) on April 04, 2009, 12:37:13 PM: Quote from: Stuart (Misty's Dad) on April 04, 2009, 10:40:55 AM

Hoping for a Miracle

I second that :wish: Its so heartbreaking watching your beloved furbaby suffer and daft as it may seem it makes it even worse when you can see they still have the will to live. I hope the injection kicks in soon :hug:
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Post by: Baggy on April 04, 2009, 13:25:25 PM: Really hope the injection works for him - he looks so bright and alert in the picture :hug:
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Post by: Bazsmum on April 04, 2009, 17:20:22 PM: Really hoping the jab will help him strengthen up....sending positive vibes Stuart~~~~~~ :hug:

Had to post yer pic of handsome Misty here.....

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Post by: Millys Mum on April 04, 2009, 19:46:58 PM: I hope he improves Stuart, i feel for you right now having had the same awful 24hrs your going through :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Stuart on April 04, 2009, 21:30:38 PM: Thank You Guy's
and Thank You Bazsmum for putting up Misty pic properly :shy:
Sorry Desley, Misty's bloods were done in January this year, that's when He was diagnosed with the Lymphosarcoma :'(
Misty has eaten about 3 tin's of Sheba today plus loads of Pit'r Pat candy for cats (He loves them)

JaneyK, did Schui wee a lot after the steroid injection ?? Misty was going every 10 minutes after his, I lost count of
how many times He went today, and I know He wasn't drinking enough to replace what He's got rid of :(
for just now Misty is fast asleep, snoring on top of the bed (I've just discovered He'd wee'd on it during the night :( )
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Post by: CC & The Pussycat Guys & Dolls on April 04, 2009, 21:48:07 PM: Stu my Ollie has the steriod jabs and he doesnt wee a lot after, just normal of what Ive noticed. Although Janeys cat was older as is Misty :shy:
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Post by: Janeyk on April 05, 2009, 08:14:30 AM: Quote from: Stuart (Misty's Dad) on April 04, 2009, 21:30:38 PM
Thank You Guy's
and Thank You Bazsmum for putting up Misty pic properly :shy:
Sorry Desley, Misty's bloods were done in January this year, that's when He was diagnosed with the Lymphosarcoma :'(
Misty has eaten about 3 tin's of Sheba today plus loads of Pit'r Pat candy for cats (He loves them)

JaneyK, did Schui wee a lot after the steroid injection ?? Misty was going every 10 minutes after his, I lost count of
how many times He went today, and I know He wasn't drinking enough to replace what He's got rid of :(
for just now Misty is fast asleep, snoring on top of the bed (I've just discovered He'd wee'd on it during the night :( )

Yes Stuart he did, so many things happened to Schui which I just didn't post on here thankfully I was there to see to him, I can so identify with what you are going through right now :hug: to you and Misty. How is he this morning?
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Post by: Desley (booktigger) on April 05, 2009, 11:08:59 AM: Steroids can make them wee more, which is why they should be used with caution on CRF cats, as they can find it hard enough to keep themselves hydrated anyway - I refused them with Rosie, as she weed so much without them. I do hope they can help his legs, but it would be interesting to have his bloods repeated in case it is a potassium issue, as I am sure they can have an injection for that.
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Post by: swampmaxmum on April 05, 2009, 12:00:37 PM: Lots of love, positive vibes and purrs for Misty :hug:

the tray near him is a good idea. Steroids often make them wee more, but not every few minutes (our record here is every hour or 1 1/2 hrs). Have you got any Cystease you could try as it sounds like a bit of cystitis on top? It seems to work by easing the irritation in the bladder. My vet gave me a potassium supplement for Swampy, which seems to perk cats up a bit - Kaminox. Not cheap but it has amino acids and iron as well and is easy to give (1ml dropper).
Title: Re: It's Bad News - UPDATE: Healing Vibes Needed For Misty
Post by: Stuart on April 05, 2009, 13:28:02 PM: I'm afraid Misty has worsened overnight, and has now lost all mobility :'(
and I'm not sure but I think He may have lost His Bladder and Bowel control, OH has got some pad's from the Hospital
This is so Hard Because apart from this He IS Still Misty, It was straight forward when Hamish had to go, He Looked ill
and Unhappy, whereas Misty is still eating and Drinking, Purring and Bright.
But I now feel we have came to the end of Our Journey together :'(

when I Initially spoke to the vet over the phone, He was pretty downbeat and said there was nothing else We could do
( this vet is the owner of the practice, a Mr Brain) I Did mention to Him about the Potassium, But again, He thinks it is the
Cancer taking a hold as Lymphosarcoma is quite aggressive. It was only when I said that Shirley ( My Vet ) had Mentioned
the steroid injection as a last resort that I could hear Him looking through Notes, came back on the phone and said:
" Yes, we could try that "
He seemed a bit annoyed when I said I was wanting a call out, as I did not want to stress Misty by travelling in the car
He said "If only you'd phoned earlier, I'm not long back from Fraserburgh " >:(

It doesn't look as though it's worked :'(

I have never had to give Misty a Proper wash in all the years Ive had Him, but the state He is in atm leaves me with no
alternative, Just glad that OH is not working today, I'm away down to Tescos for some baby shampoo

Strangely, although I have My Moments :'( I seem to be accepting the situation for now ( Until I have to call the Vet :'( )
Misty has had CRF for over a year and a half and the cancer since January, I feel Blessed that I have had this Extra time to spoil
Him even more since the CRF and that I have been Home these past 4 Months to look after Him

Looking Back as with Hamish, He's had a Brilliant Life, Just sad it has to end this way
I wished He could have Made it to His 18th, but that is looking very unlikely at the Moment :'(
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Post by: CC & The Pussycat Guys & Dolls on April 05, 2009, 13:34:04 PM: Aww Stuart dont know what to say :'(

You know Misty better than any of us and Im sure you know whats best for him, just sad it has come to this.

:hug:
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Post by: Bazsmum on April 05, 2009, 13:35:11 PM: Oh Stuart.... :care:

What an awful time for you but I know that you have and are doing the best you possibly can for darling Misty..... :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Philip on April 05, 2009, 13:35:32 PM: I'm very sorry to hear this. I know what you are going through.

Take care :hug:
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Post by: pappilon on April 05, 2009, 14:22:46 PM: Aww Staurt, my heart goes out to you and i know how you feeling. In last two years i lost DD and Jim to cancer and now Boy having treatments for Lymphoma. When he was diagnosed with Lymphoma i was told in his condition the steroids will only work with chemotherapy, but its different in every case . :(
You are doing your best for Misty and i am sure he knows how much he is loved. Thinking of you and Misty. :hug: :hug:
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Post by: JackSpratt on April 05, 2009, 15:25:21 PM: I'm so sorry things are worsening for Misty, Stuart. It's difficult to assess quality of life sometimes, but you know Misty well and will always do what's best for him, regardless of your feelings.

I hope the injection does help even if it isn't looking likely. :hug:
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Post by: Janeyk on April 05, 2009, 16:00:57 PM: Stuart having recently been through all you are right now I can understand exactly, tons of hugs and be strong for Misty :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Michelle (furbabystar) on April 05, 2009, 16:30:48 PM: Oh No :hug:

I don't know what to say Stuart.....But I know You will do what is best for Misty.

Misty and Milly have both touched my heart because of Isseys having the dreaded Lymphoma too.....damm this bloody Cancer !!!!!!

Please give Misty a loving kiss from Me
and lots of love to You Stuart xxxx
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Post by: Baggy on April 05, 2009, 17:08:27 PM: Poor Misty man, was very much hoping he would have improved. Still have everything crossed and know you will do what is best for him :hug:.
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Post by: Christine (Blip) on April 05, 2009, 17:09:16 PM: You'll do the best for Misty, as you always have done throughout his wonderful life with you. My thoughts are with you :hug:
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Post by: Tiggy's Mum on April 05, 2009, 17:13:27 PM: Thinking of you and Misty :hug:
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Post by: Mollyrock on April 05, 2009, 17:51:53 PM: Aw, thinking of you both. Heartbreaking story.
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Post by: Gillian Harvey on April 05, 2009, 17:59:07 PM: I'm so sorry Misty is worsening Stu, sending some positive vibes for him, and you :hug:
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Post by: MrsR on April 05, 2009, 18:33:33 PM: Oh Stuart :hug: I wish I could say something that would make things better. :hug:

Thinking of you and Misty :hug:
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Post by: Desley (booktigger) on April 05, 2009, 19:33:46 PM: I do hope that the jab can perk him up, it is so hard when they seem fine in themselves, but part of their body has given up. Big hugs to you, you will do right by him and we are all here for you.
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Post by: Bazsmum on April 05, 2009, 23:26:50 PM: You okay Stuart? :grouphug:
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Post by: Liz on April 06, 2009, 08:42:43 AM: Stuart :hug: to you and your OH and chin tickles for Misty

Hope you are all still hanging in there
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Post by: MrsR on April 06, 2009, 09:03:48 AM: Wondering how you guys are doing this morning? :hug:
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Post by: Maddiesmum on April 06, 2009, 10:27:58 AM: So sorry to hear Misty isn't doing too well. Sending you loving hugs and vibes from us :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Michelle (furbabystar) on April 06, 2009, 11:43:40 AM: How is the little man this morning Stuart ?

Sending you both lots of love xxx
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Post by: sheryl on April 06, 2009, 11:58:39 AM: Thinking of you and Misty Stuart :hug: :hug: :hug:

Love and huggles to you both xxx
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Post by: Stuart on April 06, 2009, 15:22:45 PM: I slept with Misty in The Living room again Last night
He had deteriorated quite a lot during the early hours, and had stopped eating

A really strange thing happened around 3am this morning, (I swear this is True)
I was watching Misty Sleeping in front of the fire, and out of the corner of my eye, I could have sworn
I saw a Black Cat creep through the gap of the Living room door, but when I looked Over, there was
nothing there?? All that came into my head was that Hamish had been sent down to Collect Misty.

I’m Sorry I can’t type anymore

Misty went to the Bridge at 2:25pm today
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Post by: Gillian Harvey on April 06, 2009, 15:33:47 PM: Oh Stuart, I'm so sorry :hug: its some comfort that Hamish came to look after him, RIP Misty :RIP:
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Post by: CarolM (Wendolene) on April 06, 2009, 15:38:24 PM: Oh Stuart, I'm so sorry and know how you must be feeling :hug: :hug: I'm glad Misty had Hamish to guide him to the bridge. Thinking of you.
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Post by: clarenmax on April 06, 2009, 15:44:38 PM: I'm so sorry hunnie :hug: :hug: :hug:

RIP darling Misty :'(
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Post by: sheryl on April 06, 2009, 15:50:02 PM: Oh Stuart Hun I am so sorry - :hug:

RIP sweet Misty - play hard at the Bridge. Forever in your Daddies heart xxx
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Post by: Christine (Blip) on April 06, 2009, 16:16:50 PM: I am so sorry for your loss, Stuart. My thoughts are with you :hug:
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Post by: Mollyrock on April 06, 2009, 16:20:24 PM: Truly sorry for your loss. So heartbreaking.
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Post by: Janeyk on April 06, 2009, 16:33:26 PM: oh dear, I am sad to have read this :'( So very sorry Stuart, Misty was such a beautiful boy who will be sorely missed :hug:

Dear Hamish will have taken Misty to Rainbow Bridge now and he will be at peace :hug:

Godbless Misty xx
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Post by: Mark on April 06, 2009, 16:34:27 PM: Sorry Stuart - we know how much you loved Misty and did what you had to for his sake :hug:

We are all here for you.

RIP Misty :(
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Post by: JackSpratt on April 06, 2009, 16:41:34 PM: I'm so sorry, Stuart. :(

RIP Misty, you were extremely loved and you'll be missed a huge amount.
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Post by: Liz on April 06, 2009, 16:47:24 PM: Stuart so sorry for your loss

Its the hardest thing we do for us to let them go and be free of pain

Only ever borrowed never owned but always a pawprint in your heart

:hug:Liz, Robin and the Clan
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Post by: Michelle (furbabystar) on April 06, 2009, 17:30:16 PM: Quote from: Stuart (Misty's Dad) on April 06, 2009, 15:22:45 PM
A really strange thing happened around 3am this morning, (I swear this is True)
I was watching Misty Sleeping in front of the fire, and out of the corner of my eye, I could have sworn
I saw a Black Cat creep through the gap of the Living room door, but when I looked Over, there was
nothing there?? All that came into my head was that Hamish had been sent down to Collect Misty.

I don't think its strange Stuart and I 100% believe it happened......
Well done Hamish :Luv2:

Stuart,
My heart really goes out to You....I am so sorry for your loss xx
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Post by: Gill (sneakiefeline) on April 06, 2009, 17:36:40 PM: Oh Stuart I am so sorry, just dont know what to say :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: MrsR on April 06, 2009, 17:38:59 PM: Stuart hunnie I am so sorry for your loss :hug:

Sounds like Hamish definatly came down for Misty hunnie.

RIP Misty play hard on the bridge x
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Post by: Rosella moggy on April 06, 2009, 17:50:19 PM: Am sending you a warm hug Stuart :hug:. I am so very very sorry. Misty was a very beautiful and much loved pud. He knew you did everything you could to make him comfortable and were brave enough to do the very kindest thing when it was needed.

RIP Misty :'(
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Post by: pappilon on April 06, 2009, 18:11:23 PM: I am so sorry Stuart, my thoughts are with you and your OH. :hug:

RIP beautiful Misty. :'(
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Post by: Teresa Pawcats on April 06, 2009, 19:25:07 PM: So very sorry Stuart :hug:
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Post by: bonnielass on April 06, 2009, 19:39:05 PM: Just caught up with this Stuart, im so very sorry to hear about Misty :(, it must have been very hard for you and your OH and im sending all my sympathy to you both at this sad time, and yes i do believe that Hamish came down to fetch him to the Bridge :Luv: so now hes safe and well with his brother and all the other little furbabes and he will always like Hamish live on in your heart :hug:
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Post by: Baggy on April 06, 2009, 19:55:05 PM: Am so sorry Stuart, hugs to you and your partner. Misty will know how much you loved him and you did everything you could to give him a fantastic life. :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Kittybabe (Ruth) on April 06, 2009, 20:02:36 PM: So sorry Stu x
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Post by: ems on April 06, 2009, 20:06:42 PM: Oh Stuart am so very sorry to read this :(

RIP Misty, you knew how much you were loved. And what a clever boy Hamish :Luv:
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Post by: Sam (Fussy_Furball) on April 06, 2009, 20:13:58 PM: Stu so sorry :hug: I've only just caught up with all the news on Misty and am heartbroken to see I've joined this thread too late. :'(

I hope you don't mind but I've amended your thread title.

Take care hun :hug:

RIP Misty xxx
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Post by: Beth on April 06, 2009, 20:27:25 PM: So sorry to read this. :'( :hug:
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Post by: Tiggy's Mum on April 06, 2009, 20:47:27 PM: :hug: RIP Misty

So sorry to hear this, he will indeed be safe and sound at the Bridge by now, reunited with Hamish and waiting for his Mum & Dad to collect him xx You know that we are all here for you over the coming days, weeks and months :hug:
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Post by: Maddiesmum on April 06, 2009, 21:30:30 PM: I am so so sorry to read this Stuart. I am sure it was Hamish coming to help him on his way. You loved and cared for him and he will know that. He will be forever in your heart and you in his .RIP Misty :hug:
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Post by: Philip on April 06, 2009, 21:39:04 PM: I'm very saddened and sorry to hear about Misty.

You did everything you could and Misty knew he had a fantastic dad.

You and Misty are in my thoughts and prayers.

You could just tell in you're posts what a special bond you both had.

Take care and I hope one day, you can think fondly of the memories and the special relationship you had with Misty.

:hug:
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Post by: Kay and Penny on April 06, 2009, 22:38:49 PM: Hamish and Misty - together again and waiting for you at the Bridge

but still in your heart until that day
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Post by: swampmaxmum on April 06, 2009, 23:01:21 PM: Stuart, just sending you lots of love and sympathy for the loss of your special little Misty. Forever with your beloved Hamish and forever in your heart and soul. RIP little Misty. :hug:
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Post by: Sheli_80 on April 06, 2009, 23:24:29 PM: So sorry to hear about Misty Stuart.

Sending loads of hugs and sympathy.
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Post by: Bazsmum on April 07, 2009, 02:42:42 AM: So sorry to hear the sad news.....Im sure that Hamish did come down for his pal! :hug: :hug: :hug:

RIP Sweet Misty x
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Post by: Desley (booktigger) on April 07, 2009, 07:23:54 AM: I am so very sorry to hear this, you gave him every chance and he had a wonderful life with you and is now reunited with his brother. RIP little one
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Post by: MrsR on April 07, 2009, 09:23:27 AM: Just a note to say I am thinking of you, the first night I found when I lost my guess was tough and you have been in my thoughts - just wanted you to know :hug:
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Post by: Michelle (furbabystar) on April 07, 2009, 09:48:57 AM: Just topping up the love -

Hope you are "ok" Stuart xx
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Post by: LesleyW on April 07, 2009, 09:58:11 AM: So sorry to read this news Stuart, thinking of you :hug:
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Post by: Susanne (urbantigers) on April 07, 2009, 14:45:05 PM: Sorry about Misty, Stuart :hug: RIP Misty. Reuntied with Hamish now.
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Post by: Christie on April 07, 2009, 18:45:56 PM: Very sorry to hear about Misty; our most sincere condolences.
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Post by: Bonkers Mad!!! on April 07, 2009, 19:01:41 PM: i'm so sorry :'(
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Post by: ChrisB on April 07, 2009, 21:10:12 PM: Stuart, I am so sorry, you gave Misty such a wonderful life, full of love and did the very best for him and I truly believe that it was Hamish that you saw. Take care and you are in our thoughts, X
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Post by: Kirst on April 07, 2009, 21:17:02 PM: :hug: :hug: :'( :'( So very sorry.
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Post by: Debsymiller (Rufus' mum) on April 07, 2009, 21:19:51 PM: So sorry Stuart :hug: RIP Misty xxx
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Post by: hOrZa on April 07, 2009, 21:30:42 PM: :RIP: Little One :'(
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Post by: Pinkbear (Julie) on April 07, 2009, 23:35:12 PM: Stuart, I'm so sorry for your loss. :'( :'(

:candle:
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Post by: Zenith (Liz) on April 09, 2009, 17:20:09 PM: I'm so sorry :'(
Title: Re: It's Bad News - UPDATE: - R.I.P Misty - 20 May 1991 - 06 April 2009
Post by: Stuart on April 10, 2009, 00:44:14 AM: First off, THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH for all the PM's I received, and for your condolence and sympathy during this sad time..
Word's cannot express my Gratitude for the Support You wonderful Folk's have given Me :shy:

Misty was given the Steroid injection on the Saturday morning, and looking back now I actually think it made things worse
within 20 minutes of the injection, Misty kept going to His litter tray, He was still drinking, but it was plain to see He was
not taking in enough liquid to replace what He was losing :( I kept hoping the steroid injection would kick in
I don't know why the vet never mentioned anything about the Steroids Making Him wee more?? He must have known
Misty also had the CRF, as I had told Him this over the phone while He was looking at Misty's records ??

On Sunday morning, His back legs looked worse and it was very difficult for Him to stand, I found myself jumping out of the
chair every ten minutes, Helping Him to his Feet and Trying to guess where he wanted to go??
In all the year's I had Misty I'd never really had to wash Him, But Misty had weed Himself during the night, and we had no
option but to wash Him " He absolutely hated it " OH thought He may have lost control of His bladder, But Later I noticed
that He was pushing when weeing, It was like He had given up trying to stand because he was just unable to do so :(
up until the early hours Misty was still eating very well, and during the whole of sunday He'd eaten over three and a half tin's
of Sheba and some raw chicken

Like I said in an earlier post, around three am (Monday) I saw out of the corner of my eye, a shadow of a black cat creep in
through the living room door, I now honestly Believe this was Hamish coming down to be with Misty to show Him the way to
Rainbow Bridge, it was not long after that, that I noticed Misty was not as Bright as before, and was just picking at his food,
He'd take a bit, then spit it out, even the Liver treats I got sent over from the US did not seem to entice Him anymore :'(

At 9 in the Morning, I felt it was time, But I found Myself Holding back, still waiting for a miracle to happen, but it was not to be
At 2:25 Misty, cradled in my arms, was sent to the Bridge :'( :'( :'( it was very Peaceful and quick

I had planned to go away previously for a couple of days, Leaving on the Tuesday, but I knew I would have been worried sick if
Misty had not got any better by then, I would keep thinking of Him, and probably would have canceled it, but due to Misty being
sent to the Bridge, I decided I would still go, but stay in Aberdeen on Monday Night and leave from there next day instead
(It also Helped a bit by not being at Home) We Went to the Pet crematorium on the way through, and said our last Farwell to
Misty :'(

I made my way back home on Wednesday afternoon, and was about twenty minutes from Home, when this Perfectly formed
Rainbow appeared and lasted for well over 10 minutes, I couldn't hold Back the Tears :'( " Misty had sent Me a sign He'd Arrived "
walking back into the house with no furbabe to greet me did not go down well either
I went through to the crematorium today and Misty's remains are now Home next to Hamish's

Although My Heart is Breaking, I feel I am Handling Misty's passing a lot better than I did with Hamish's
I think this is mainly due to the Fact that "with Misty" I have had Plenty of warning of the inevitable, and just feel so Lucky that
He stayed another year and a half after diagnosis with the CRF. It's just so rotten that the cancer took Him in the end :'(
I also feel if it was not for the cancer Misty would still be here today.

As painful as this is just now, I keep telling myself that, Misty has had a Very Long and wonderful happy life, which was basically illness
free for the most of it, For that I am also Glad and Thankfull

It's just that the House is so damned empty and quiet now, and I feel a Big part of me is missing, I keep waiting for Misty to come in
and jump up onto my knee, but it's not going to happen :'( there's no sound of cat litter being scattered about the kitchen floor,
no sound of claws being sharpened, no one to jump into your seat when you get up to make a cuppa, no one hogging the whole of the bed
No Misty :'( :'( :'(

OH tried to tell me about a beautiful cat (Bengal) which is a rescue, But I stopped her, I feel for now it's just far too early :'(
although I will admit the thought of two Furbabes (any age or colour) Indoor cat's would appeal to me :)
but like I say, it's just far too early :(

Just taking things one day at a time for just now :shy:

Can't really think of anymore to say ATM, was going to add some story's of the thing's Misty used to get up to,
but Ill leave that for another day

I will apologise for babbling a bit ( just a habit of mine ) my brain is kinda mush just now, and it feel's better getting it out

I'm so Glad I found this forum and honored to be part of it
So Much wonderful people on here :grouphug:

THANK YOU ALL AGAIN !!

Stuart..............
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Post by: CC & The Pussycat Guys & Dolls on April 10, 2009, 01:09:35 AM: Have tears in my eyes reading that. Stuart you were a wonderfull dad to Misty and Im sure he knew that :hug:

I do think it was Hamish taking Misty home, I used to see my bridge babe after her passing :)

Take one day at a time is a good way to cope :hug:
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Post by: Gill (sneakiefeline) on April 10, 2009, 01:13:31 AM: Stuart , Misty had a fab life with you and Hamish and I am sure they will watch with interest to see who they can send to you :hug: :hug:

Its a priviledge to have you on the forum and we know how hard all of this has been but in time you will be ready to open your door and your heart to a couple of needy cats and Hamish and Misty will be gently pushing you into this .

Misty was a wonderful looking cat and I am sure he was a real terror at times but he will be thanking you now for all the good times he had with you and he will never let you forget him :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Bazsmum on April 10, 2009, 03:31:22 AM: What beautiful words for a beautiful cat from an ever loving Dad! :hug: :hug: :hug:

Wishing for the times ahead when you can look back with a smile and know your boys are smiling down on you! :Luv: :Luv: :hug:
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Post by: pappilon on April 10, 2009, 06:08:02 AM: :hug: Stuart, Hamish and Misty will always be with you in your heart. :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Janeyk on April 10, 2009, 08:16:23 AM: Stuart, what happened during those last few days with Misty were exactly what happened with Schui so I could relate to all you went through,

:hug: Thinking of you Stuart xx
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Post by: MrsR on April 10, 2009, 12:23:07 PM: :hug:
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Post by: Stuart on April 10, 2009, 12:28:57 PM: Thank You Again Guy's, I'm really Missing Him right now :'( :'( :'(

I couldn't bring Myself to take any more Photo's once He started going downhill :(

This was the Very last one I took of Misty on Saturday 4th at 2:47pm :'(
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Post by: MrsR on April 10, 2009, 12:29:53 PM: :hug:
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Post by: JackSpratt on April 10, 2009, 12:38:43 PM: Stuart, you'll never not miss him. But the good memories WILL eventually make it hurt less. :hug: I still miss Tobes a lot too, but sometimes I catch myself smiling because a tap's dripping and it reminds me of how he used to bolt to any tap he heard do that. :Luv:
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Post by: Stuart on April 10, 2009, 13:09:09 PM: Thanx Jackspratt, and I know what you mean about the smallest of thing's that bring back Memories
was just thinking yesterday, that My toes will now be safe if I accidentally stick them out from under the duvet when asleep :evillaugh:
then thought about it and I so wished that Misty was still here to claw and bite them :'(
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Post by: Janeyk on April 10, 2009, 13:14:21 PM: Quote from: Stuart (Dad to Bridgebabes Hamish & Misty) on April 10, 2009, 12:28:57 PM
Thank You Again Guy's, I'm really Missing Him right now :'( :'( :'(

I couldn't bring Myself to take any more Photo's once He started going downhill :(

This was the Very last one I took of Misty on Saturday 4th at 2:47pm :'(

:hug:
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Post by: MrsR on April 10, 2009, 13:19:53 PM: When times are hard Stuart I cuddle Sofa and Vesti's box now so I know they are still getting hugs from me and are with me and it does help. Misty is home with you now forever. To me Sofa and Vesti will always be with me now forever and that comforts me, I know they are not alone and I still talk to them all the time - anyone would think I was mad if they walked in the room sometimes but I don't care. :hug:
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Post by: Christine (Blip) on April 10, 2009, 13:33:22 PM: You gave Misty a wonderful life, Stuart, and you spared him suffering at the end. My thoughts are with you :hug:
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Post by: Tiggy's Mum on April 10, 2009, 16:12:36 PM: :grouphug:
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Post by: Michelle (furbabystar) on April 10, 2009, 17:36:40 PM: That made me cry again Stuart :hug:

Dont have anything to say that hasnt already been said !

You boys will always be with you in your heart...and when you are ready you will open up that heart and love again, You are too nice not have have another cat in your life... when you are ready xx
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Post by: Dawn F on April 14, 2009, 14:30:21 PM: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Stuart on April 09, 2013, 08:12:28 AM: Late again Misty :( ( worried about my Job )
but you know you are on my mind EVERY day
because EVERY day I miss you :'(
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Post by: Tigerlily (Allison) on April 09, 2013, 11:37:19 AM: :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Tiggy's Mum on April 09, 2013, 15:40:47 PM: Quote from: Stuart on April 09, 2013, 08:12:28 AM
Late again Misty :( ( worried about my Job )
but you know you are on my mind EVERY day
because EVERY day I miss you :'(

:grouphug:

It's remembering him in life that's important Stuart, not the day he left :hug:
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Post by: Gill (sneakiefeline) on April 09, 2013, 18:53:15 PM: :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: Jiji on April 09, 2013, 19:58:51 PM: :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Post by: pappilon on April 09, 2013, 21:12:43 PM: :hug: :hug: :hug:
:(